So yer going out to dinner..........

Now, if you are going to eat prior to the main event do you make your menu choices accordingly? Vice versa for after..

What do you find yourself doing?

if that is not possible, then I eat light.

Dessert first, then dinner and then dessert again after. WOO HOO!!!!!!

My experiences tell me that most ladies want to eat first, so hair and makeup can stay intact. The last thing I want is for her to lose concentration and fall off the trapeze because her mascara is running.  Also, if it's a first time encounter, the foreplay/banter and getting to know each other can only make the evening  much better.

My personal choice is both!

simple.

medium meal beforehand...as chances are, i havent eaten anything else during the day (i dont do breakfast, never have) and will need the energy.

then, the main event..which tends to get kinda wild.

take a breather, converse a bit...

back to some more action

hang out a bit, hydrate and have a light snack...unless..he wants to go out and grab something to eat.

chances are, back for some more action.

now, this is just a straight up time with me type date. of course, if he is taking me to see a play, or out somewhere, the middle part would be changed around.

eat medium sized meal, main event, some good sexing, hydrate, converse, some more good sexing and then, we part ways.

each situation is different. i tend to play things by ear. Everytime i try to..coordinate...it winds up going the opposite way anyways.

sigh

Olivia I like your thinking. I always say let's just go right to dessert. You get the munchies after, go have a light bite, and have more dessert.

My favorite dinner date starts out with some playtime, followed by going out for a nice dinner, then returning for some dessert.

I think it's nice to have the make out session
over a glass of wine in the room before dinner , lots of flirting that you can take to the dinner table while getting to know each other...

After, choose to have dessert back at your room
( room service or take out) so you can both indulge  in more ways than one.

A little more wine with dessert ontop of dessert
back at the room and who knows perhaps extended
hours?

XO
Ang

The hell with the restaurant. Great place to stay with excellent room service and I just keep the buffet flowing.

If we end up planning to go out.....

If it's before....I try to keep it (4 me) to lean proteins and veg...not much carbs ('cept vino...)..Fruit as well......

Same with in the "middle".

Afterwards.......no holds barred. That's where a great steakhouse comes in handy.

A little activity before is always nice to get the juices flowing. I like the initial meeting in private with a whole lot of kissing and something to let me know what dessert will be waiting in the room for me after dinner. I also like playtime in the car on our way. Finding little hidden corners to steal a kiss and some naughty tease is fun to.

Back in the room playtime after dinner helpful hints...If you have pussy for dessert you will save yourself from eating 500 to 1500 calories. If you add a little sex for a real rich topping you'll burn half your dinner calories.


Kisses Haley

I love dinner dates and like to start out with a sample of some yummy dessert with some champagne, then off to dinner (something light) then back to the cabana for dessert and the firework show.

But to each their own..

xxoo
Kara Keys

I prefer to eat after the main event. A big meal before sex just doesn't work for me and my ATF absolutely prefers it as well.  If it's another lady I give her the choice but if it's before the sex I always make it a light meal and no red meat.

an appetizer before we go out to dinner...then Enjoy a nice lite dinner...with lots of unseen foreplay...lol...and Enjoyable conversation...and then afterwards...We can head back...and I Will lay out the dessert

I've done many dinner (and lunch) dates.  We usually enjoy "playing" before going out to dine (it's a good way to build up an appetite ...LOL), then later we return to our room for "dessert".  

Typically, we prefer to eat light for obvious reasons ...LOL.

-TheKarateKid-

I prefer dinner dates that are long enough to play before and after. The whole ebb and flow thing is pretty fun.

How about this: a recent date, we did dessert, dinner (and dessert during dinner...I love Vegas and restaurants with dark corners and table cloths that hang on the floor!) and then back at the room, dessert again. I have not yet figured out what the hell we ate for dinner.

Toothbrush/paste and mouthwash
Then it doesn't matter what I eat ...



xoxoxo
Sage

Dinner dates are my shortest times

Some foods take longer to settle than others. This is one reason why my evenings are totally open ended. Steak needs more time than sushi to digest before you're up to anything BHD. Sometimes, dessert with coffee is in order...

In my experience, what is eaten doesn't matter as long as the dinner isn't on a tight schedule (if you tell me you only have an hour to eat and 3 hours total, I am going to recommend Tapas or lighter fare than Italian pasta).

Eating slowly and sensuously, getting to know someone... creates a deeper connection and very enjoyable, naturally flowing, experience.

Just my opinion and experience...

I try to nail her both before and after dinner. Besides, she can have me for her meal!