There was a thread not long ago about providers oversharing their political views on Twitter, and how this might turn off potential clients. I don't care about providers and politics, though I understand people are easily triggered by it. So that's not an issue for me.

I think it's one of those situations where "There's a time and place for everything"

I also agree, a time & a place for everything. Don't poke a sleeping dog.

Twitter is great. Let's assume I see a provider tweet as you give in your example: DISMISSED.

I appreciate a woman whose not afraid to say what's on her mind.  Her tweets will sometimes remind me of things not to do if I'm interested and decided to reach out to her.  

from being on twitter.
I don't stalk too much though. I look at what information is available to help me have a good date.

There are providers I know that are beyond sweet on twitter all the time and people love it! Then there are providers who call out disrespectful behavior or things in this field (would we call it field?) that are absolutely dumbfounding. However, because it's their personality, it's expected and people love it! Then there are providers who are in the middle and people love it!

It's true that a twitter personality can make me like them more or like them less, but really it doesn't have much effect on who I would chose to see.  There's quite a discussion on this topic outside in these confines, but basically I agree with the proposition that whereas women are driven by biological evolution to desire men with status and achievement, their assumption that men therefore desire women of achievement it the same way is mostly false.

Actually getting to KNOW a person may ruin the FANTASY of what the provider has worked so hard to project  
through pretty pictures and paid sales scripts on websites.

is the little lady given permission to get REAL and let out the REAL person who lives in the BODY.
Note that word, "lives", she is ALIVE.  
Being A LIVE human being comes with a MIND.

I like the mind and knowing what I hope is the real person.

and this doesn't just apply to hookers, but I think it "especially" applies to them.

If a potential client is offended by me "bitching" about certain behaviors, it's likely because he's guilty of at least some of them. That, or he just doesn't like providers who have strong opinions. The thing about Twitter (at least in the context of this industry) is that it gives a glimpse into what we're like beyond the flowery language in our ads. If a guy decides he doesn't want to see me because I tweet that it's lame to text me with "r u avail" at 11:30pm on a Wednesday night, there's no way in hell he'd like my personality outside of the interwebs. So by expressing myself through that particular outlet, I've saved both myself as well as this hypothetical dude lots of time and, in his case, money.  

Use it as a screening tool. If a provider displays negative behavior or behavior you don't like, don't see them. Just use it as another screening tool if they have one. You can't control what providers will and won't post and there no reason to.

...I really like your brand of cuntiness. 😎

yet,
they're doing it.

except,

Well said.

Not that the young beautiful ones don't tweet, it's just that the Twatter crowd tends to be made up mainly by the OTHFBC. I chalk that up the fact that it takes a while to get THAT fucking bitter about one's job. The young ones are rarely that jaded. Now of course not all hookers get jaded like that, Slut that you are, you seem to be perfectly capable of having a great attitude after all these years, kudos to you. Come to think of it, "most" of my hooker buddies are all well over thirty.  

What on earth are you talking about?

A lot of things exist that aren't useful. You sound like someone who says, "Yeah, theoretically you wouldn't want B.O. as a salesmen, but salesmen with B.O. exist and they're not all starving, therefore..."

There's no reason to think the numbers balance out. You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

This isn't like there's a show on at 9:30 on Tuesday that I don't like, so I can just not tune in that night at that time. You don't know ahead of time what you'll be turned off by. And once you've been turned off by it, it's too late. You've already seen it.  

"If a potential client is offended by me 'bitching' about certain behaviors, it's likely because he's guilty of at least some of them"

I hear what you're saying, but I was looking at it from an advice to providers about how best to present themselves angle.

This is one of those "Ladies don't try this at home" type of situations, but some women can pull off cuntiness while the overwhelming majority cannot.

I'll take your word for it. Of course, that doesn't mean she knows what she's talking about vis-a-vis clients reactions to bitchy tweets. Because if she can pull it off, others can't. And when clients read providers who can't pull it off, they aren't necessarily offended because it "hits too close to home," or however you might put it.

...all you have to do if you don't like what they have to say is to unfollow them.

Am I going soft or something lately that I didn't even get a shout out?

I've worked quite hard to cultivate said cuntiness, though much of it is surely innate. Perhaps one day there will be a controlled study on the nature vs. nurture argument with respect to the cunty arts.

Bitchy maybe, but not cunty. I think TT has even trademarked the term. lol

There are many hot girls out there that want money, so how hard is it to move on to the next rather than whining or asking everyone to Tweet to your liking?

but I will concede you have not only mastered the cunty arts, but have truly turned into an art form of itself.

You're exactly right: the razor's edge is very thin and a random tweet may very well lead a potential client to choose my competitor over me. I guess what I was trying to say in a very verbose way is that I don't give a shit.

I'm proud that I can bring out the BSU in you!

...seems you're not beyond sucking up once in a while yourself. 😎

So I could generally care less about whether or not a post I make puts someone in their "feelings". Nobody is going to police my behavior.  

So where do I stand in the BSU rankings? lol

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I'm not offended when someone tweets that they hate the review system at TER, but I will probably pass on that provider. I remember the disappointing quality of the average appointment before there were online reviews, and I don't want to go back to those days. I understand that some guys misuse the review system, but overall it seems to work to the advantage of both the johns and the better providers. So I assume that anybody who dislikes the online reviews has something to hide, like maybe Russian attitude or hygiene problems or a tendency to end the appointment right after a pop.

ironically, not every provider has bedside manner

you could call it a field

"Seriously, though, I can't think of a single example of something a chick may tweet in reference to lame behavior that would offend anyone other than those who are guilty of said behavior."

"Must Miss List" - the most dreaded list for all providers.

Tell him to get off his lazy, sun soaked manwhore butt and come visit. lol.  

it's fair to ask people to act professional

and if you are still standing, the next 20 are on me too.

I'm confused.  Is there something wrong with your keyboard so that whenever you type "me" it comes out as "men"?  And does that keyboard also autocorrect "this guy" with "guys"?

I'll say yes on Alex's behalf anyhow. I can just imagine what kind of trouble three of us could get into.

I can see how it may appear confusing to see one tweet claiming to hate hobbyist and everything about the hobby and then the next tweet soliciting business. Honestly, I see twitter as a beneficial tool for the ladies and the gents. You get to screen each other and make sure you are compatible before hand. If you don't like women who stand up for themselves and are open about not wanting to engage with a culture that is disrespectful, negligent and misogynistic then I completely understand why seeing tweets of this nature would be a turn off. I see it as a win-win. You don't have to spend your money seeing someone who finds your behavior repulsive and she doesn't have to risk being ridiculed and scorned. I think it is important to realize that while sex workers do work in a service industry, our business relies heavily on the connections we make. Minimizing the amount of people who we are not compatible with will only maximize our success.