Trying to get a pulse for how many legit LMT would consider providing, even at a basic level (hj).  

I have been going fairly regularly to the same girl for years.  I've never tried anything.  But of course, I am laying there naked, she's rubbing my butt.  How can I not think of it?

How do you gently indicate an interest, without crossing the line?  I've thought about when I am laying on my stomach, positioning my penis downward, visible to her and accessible to her hands.  I've also wondered, what if I just got hard, and then embarrassedly apologize, to see what she'd do.

My gut tells me, to ignore it, and let providers provide, and keep my legit massage legit.  But I thought I'd share my thoughts, and see if anyone has experience with a successful ploy.

I have a very good friend who is a LMT and she had an issue with a guy who asked (solicited) for sexual services. She wired up and he got into serious trouble for doing that. There are FBSM ladies for that. Don't cross that line because you may live to regret it.

I've been in a similar position a few times. Here somethings that I've tried, with varying degress of success.

1. Ask if other guys ask for extras. You can get a sense of where she is at by her answer.

2. Treat is like you would a civilian. First a touch on the arm, then a rub on the shoulder, then move in for a kiss. Go slow and give her a chance to stop you.

3. Outright ask. If you have a good relationship and ask in a respectful manner, you should be OK. A LMT doesn't want hassles with LE so if she is not interested a simple 'NO' will be where it ends.

I've been lucky enough to develop a sexual relationship with a LMT. Wow.

Good luck.

A LMT has invested significant time and money into getting that credential---including extensive training and passing a state mandated medical exam. Depending on where sh/e is practicing, 'providing' any kind of sexual service is grounds for loss of that licence and possibly criminal charges.

I doubt any LMT is going to be surprised, in any way, by a guy getting a woodie. But, I can only imagine how annoying, if not plain embarrassing it must be to have guys on the table asking, hinting, or otherwise, trying to work some 'ploy' to get a HJ. (which is probably common). There is no ploy.

Think of this as asking your DR for a BJ when you go in for a prostate exam.

If you want a happy ending, go see a gal who advertises them.

I get lots of legit massages, and never* once have I gotten lucky.  The therapists are very careful to not give off any vibes (No direct looking at you, always covering up the naughty parts, etc.)  Especially if it is a salon with several theapist, you won't find any sexual activity there at all.

*OK, once I got lucky.  The gal was an independent down in West Palm Beach.  She gave me a smile, so I popped the question.  She said no way as LE was very strict down there, and she used to give all kinds of sexual services, but got popped herself and wouldn't ever do it again.  So I decided no harm, it was a neat massage anyways.  Then after about 10 minutes, she said:  "Oh, what the hell, you seem like a nice guy."  She led me over to the bedroom and fucked the shit out of me for over an hour.  She asked for only $150 more too.  (About 15 years ago.)  I tipped her an extra C note.

Legit parlors are just that - legit. I travel quite a bit and have been in a ton of spas and never once have I even come remotely close to getting lucky.

And if you ask, changes are you'll be humiliated as you're asked to leave immediately and banned. These girls or places wouldn't risk it in a thousand years or for $1,000 that you're not undercover anyway. If someone's not legit, trust me - you'll be asked.

If you want to get jerked off, see a provider.

Don't try it or expect it. Legit massage therapists are used to guys getting hard. It happens all the time and it's no big deal. If you have been going to a legit massage person for years and nothing has happened, you should expect it to stay that way.

It's part of their training.

I have had some success in getting sensual massage from LMTs, but the hit ratio is pretty awful.  Your best bet is just to ask if they have ever considered combining sensual with the therapeutic.

What I've always said is that there are very few LMTs that do this, and that sensual bodyrub girls are great at the HJ but lousy at massage.  And that those who combine the two are a rare find in this world.

A very popular attractive LMT in Orange County heard this for years from me and others and started doing both in the last few years.  She doesn't get topless or nude, and she does a great therapeutic followed by a sensual release.  In her words, "my business tripled overnight."

I am talking about doing this with an independent provider, not at a spa.

My LMT makes it very clear on her website that any sexual activity will not be tolerated, and result in immediate termination of the massage.  Her license to make a living is hanging in the balance and any LMT should act 100% professional if they are making a career of it.  And the way she makes me feel is way better than any escort could!  She's got the magic hands for sure.