I have recently seen a few new girls around younger 20s, im almost 63 (I look 50s). Honestly, if there are any young girls  how do you feel about this? I tend to think to much, I treat them right but always have that thing nagging me in the back of my brain... "why are they ok being with this old guy?"  

They're OK being with the old guy because you're paying them, end of story.

This is the exact fantasy for some clients. They’re adults and chose this as their profession. As long as you’re paying them and treating them well, I see no issue.

"why are they ok being with this old guy?"
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And you still havent figured this out?

I have always been attracted to older men, but I do not think it's the norm. My Father married a woman my age & now she's a widow. I'm still close with his beloved it's extremely sad because after five years she has never been able to move on.  

Oh darn QB, I guess I am out of the running then since I am bald.

Amigo, we're about the same age. I obviously can't speak for 20-something women, but as an older player, may I humbly suggest you sit back and enjoy the ride.

Omg I got excited just fantasizing about it lol don't count yourself out. I love older bald men too!

Unless its that bald woman from Star Trek 1. Then...maybe. lol.
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Dont ever question pure and utter perfection.

… the women who aren’t OK being with older than will simply have a written or unwritten “no older men” policy. If she’s willing to see you, and she’s not a survival worker or being trafficked, you can reasonably assume that she’s not hating it.

You added that insightful bit of nuance which was so needed in this discussion. Spot on Claire.

Doesn’t enjoy being with older men

...young or old, ugly or hot, of various ethnicity/gender, as long that that client is polite, considerate, courteous, safe and generous. It's a job. Period. Although it's pretty doubtful that they're going to be with a 63-year-old in their free time, enjoy the time you've paid for and don't overthink it.

I love older men.

How old are you? Just curious.

extremely bald and men who are extremely balled. You choose.  Lol

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Absolutely. Add “hygienic” to that list - I shouldn't be able to smell your breath, pits, skin folds, groin or ass crack.

getting thin on top from early on and almost always drew the ladies!
If not every time!

You beat me to it.

Think of it as a glorified massage! You pay the provider for a one hour fantasy service. We are their clients! That doesn’t mean they are with us or they agreed to have dinner with us! We all have clients in business;  some who we like more than others. I think providers just have to get over the “ick” factor that comes with clients they don’t like. In addition, providers create a fantasy for their clients, and the good ones can provide that same fantasy to a ripped 25 year old hunk or an aging 65 year old! God bless them for having that ability and enjoy the ride!

When I was younger and in my first adulthood, I was mostly trying to figure things out, doing my research, living life with a much smaller wallet. I'm now well into my second adulthood and I know who I am, and that matters in all things. Plus, I sport a bigger wallet. Try to savor the moment, this ride gets shorter with each breath.

I've always had a thing for older men, so it's not something I had to wrap my head around. Being able to live out one of my favorite porn categories is definitely a plus. No daddy issues over here for those who are wondering. If anything, the biggest mental block I had when I was younger, was assuming everyone was looking at us while out on public dates. I know this has happened before as I have caught people mid stare or whisper. Usually they try to quickly turn their head or the talking immediately stops. I realized that while some might notice, none of them have the audacity to actually say something to us. Some (men and women) are probably wishing they could do it too. I also realized that most people are so focused on themselves that they don't notice you unless you are making a scene.