A lot of reviews indicate the provider wasn't a clock watcher. I assume that means she wasn't a stickler for the session going beyond the agreed time. But what do most providers expect when the session is for, say, an hour? When does the session actually start in your mind, when you greet each other, or when physical contact occurs, or something else? And when do you expect the guy to leave, at the end of 60 minutes? I guess what I'm asking, is whether an hour is a "door to door" hour, or just a rough approximation of the length of the session. I’ve found myself feeling distracted toward the end of a session, because I was worried about running over time and annoying the provider. I know every provider is different, but I wondered what some of you felt about this.
Plain and simple. The way I look at it, the clock starts when I cross the threshold of the door. Sure you can get distracted during the session, but try to be aware of what time it is. A few minutes over usually doesn't matter. But if you are fifteen or twenty minutes over, you have over-stayed your welcome and time to get your butt out of there. And it never hurt to leave a tip if you have over-stayed your welcome.
Well put Ken. V.C., what is infered by the term "Not a clock watcher" is that the lady is not starting to push you or encourage you to shower & leave after 40 minutes. The kind & polite ladies (whom I have had the luck of only experiencing)are usually leaving the move out the door to you. Don't take advantage, you know how long it will take to get yourself together to leave. These ladies want your repeat busines ( good ones at least) so they won't be rude. Don't force them to be.
An hour starts when you cross the threshold... seems like common sense, but what happens when you walk in, greet the provider and she excuses herself to the bathroom... then doesn't come out for 10 minutes, then calls to check in and rambles on the phone for a couple of minutes... asks you to take a quick shower... and then wants some "get to know you " talk before she finally lays a hand on you.
Maybe this sounds like it doesn't happen often, but I think it happens quite frequently. I had a recent experience like that and it was close to 30 minutes after I crossed the threshold before anything happened. Now that's not a full hour and shouldn't be counted as such.
Although I have never been a clock watcher, an hour is an hour --from the time either she arrives at your door or you arrive at her door. Don't take it personally, but if providers gave away extra half-hour sessions every time, we'd never make it to something else we might have scheduled (and that doesn't necessarily mean another client). Plus, if you were an attorney or a consultant, wouldn't you bill me for my time?
An hour usually starts for me at the exchange of funds .. that's when I,we have decided that something is going to happen .. I will also casually make a comment about what time it is (for a reference starting point)... if we are enjoying ourselves then I will leave it up to her when our time is up ... I have had providers stay over anywhere from 15 mins. to 2 1/2 hours over our agreed time.... so I usually leave it up to the provider about our time once we hit the hour mark ... sometimes I will even mention it if we are getting close just to feel them out ... but sometimes the bubblebath and company is just to good to leave ... as for tipping I never have. I also have never done an incall which may have different limits.
I wish I was that lucky... I never had a provider throw me a bone like that.. 60 minutes and you're out.. nice and all but 60 minutes,there is that Knock at the door.. and you got to go. My problem is, and I wish providers give us a break.. after the donation have been given, there is around 5 to 10 minutes of "i'll be right back" where they had to go and stash it away, and always the chat with someone else about x and y, meantime , you are laying there naked waiting.. she may say sorry I'm back now, but if you got there 5PM and now is 5:17 , make no mistake about it, at 6PM the knock knock comes. Did I mentioned about some providers who also like to talk and talk for a good 10 15 minutes menatime, you looking at the clock and say, when is this gonna start... I been loking into 1 1 /5 to 2 hours deal intead even if it is more money..
First, sounds like your doing the incall or brothel most of the time. I always perfer outcall it takes away some of your problems already since they are coming to you and your at ease because you know your surroundings, it can also put you in the lead so to speak instead of following her.
Secondly, cut the chatter .. most ladies love to give you a massage ... reverse this .. give her the massage as you talk .. that way your touching, caressing, fondling as you listen to her day ... I have her sit in front of me naked on the edge of the bed .. and let her ask questions while I knead her sore muscles ... then slide under to cradle a breast or two while rolling a hard nipple .. from there it's lying her down .. soft kisses as I make my way down inhale a nipple, dragging my tongue over her belly till finally I'm at the "Y" and dinner is served. Total time 5-10 mins. You can take it from there. hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be......
Providers who kick you out earlier forget that payment is for their time. If I could pop once every minute, then you're gonna get sixty pops baby! If I leave early its 'cause I'm exhausted or I've got something better to do. My choice.
Dudes, providers aren't there for their health. They're trying to make a living. A deal's a deal. Don't get greedy and overstay your welcome. Of course, we're not robots and its not an exact science but you should be monitoring the time. The pants should be gettin' pulled up around 55 minutes in.
Just wanted to share a funny experience. I did a rare (for me)incall last year with a provider who had turned the clock in her motel room forward about ten or fifteen minutes. I didn't notice the time on the clock when I arrived, but when the provider mentioned that the clock said 55 minutes after the hour, I thought the time had gone rather quickly (it usually does anyway.)
After I left the room, I checked the real time and had a good laugh. I haven't seen her again, of course.
I wouldn't expect "not a clock watcher" to mean she was staying beyond the hour. This tends to mean (IMHO anyway) that she wasn't getting dressed and headed for the door after you popped 30 minutes into the hour.
If she has intention of hanging out for the full 60 minutes, be it for conversation, massage, another shot on goal, whatever you'd like since it's your time, then I'd consider her not a clockwatcher.
Sure you may get the occasional lady who runs past her time but that is the exception for "non clockwatchers" not the norm.
I don't do one hour appts for that reason. Plus, I don't want to have to install revolving doors on my room. LOL! I'm sure two hours deter a lot of gentlemen, but how could you provide a GFE and make a connection in less time with more people.
Keeping track of time is different than watching the minutes pass. Some guys I have such a great time with that I've stayed over. I just love gentlemen.
What you're supposed to mean by 'not a clock watcher' is that if you're not DONE in an hour, she doesn't say "honey. your time is up" or - just as bad - "Baby, we have to hurry this up because your time is up"
If you ARE done in an hour .... you should have the common courtesy to think her, get dressed and LEAVE.
For me the hour can be 60 minutes or in some cases it has been 90 minutes. It just depends on the session and how the chemistry is for me. There are instances where 30 minutes of the session was spent chatting and laughing so of course I do not expect them to leave 30 minutes later because I too am enjoying myself. Scheduling also is a mitigating factor for me... if I don't have someone else scheduled for an hour after your appointment is over, then I have no problem with the session running over. That's just my .02
'Put your hand on a hot stove for one minute, it feels like an hour. Be in the company of a beautiful woman, it feels like a minute. THAT's relativity.' paraphrasing Einstien
I think that being a stickler for time is completely YMMV....the more pleasant you are (aside from the providers personal or professional obligations after you), the less time is watched.
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