When I see a duo, I love to see them use a strapon with each other. But on a first date, I find myself being euphimistic to the point of abstraction. 9 out of 10 times they get it. After that, a gentle reminder is all that's needed.
For those rare non-duo dates, I sometimes ask a lady to bring a "toy she's comfortable using on herself". Again, I try to be discreet in first-time encounters. I do truly enjoy watching a woman play with herself.
Dildo’s, cock rings, kinky dice, floggers, butt plugs, etc. I always have a goody bag just in case an individual is seeking more, than a vanilla encounter. If you love sex toys, do ask the provider before the date? I realize many are shy & do not share their desires when booking. Adult fun should not be limited to ordinary.
your toy box, you should explain to the ladies and gents here what sterilization steps you go through to insure you are not transferring diseases from one customer to another. I've heard of people using a dishwasher in order to get high temps, but it seems that might melt some of the materials that toys are made from, so what do you do to make sure that there is zero tolerance for any chance of contamination from one customer to the next. For me, that should the first step to using the same toys with multiple people. I'm anxious to hear about your protocols as an expert.
Or this thread will go off the rails once we get into this whole health protocol thing. The health aspect will come in time and on a side bar. Chill out and lighten up man.
I have met providers that did not know much about keeping their toys clean that are being used on multiple customers. She's an expert, because she was a Domme before she was an escort, and cleanliness is a subject that is important to the use of toys, so while you may not be concerned about sterilization, I think that are others who are. It's not an easy subject to bring up, but I'm not shy. Consider mine the first post for the "side-bar" thread you seem to agree is appropriate. You're welcome.
You'll have your audience and I'm sure they'll appreciate your vast Knowledge based on the Millions of ladies you've seen.There you can explain to the class on the proper method on how to sanitize a dildo. Hazmat suit vs Dishwasher, Kaboom vs Mister Clean....lol I'll give you the last word.
I'm not an expert on toy cleaning, but I assume as a Domme, she is. That's why I asked HER what she does to clean them. Are you turning into one of those board Nazis that try to tell other people when and where to post and what topics they can and can't talk about? It seems YOU are the one that needs a chill pill. Why is it that you think safety is not an appropriate topic when toys are being discussed? Do you just wipe yours off on the curtain and throw it in the drawer, or what? Lol If you already have anal warts then it probably doesn't matter to you, and that would explain your dismissive tone about safety.
About her bringing or me bringing toys.I wanna get a feel after we meet to gauge her possible interest. I usually have a small butt plug, and a dildo just incase if all is going well. Then when I get a feel that she could be game, I'll intro her to my gadgets. But the intro is done in a very innocent playful manner after we're done with out intimate first encounters. What's cool is that on our seconds dates, most chicks wip out their goodie bag, And that shit is usually off the charts..Big Ol 12' BC....lol
When I see a duo, I love to see them use a strapon with each other. But on a first date, I find myself being euphimistic to the point of abstraction. 9 out of 10 times they get it. After that, a gentle reminder is all that's needed.
For those rare non-duo dates, I sometimes ask a lady to bring a "toy she's comfortable using on herself". Again, I try to be discreet in first-time encounters. I do truly enjoy watching a woman play with herself.
If you love sex toys, do ask the provider before the date?
No, because these types of questions are usually frowned upon by providers which may end the communication or worse. It's always best to ask them in person.
I have no issue with discussing your desires prior to playtime after you’ve been vetted. Many people do not have another opportunity to meet. Waiting until the second sessions would be cheating yourself of the maximum fun the first time. Proper planning prevents poor performance. I like to be prepared to fulfill any fantasies one may have during the time booked. I take clothing, hair, make-up & nail requests because I want to make the best impression possible during our first encounter.
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