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Transitional Services
JustAGal See my TER Reviews 645 reads
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On one hand you are fighting the good cause, on another .... your emphasis on "recovery" gives impression that sex workers are powerless, addicted to sex work and all they need is 12 step program.

" In our 1st Step - we say "we admitted we were  powerless over the sex industry - and that our lives had become unmanageable".  "


Nowhere on your site could I find references to any practical help you offer to women and men trying to transition from sex industry.

So while I support your efforts, I would prefer to see something that could actually HELP those who want to quit sex work.

sexworkrecovery 1940 reads
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Just an FYI - if you know of anyone who needs some help to quit and/or recover from being in the sex industry or as a trafficking victim - please put them in touch with Sex Workers Anonymous

JustAGal See my TER Reviews 456 reads
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and I see absolutely nothing on their website that relates to those issues.

They collect donations and sell Recovery Guide .  I would like to see how those funds are spent.

Is it spent to provide temporary housing for sex workers in transition?  Medical testing?  Education? Day care services for single moms in the industry?



bluepillman 423 reads
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TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 433 reads
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Every thread?
I just fucking reviewed a girl for Christ sake!
Okay I'll post something really macho, and homophobic..
BTW
You can fuck with me all you want.
I don't ignore or report.
I think it's funny!
But to put that on this thread is in poor taste.
Kind of a dick move there.
Just sayin'

no_email 3 Reviews 539 reads
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Much like a church, religion, or 12 step. I don't like to detract from any organizations work when they are helping people . Although the majority of these groups, have an our way or the highway approach. Wihch will only help people while they choose to believe.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 374 reads
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Perhaps you should speak with Sharon Mitchell who ran A.I.M.  One of the salient features of her program was providing services for those who wanted to transition to the mainstream economy.

CincinnatiGuy 2 Reviews 501 reads
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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 462 reads
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I agree. Hookers for Jesus is the one I give funds to on a regular basis, because they do in fact provide housing and get women ready for real world jobs, not just tell them to quit without knowing what that might mean. A woman with 3 children she was left supporting on her own, is not just going to up and quit unless someone offers her a better option...that has nothing to do with addiction, but survival. If you can't help her and her children survive...what's the point of preaching?

Some women here can go out tomorrow and get a corporate job, but they choose not to for whatever reason. I think these programs were designed for women who truly have no other options job skills, or education, and I think that is a great thing. I too, would like to see just what "help" is available. I am more of an "action type" gal myself, so skip the bs and start walking the walk. You can't just send women to some website or hand them a pamphlet when we are talking about tossing thousands of dollars a month...you have to GIVE THEM a better option.

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 408 reads
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there aren't many options that can come close to the cash flow this business can provide. I've met several providers that have becoming a realtor as their next step. Good luck with that!

bluepillman 433 reads
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Many women could leave today, but choose to stay for many reason we have discussed on many occasions. But getting out now, or any time in the last 6 years, has been the most difficult time to transition than any other since the Great Depression probably. While I do applaud this groups efforts if sincere, I just dont know what they would propose as options to a single mom with a child or two and no SO or other means of support.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 338 reads
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He got upset. So being the valiant half gay guy I am.
I removed it.
Don't stamp your feet.
You my boy Blue!

-- Modified on 2/26/2013 3:20:20 PM

sensuality64 20 Reviews 316 reads
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and any one of us would help a lady in need. Personally, I think this is an inappropriate place for this ad. i have seen them on backpage, where they belong, but this site is dedicated to professionals. IMHO

-- Modified on 2/26/2013 3:04:37 PM

bluepillman 324 reads
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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 336 reads
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bluepillman 356 reads
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TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 432 reads
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Ok I settled down.
I stand corrected.

This thread really doesn't belong here does it?

bluepillman 397 reads
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Lighten up hound! This a fk board. Take your bra and panties off, get your cherry flavored lube out and rub one out. But please stop acting like a total jackass and get a thicker skin or go play on the newbie board.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 370 reads
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That was no good?
Bwhahahaha!
C'mon Blue! That was a joke.

Thick skin? But I'm not the one who PM'd me crying to remove a thread.

BTW.
How did you know I wear a bra on my head?

-- Modified on 2/26/2013 3:47:33 PM

bluepillman 390 reads
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bluepillman 395 reads
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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 439 reads
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elusive1two 371 reads
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Other then more work. I would think someone who is being forced to do this would'nt be spending much time  looking at this crazi Board. And the twisted banter.

WondersOfTheWrld 304 reads
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put food on the table, and for some ladies who have no other options. Where are the resources for them?

That's like saying to anyone with a job, "buy this self help book to get over your addiction of being a carpenter, but here are no resources, just read this book, quit your job and go broke."

yea right!

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 384 reads
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...last September, Obama handed over a lot of money for this cause...YaY
Aside from the resources below, individuals seeking help may also be eligible for TANF, AFDC, Food Stamps and many more other programs.
The resources are there, it's just a matter of informing others of what's available and what their options are.

http://www.polarisproject.org/state-map

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mobileweb/2012/09/25/obama-human-trafficking-cgi_n_1913051.html

~Peace & Love~

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 366 reads
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were we, as a community, could help someone that really needs it.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO? Nothing or Something?

We can be part of the solution or part or part of the problem...choose wisely..;-)

~Peace & Love~

hott_brie See my TER Reviews 342 reads
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Posted By: London Rayne
I agree. Hookers for Jesus is the one I give funds to on a regular basis, because they do in fact provide housing and get women ready for real world jobs, not just tell them to quit without knowing what that might mean. A woman with 3 children she was left supporting on her own, is not just going to up and quit unless someone offers her a better option...that has nothing to do with addiction, but survival. If you can't help her and her children survive...what's the point of preaching?

Some women here can go out tomorrow and get a corporate job, but they choose not to for whatever reason. I think these programs were designed for women who truly have no other options job skills, or education, and I think that is a great thing. I too, would like to see just what "help" is available. I am more of an "action type" gal myself, so skip the bs and start walking the walk. You can't just send women to some website or hand them a pamphlet when we are talking about tossing thousands of dollars a month...you have to GIVE THEM a better option.
I concur with London and DDD Babe.  These women have to have options and alternatives to sex work like a job of some sort that can pay enough for them to be able to provide for themselves and/or children.  So, they would need access to food, housing, medical care while they are training for a regular job.  

The thing with sex workers anonymous that bugs me is that they seem to think we are addicted to being a sex worker.  I mean I do know of some nymphs in the business, but very few are actually addicted to sex work.  I think it's more like an addiction or a dependence on the money which is the issue that no one seems to want to tackle.  I would honestly like to see women have viable economic alternatives in their lives so that if they get into sex work, they are truly and willingly making that choice and not because it's the only job they can get that will get them enough money to survive on.  In other words, it shouldn't be the only alternative to low paying, menial jobs.

I've had minimum wage type jobs when I was going to college, and I don't think people have a real appreciation for how taxing on your spirit those jobs really are.  What does go on in these jobs can be horrendous.  I've seen and been on the end of abuse from customers.  I've seen co-workers get into fist fights with each other.  I've seen people having to live our of their cars or with at least 3 or 4 roommates who are completed disorderly and out of control.  I would say that after a couple of years, you can get promoted to assistant manager and then manager.  But, it is a slow painful process, and there aren't too many people who want to deal with it in general and not just sex workers.

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