: TER General Board Discussion : To suck or not to suck....

Unloved 8 Reviews 2428 reads

posted 11 years ago

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This question is for the providers mostly.

As I was reading the thread about how often a provider sees their client and says to herself " I'm not getting paid enough"!

Well to take it a step further.... What makes a good lover? What do you consider good DATY? What do you consider a good romp in the hay? Gentle, firm, slow, deliberate, fast? Do you like breast play? And what makes a good kisser?

In the prior thread a few providers described or eluded to either good or bad lovers... But I would like to know what is that?

I'm genuinely curious, since I'm in the "mutual admiration" camp. Any tips from the providers?

-- Modified on 9/20/2014 9:38:24 AM

Skinny_Minnie:-) 607 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Practice makes perfect

There's no one-answer-fits-all with sex. Every woman likes something different. Get lots of practice and then you can pick up on non-verbal cues such as: her pussy is really wet, she closes her eyes, nipples get erect, etc.

Women (generally) take longer to have an orgasm than men do. So take your time. Don't do DATY for only 30 seconds. Do it for 5 minutes at least. Then fck her. Then do it again. Repeat. Lol. Lick, don't suck. Fuck hard, but lick soft.

Unloved 8 Reviews 524 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: Practice makes perfect

Yeah pretty much what I've experienced- everyone seems different. Communication is the key I thin

89Springer 366 reads

posted 11 years ago

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What if she says she likes sucking more than licking?

eom

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cocktail-party 320 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Then she should speak up. -e-

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hbyist+truth=;( 460 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Ugghhh I swear you are so right

I have no issue with letting a guy know what won't irritate me but when they refuse to listen I have a short fuse and once they have crossed that line, I stop whatever it is they are doing

MasterZen 33 Reviews 395 reads

posted 11 years ago

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LOL!!! "Fuck Hard, Lick Soft"...

A motto for the ages. I want it on my family coat of arms!! Can I use it? Please?

Unloved 8 Reviews 340 reads

posted 11 years ago

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In that order?!.... EOM

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EZlikeSunMornin 6 Reviews 472 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Yep, if you just Listen and Watch, it's as easy as...

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Katie_krush See my TER Reviews 434 reads

posted 11 years ago

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everyone likes different things.

So don't assume that every girl likes it the same way. I think what makes a good lover is feeling the other person's energy and communicating with it. Having good rhythm. I think asking if they like something or what they like is good too.

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 248 reads

posted 11 years ago

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+1 eom

Posted By: AlysonParker

The best partners are those who throw out the idea of one size fits all sex and watches and listens for cues or, better yet, asks what I like.

Bad sex, for me, is when someone has an agenda or is so stuck on how things should be done to me that even if I say I don't like it, they won't do anything else because they are so bent on doing what is in their head or they are going to "convince" me that I'll like it.

Posted By: Unloved

This question is for the providers mostly.

As I was reading the thread about how often a provider sees their client and says to herself " I'm not getting paid enough"!

Well to take it a step further.... What makes a good lover? What do you consider good DATY? What do you consider a good romp in the hay? Gentle, firm, slow, deliberate, fast? Do you like breast play? And what makes a good kisser?

In the prior thread a few providers described or eluded to either good or bad lovers... But I would like to know what is that?

I'm genuinely curious, since I'm in the "mutual admiration" camp. Any tips from the providers?

-- Modified on 9/20/2014 9:38:24 AM

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 519 reads

posted 11 years ago

12 / 12

I'm only going to show you how to do this one more time

And I'm not responsible for the bruising caused by clients with paws ...

-- Modified on 9/21/2014 4:17:48 PM