The best partners are those who throw out the idea of one size fits all sex and watches and listens for cues or, better yet, asks what I like.
Bad sex, for me, is when someone has an agenda or is so stuck on how things should be done to me that even if I say I don't like it, they won't do anything else because they are so bent on doing what is in their head or they are going to "convince" me that I'll like it.
Posted By: Unloved
This question is for the providers mostly.
As I was reading the thread about how often a provider sees their client and says to herself " I'm not getting paid enough"!
Well to take it a step further.... What makes a good lover? What do you consider good DATY? What do you consider a good romp in the hay? Gentle, firm, slow, deliberate, fast? Do you like breast play? And what makes a good kisser?
In the prior thread a few providers described or eluded to either good or bad lovers... But I would like to know what is that?
I'm genuinely curious, since I'm in the "mutual admiration" camp. Any tips from the providers?
As I was reading the thread about how often a provider sees their client and says to herself " I'm not getting paid enough"!
Well to take it a step further.... What makes a good lover? What do you consider good DATY? What do you consider a good romp in the hay? Gentle, firm, slow, deliberate, fast? Do you like breast play? And what makes a good kisser?
In the prior thread a few providers described or eluded to either good or bad lovers... But I would like to know what is that?
I'm genuinely curious, since I'm in the "mutual admiration" camp. Any tips from the providers?
There's no one-answer-fits-all with sex. Every woman likes something different. Get lots of practice and then you can pick up on non-verbal cues such as: her pussy is really wet, she closes her eyes, nipples get erect, etc.
Women (generally) take longer to have an orgasm than men do. So take your time. Don't do DATY for only 30 seconds. Do it for 5 minutes at least. Then fck her. Then do it again. Repeat. Lol. Lick, don't suck. Fuck hard, but lick soft.
So don't assume that every girl likes it the same way. I think what makes a good lover is feeling the other person's energy and communicating with it. Having good rhythm. I think asking if they like something or what they like is good too.
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