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brendaboobies See my TER Reviews 2334 reads
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Hi - I am curious what perks you may have encountered after being white listed?
Easier screening to meet other girls who accept a whitelist as a reference and some ladies give discounts to whitelisted people- just curious if there is anything else?
xo

GaGambler 685 reads
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but then again, anyone looking for my White lists is going to find out a LOT more about me because of my big mouth on these boards than from a White list. lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 506 reads
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even a single perk from whitelisting.  Oh, wait, it could be because I neither use nor seek whitelisting in order to maintain my anonymity with providers in reviews, and to have the freedom to be an asshole on the boards sometimes without worrying that a provider may not want to see me because of it.  Its pretty clear that there's a PC component to some guys commenting here that are whitelisted.  Too bad they feel they don't have the freedom to be themselves because the ladies are "watching."

lopaw 29 Reviews 453 reads
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GaGambler 628 reads
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I don't review, but I hardly hide from my TER persona when booking an appointment. I figure any woman who doesn't like GaGambler won't like the "real" me either. I know a lot of people don't believe it but this is exactly how I am IRL too, except for the fact I don't say "go fuck yourself" quite as often IRL, close, but not quite. lol

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 683 reads
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Just this past week (what I'd hoped to be) a potential client, informed me he was not a member of P411, and he was offended I would not accept ONLY Whitelisting for verification. *Sigh* it's difficult trying to please everyone! :(

lopaw 29 Reviews 483 reads
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I've never had an issue with providers accepting only my whitelistings. I'm curious why that isn't acceptable for you?

GaGambler 641 reads
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I have had several White Listings over the many years I have been here. EVERY one of them has been fake, including the one still remaining that I haven't had removed yet.

P 411 has taken steps to make their "okay" system a little less easy to manipulate, but for reasons still unknown to me, provider seem to give out whitelists to people they've never even spoken to, much less had a session with.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 449 reads
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that they did not need any references on account of my white lists

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 633 reads
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I will always send an introductory PM to a provider I am interested in seeing for the first time. I will offer my whitelist/review history as a method of screening. Some ladies will accept the sheer number of my whitelists as solid verification. Some ladies will see particular names of ladies who have whitelisted me and view that as satisfactory. Other ladies will discreetly chose to contact a few recent ladies who have whitelisted me as screening verification. In all cases, my whitelist is really my sole method of screening. I haven't been asked to provide an additional reference in well over 5 years.

Other than ease of screening for new appointments, there is no other tangible advantage of a whitelist (Some ladies over the years have offered a discount for whitelisted clients...but that is not common place). I never request a discount because I am whitelisted. I will certainly ask ladies after a session if they are willing to whitelist clients as its my preferred method of screening.  I do like to keep the list somewhat current. But whether the ladies decide to whitelist is up to them.

Now some ladies say they will not use a client's whitelist as screening because they may not trust the validity of the okay from the provider (perhaps thinking that the whitelist was exchanged for a favorable review or that clients get random whitelists from ladies they actually didn't see).  Again, I have never experienced "whitelist rejection" from a potential new provider...But I have been hobbying for a very long time and I feel strongly that I have built up enough credibility and good will/reputation among the women... My whitelist has always placed me in good standing.  
 

-- Modified on 11/16/2016 7:58:33 AM

GaGambler 555 reads
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I've had it happen several times and had all of the fake WL's removed from my profile, but then the last I checked I have a new one from a woman in California who I have never heard of, much less met.

Like I said, I still have no idea as to the why these women would be giving me White Lists seemingly at random.

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 456 reads
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Posted By: GaGambler
I have had several White Listings over the many years I have been here. EVERY one of them has been fake, including the one still remaining that I haven't had removed yet.  
   
 P 411 has taken steps to make their "okay" system a little less easy to manipulate, but for reasons still unknown to me, provider seem to give out whitelists to people they've never even spoken to, much less had a session with.
Thank you, GaGambler for your spot on reply.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 478 reads
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Have a whitelist with your alias. Doesn't seem like it would help much since it hides your reviews.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 460 reads
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You hand out a lot of 10's so future providers will be encouraged to see you.  Do you see the control you give them that way?

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 566 reads
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Posted By: lopaw
I've never had an issue with providers accepting only my whitelistings. I'm curious why that isn't acceptable for you?
Because of our discussion board interactions, throughout the years, should you ever choose to rendezvous with me...your verification, is a non-issue. ;)

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 567 reads
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YOU:  82 Reviews (So 164 chances between appearance/performance to score)--  9 Tens

PERCENTAGE OF 10's :   9/164  or  .0548 %

 
ME: 183 Reviews (So 366 chances between appearance/performance to score)--  12 Tens

PERCENTAGE OF 10's :   12/366  or  .0327 %

 
So your entire premise that I "give out a lot of 10's" so that women will see me/ and thus be encouraged to whitelist me is flawed. I simply have not over the many years handed out a great percentage of 10's (again, less than you have)  

Women should be encouraged to see me because I am professional from start to finish and my goal in every session is to make the lady comfortable enough to want to see me again. They shouldn't see me because they expect to receive a great score... But if you do research (which I extensively do), the chances that I will have a good session (which ultimately translates into higher scores) is greatly enhanced.

-- Modified on 11/16/2016 9:00:28 AM

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 604 reads
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Your point is valid for guys who give a lot of 10s, but shakingthesheets hardly falls into that category. He has given 6% 10s for performance. You have given 3%. You guys are almost at the same level. There are reviewers out there who give 70,80,90 even 100% 10s. Those are the problems. Not this guy.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 523 reads
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Anyway I had the same thought as soon as I read his post. I only looked st the performance tens between you too, and only did the rough math. Anyway my conclusion is close to yours.  

However, most of c-d-l's posts are sarcastic or attempts at comedy. Sometimes he hits it out of the park. Most of the time it goes over everyone's head. This post may have been a joke on his part. Or he just started drinking more than GaG.

lopaw 29 Reviews 485 reads
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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 522 reads
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Senator.Blutarsky 646 reads
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...so it stands to reason you can also get whitelisted.

-- Modified on 11/16/2016 4:40:48 PM

2648667 31 Reviews 353 reads
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Senator.Blutarsky 494 reads
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...but was too drunk to remember. 😎

-- Modified on 11/16/2016 4:39:56 PM

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 448 reads
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I always get VERY aroused, when reading your reviews. ;) xoxo

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 400 reads
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I should probably slow down a little.  Lol

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 487 reads
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GaGambler 426 reads
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but she is in a state that I haven't been to for over two years.

It's funny, out of all the WL's I have had over the years, I have only met one of the providers in question and her at a M&G, not a session.

And I have to agree with PS, who in their right fucking mind would ever pretend to be me to get a date? lol

RatioScripta 163 Reviews 441 reads
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I don't know that there's any "perfect" form of verification.  For me, it's a totality of the circumstances issue.  From the guy's perspective (or this guy anyway), if the provider is on p411 and has at least a dozen or so reviews, she's probably legitimate and safe to set up a meeting with.  I figure a similar theory is at work for the ladies, if they see a guy has a few okays on p411 and is white listed here, they probably consider the guy to be safe.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 480 reads
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It's basically all I really have since I canceled my P411 account a while ago. I'll send a TER message, and I'll have them contact anyone on my list and then let the chips fall where they may....but so far so good..But then again,maybe I've been "Lucky" so far. Don't get me wrong,P411 was good to me while I was using it, but in time I found I had no need for it.

rangerc79 195 Reviews 382 reads
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even some provider that i regularly see, they said Whitelisting is fine as long as they can confirm the client.  P411 is good way to be quick screening since the OK list has the date on when was provider give the OKs.  I remember that first time i had 2 whitelist, and i wanted to see this popular providers, i told the assistant that they can contact those 2 provider that gave whitelist so that she can have peace of mind.

followme 365 reads
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Is it possible that your handle is very close to someone else and is easy to mistake it for yours or make a typo?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 383 reads
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Hpygolky 233 Reviews 512 reads
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But my guess is that they probably had you confused with someone else. It's not like they get "brownie" points for each whitelist...I just don't get the "why" and to say ALL of your are fake....hummm...BS here, maybe?

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 702 reads
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I give out plenty of 7s, and 8s and can see pretty much whoever I want to. However, I don't se 10/10 providers for many reasons  

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
You hand out a lot of 10's so future providers will be encouraged to see you.  Do you see the control you give them that way?

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 613 reads
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Many providers will tell me one of their friends gave me a white list and were good to go. I always tell a new escort I haven't seen before I will furnish escort refs, but most of the time they say were good to go without escort refs.

RobbinYoung See my TER Reviews 321 reads
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Posted By: hiddenhills
I don't see 10/10 providers for many reasons
If I may ask, do you at least rendezvous with a provider who has 10's in performance?  Looks, I can understand, but if a provider rocks your world and is everything you expect, performance wise...why don't you reward her with a 10?

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 557 reads
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From posting what I want, when I want if I feel the topic has my attention. And believe it or not, I have NEVER asked a single lady to whitelist me. All are from ladies that I've seen and they felt compelled to give me a "Whitelist" referral. I guess it's one of the perks of being a "good vato"....lol

J0e_Fella 35 Reviews 422 reads
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I'm too lazy to copy and paste the reference's link info. I simply point to the WL. :)

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 618 reads
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...don't have any white lists?  I can say with a great deal of certainty that white lists are a tremendous help.  I have more than a few white lists.  When I PM someone for an appointment, I refer her to my white lists and I'm very rarely asked for more references.  Maybe it's because I'm an unusual case since my white lists far outnumber my reviews.  I never ask for white lists and I don't trade them for reviews.  That speaks well of the providers who choose to white list me without a quid pro quo.  

I'm never been a member of P411 or any other verification service.  If someone won't accept only my white lists and wants more verification, I simply move on.

And like you, I've been whitelisted by women I've never seen or heard of.  When asked, they've removed the white listings.  If they hadn't remove the white lists and a guy asked me about them, I'd tell him the truth and that wouldn't do the providers much good.

Gone_Rogue1 534 reads
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Not all, but many swap WL for 10/10 reviews.

It's pretty obvious and too bad.  

WL could have been most helpful to both the ladies and gents.  

 
Always gonna be cheaters, do your due diligence

GaGambler 390 reads
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But it's hardly the first time I have brought it to the boards attention. At one time I had several WL's, all fake. It took forever, but admin finally removed them. I looked again a few months ago to find I have yet another WL, once again from a woman I have never heard of, in a state I haven't been to in years.

I do agree, it's not like P 411 where the ladies get "brownie" points for Okays. I really have no idea as to the motivation, but the facts are the facts. As for BS, it would make more sense for me to lie and say my WL's are genuine if I wanted to BS anyone about my WL's

And just who the fuck is going to confuse me with some other monger? NO ONE is going to use my name to get a date, just like PS pointed out earlier. It's not like they are going to point to my many pages of reviews or anything.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 494 reads
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Still calling BS...but hey, it's cool if you're still getting them. Whatever..

GaGambler 440 reads
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The fact that women give out undeserved White Lists should be almost as disturbing that men write fake reviews. It "cheapens" the system for all of us.

Right now I only have one WL and yes it is a fake. I have written to the provider and asked her why she gave it to me and am still waiting for a reply.

GaGambler 447 reads
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You have been here as a reviewer for the better part of fifteen years and you never gave a single 10 for appearance until just a couple of years ago, but since then you have given out 8 of them.

Don't get me wrong, I still don't believe that you are handing them out like candy like "some" of the more worthless BSU reviewers do, but still ZERO 10's for your first 12-13 years and then 8 in the next couple of years.  

My question is, are those women really THAT much hotter than any that you had seen in the previous dozen years or so, OR did you simply cave into the grade inflation that runs rampant here and simply "go along" with the program?  I don't mean this in an accusatory or snarky way, this is an honest question.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 586 reads
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A number of hobbyists have posted about their fake whitelists, including the former newbie host, swimtreker.  
There was also a disgruntled provider a few months ago whitelisting guy's like crazy, whom she never saw, as a form of "punishment" to them.
 
As far as GaG's, I remember when he had 3 whitelists at one time a year or 2 ago, and I clicked on them and had to laugh because knowing his taste, 2 out of those 3 he would never see in a million years!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 403 reads
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2648667 31 Reviews 335 reads
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2648667 31 Reviews 523 reads
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Posted By: perfectstorm
I clicked on them and had to laugh because knowing his taste, 2 out of those 3 he would never see in a million years!
I'd say that's probably why they did it right there.

2648667 31 Reviews 533 reads
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WL's because you can see the date the OK was given. I'm not questioning whether p411 OK's are more meaningful or safer than WL's in general, but to this specific point; you can see the date a WL was issued as well as the date the provider's profile was created and her number of reviews. What am I missing here?

LondonJames See my TER Reviews 382 reads
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Same. I have what many would call a "strict" screening process. However, I would rather ask for everything upfront then send emails back and forth trying to get it all. It's not that I do not trust the "Whitelist" or P411 "Okays", they make the process much easier & expedite it, but to me they are truly not enough.  

Last night, I watched a provider be brought to tears because a colleague in our field had given a man the "Okay" not that long ago. She called the colleague that gave the "Okay" and the collegaue verified everything was good to go. However, last night this provider had to defend herself from a sexual assault/robbery situation. She has no other information on this guy other than his name, number, handles, and providers who gave references.  

It's moments like that where I remind myself why I will not let go of such a stringent screening policy. In addition, we have just AS MUCH, if not sometimes more to lose as the gracious men, women, and couples who see us.

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