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The_Lies_We_Tell 1794 reads
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1 / 41
5.4 to 7.5 minutes is average.

http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html

Little bit of a read,  but pretty interesting.  

So fellas...how long do YOU last?

I'll start :)

While i am certainly guilty of busting sooner than I'd like,  in general i hover in the 20 minute range. That's for normal sex, most positions.  

If it's something really kinky,  or the girl is just blowing my mind that number can reduce significantly.

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 638 reads
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2 / 41
Hobby Sex and Civilian sex are going to be completely different

The bottom line with having sex in the hobby is that you're not trying to (at least you shouldn't be) impress anyone with your tremendous stamina. No matter how great you think your sexual prowess is, a provider has had much longer sex. Nature of the game, so go with the flow of the session.  

Having said that, while hobbying, there is absolutely no pressure (nor incentive) to try and hold out and last as long as possible. It's OKAY to be selfish and the ladies here understand it. There is no holding back. When you are ready to cum, then you should just cum. It's your cash. If you are a man who wants nothing more than a very quick BBBJ and then a minute or two of intercourse, that's your call.  

So, at least from my vantage point, logic would dictate that intercourse with a provider does not last that long. (Despite what some of the reviews may suggest :) ) I think 5-7 minutes of pure sex may be, in most cases, a huge stretch.  

Conversely, in the civilian world, there is obviously more pressure to satisfy your partner. Cumming after 1-2 minutes when she is not even warmed up, is not where you want to be (especially if it's your first time).  In this venue, you can't be selfish. You have to hold out as long as possible.  That's why foreplay is essential in the civilian world of sex. At least let the totality of the whole experience be long.  



-- Modified on 12/1/2015 8:54:00 AM

GaGambler 599 reads
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3 / 41
There are several factors that come into play for me

Drunk or sober?

First, second, third or fourth time of the day? (4 is about my limit at my advanced age)

BB or covered?

Hooker or Civvie?

First time or old favorite?

I would say the fastest I ever cum is stone cold sober, haven't been laid in a few days, going BB with a GF and being completely selfish, not caring if she "gets hers" or not. In that scenario I can probably cum in ten minutes.

Now put a condom on me in that same situation and we are up to probably 20 minutes.  

Add alcohol, already having gotten laid that same day, or in a one hour session with a pro, in any of those cases we are talking well over 30 minutes in most cases.  

Add any two of the above and I might not be able to finish at all.

To tell the truth, I long for the days when I was a "two pump chump" in those days I might not have lasted very long, but I could go 7-8 times a day with ease. Youth certainly is wasted on the young. lo

rrasha88 See my TER Reviews 615 reads
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4 / 41
That explains why…

So many guys book on the day Daylight Savings Time begins. It’s the one time they can boast they lasted an hour and five minutes.

GaGambler 543 reads
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5 / 41
Just like I laugh at every woman who brags about her BF lasting 2 hours

I've learned over the years that women with a guy who last that long don't "brag" about it, they complain about it.  

I used to wish I could last that long, I thought women would love it if I can fuck all night until I actually trained myself to last that long and found out that it's maybe one woman in a hundred who actually likes to fuck for even one hour straight, much less two.

I did have a civvie GF once who took a good thirty minutes to get off, but when she did it was worth all the effort required to get there. Unfortunately she was only about 6 years younger than me which means today she is much too old for me and women who want to go that long are few and far between.

satinbutterfly See my TER Reviews 416 reads
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6 / 41
Lmao!


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rrasha88 See my TER Reviews 529 reads
posted
7 / 41
Like we say...

Get on, get off, then get off.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 452 reads
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8 / 41
I wish...

One hour appointments can be cutting it close for me, but it depends on the providers skill too. Some are just really good at giving head and I don't stand a chance. However, those providers are rare and I can usually out wait most.

Kitty_Rains See my TER Reviews 661 reads
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9 / 41
My take on it:

The guy at home with his wife or gf is going to get his rocks off faster.. if he's P4P he's going to try to get more bang for his buck

I'd say 20-30 minutes is more like an average for a hobbyist
that being a mean average.

Of course there's always going to be the guys who can take 40-50 minutes
there's going to be the guys who want to go overtime ...these guys are usually the ones who have had some assistance usually in the form of the little blue pill... and just cant get there no matter how hard they try!
there's going to be the guys who do take 5-15 minutes but can shoot MSOG in an hour

but take all those together and mean average it out, you'll find about 20-30 min.

 
..and yes reviews are often inflated to boost reviewers egos

although I swear anything written about my ability/skill is all true :-D



-- Modified on 12/1/2015 3:19:18 PM
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OzzieM 2 Reviews 432 reads
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10 / 41
Re: My take on it:

This is way too complicated, in my view.  The actual time for PIV is less important to most guys and ladies than the total experience and I suspect that most ladies would bore or dry up with long periods of PIV, although I could be wrong.

Ozzie

 

 
Posted By: Kitty_Rains
The guy at home with his wife or gf is going to get his rocks off faster.. if he's P4P he's going to try to get more bang for his buck  
   
 I'd say 20-30 minutes is more like an average for a hobbyist  
 that being a mean average.  
   
 Of course there's always going to the guys who can take 40-50 minutes  
 there's going to be the guys who want to go overtime ...these guys are usually the ones who have had some assistance usually in the form of the little blue pill... and just cant get there no matter how hard they try!  
 there's going to the the guys who do take 5-15 minutes but can shoot MSOG in an hour  
   
 but take all those together and mean average it out, you'll find about 20-30 min.  
   
   
 ..and yes reviews are often inflated to boost reviewers egos  
   
 although I swear anything written about my ability/skill is all true :-D

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 422 reads
posted
11 / 41
Re: My take on it:

You mean the guys who say, "I pounded her for 30 minutes"and she loved it" just aren't  true? LOL

Posted By: Kitty_Rains
The guy at home with his wife or gf is going to get his rocks off faster.. if he's P4P he's going to try to get more bang for his buck  
   
 I'd say 20-30 minutes is more like an average for a hobbyist  
 that being a mean average.  
   
 Of course there's always going to the guys who can take 40-50 minutes  
 there's going to be the guys who want to go overtime ...these guys are usually the ones who have had some assistance usually in the form of the little blue pill... and just cant get there no matter how hard they try!  
 there's going to the the guys who do take 5-15 minutes but can shoot MSOG in an hour  
   
 but take all those together and mean average it out, you'll find about 20-30 min.  
   
   
 ..and yes reviews are often inflated to boost reviewers egos  
   
 although I swear anything written about my ability/skill is all true :-D

FatVern 399 reads
posted
12 / 41
15 seconds to 2 days

There have been sessions where I have barely been able to get the condom on before climaxing, there have been sessions where I've been in the elevator on the way down with a raging hard on  
because I never came, mostly it's somewhere in between. Usually I'm working against time, so I have to speed things up a bit.

Autumn Breeze See my TER Reviews 492 reads
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13 / 41
Re: My take on it:

Very well said Kitty, I couldn't agree more.

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 429 reads
posted
14 / 41
Hobby or Real Life?

Real life?  20 minutes is a good number (of actual sex, not including foreplay).  And then you can move on with life or have sex again later that day or night.

Hobby life?  A solid 45 minutes.  Because the entire hour is paid for, and I'm purposely holding back (not hard to do with some practice).  And there is no "later", when the times up, the times up.  Also there's no "later" because I'm a one and done guy.  So you bet I'm going to maximize that hour.

If providers could actually review us, I'm sure I'll lose some points for not finishing faster.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 499 reads
posted
15 / 41
Amen. *shudder*

A 2hr poundfest would make him no longer my bf.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 427 reads
posted
16 / 41
Much longer these days

I remember just staring this and I barely made it to the bed before blowing. LOL

The longer you do this and the older you get seems to be taking its toll.

I'm just coming off a pretty serious relationship so am having issues anyways.  

It does depend for me as well, work stress, vs. weekend...much different!

Especially longer if the girl's goal is to get you off quickly, and YES
we can tell.

just_a_dumb_q 434 reads
posted
17 / 41
health & fitness issues...

Only the younger or more fit clients come that quickly in my experience.  However, most of those can msog, so why not let go and get another round in? Many older clients take a long time because of age and health issues.

I know some guys get embarrassed when they come so fast but I don't mind at all (plus I come easier from skilled DATY).  First and foremost, I want my client to have a good time, and as long as we can have fun for the rest of our scheduled time (whether more sex, talking, massage, etc), then it's all good.

inari See my TER Reviews 401 reads
posted
18 / 41
That suits me just fine!

I do love multiple, relatively quick rounds- I cum early and often, so no worries there!  

And it's incredibly fun and sexy bringing someone off with my mouth within the first few minutes of a date, then going for round two after some downtime.

Deep thoughts for this evening.

IBDPhotography 396 reads
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19 / 41
Really??

5.4 to 7.5 minutes? It takes me longer to get my clothes off! (lol)  

I actually asked someone what the avg. time that her clients take to finish and she told me around 15-20 minutes. This would be an interesting poll for the women here. :P

GaGambler 463 reads
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20 / 41
It's just like a guy bragging about going out with five women all at once

Any man who has actually been surrounded by that many women all on his own damn sure isn't bragging about it. I've been the only guy in a group of a half dozen hookers and I damn sure wasn't bragging about it, I was wishing for some guy to join the group and help me out.

With few exceptions, any woman bragging about a BF who pounds her for 2 solid hours has never been pounded for 2 solid hours. Most women are begging for a break before the 30 minute mark. I have learned over the last several years to either fake an orgasm or simply take a break every fifteen minutes or so, rest a bit and then resume. It's like going two or three times in an hour, but without actually cumming that many times (because I can't cum that many times in a hour) and it keeps me off of a lot of personal DNS lists. The last thing I want to be known for in hooker circles is the guy "who takes forever"

GaGambler 454 reads
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21 / 41
Yes, but you have three times the opportunities as the average woman

and are you saying you actually like to go at it for two hours straight without coming up for air?

Come on, I bet you the three of you take turns, don't you? lol

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 494 reads
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22 / 41
Fuck that!

I'd LOVE it! Bring me a man that can pound me like that and I might just retire!  Lol

earthshined 401 reads
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23 / 41
Re: Hobby or Real Life? 45 minutes of non-stop sex

in multiple positions?  

dude, you must run marathons

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 404 reads
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24 / 41
Re: It's just like a guy bragging about going out with five women all at once

Posted By: GaGambler
Any man who has actually been surrounded by that many women all on his own damn sure isn't bragging about it. I've been the only guy in a group of a half dozen hookers and I damn sure wasn't bragging about it, I was wishing for some guy to join the group and help me out.  
   
 With few exceptions, any woman bragging about a BF who pounds her for 2 solid hours has never been pounded for 2 solid hours. Most women are begging for a break before the 30 minute mark. I have learned over the last several years to either fake an orgasm or simply take a break every fifteen minutes or so, rest a bit and then resume. It's like going two or three times in an hour, but without actually cumming that many times (because I can't cum that many times in a hour) and it keeps me off of a lot of personal DNS lists. The last thing I want to be known for in hooker circles is the guy "who takes forever"
I always wondered what "takes forever" means?  Seems like the wrong attitude to have.  A guy books an hour and within the allotted 1 hour takes 40 minutes to cum (breaks taken if needed).  I never understood what was "wrong" with that.    That is the mutual agreement, per the hourly rate.  20 minutes of talking and making out and then 40 mins of sex.

Should we cum in the first 15-20 mins and spend the next 40-45 mins talking?  Talking is fun, and a good 20 minutes of that is sufficient but after that the rest of the time is for the action.

earthshined 418 reads
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25 / 41
Re: My take on it: so guys that take the blue pill have a "hard"

time getting off? lol

Interesting. I've never heard of this side effect.

earthshined 382 reads
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26 / 41
Re: Really?? I'll finish in less than 10 minutes if

i'm not feeling it with the lady.

At that point I just want it to be over.

Not so with civvie sex.

GaGambler 412 reads
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27 / 41
You are talking about something completely different then

Non stop means non stop, not an hour of foreplay and an hour of intercourse. Or 7 hours of alternating between intercourse, getting in and out of the hot tub etc.

Yes, I agree a couple of hours can fly by in those scenarios, and can be a lot of fun, but it's NOT what most people mean when they say "go for 2 hours straight"

I could probably go two hours straight on a bet, but would I enjoy it, or would she? probably not.

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 375 reads
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28 / 41
Re: Hobby or Real Life? 45 minutes of non-stop sex

Well this includes foreplay beyond kissing. Also it includes oral, not JUST fucking. And breaks are taken if needed.

GaGambler 379 reads
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29 / 41
It's not really that hard

I can relate to what he's saying, I too am a one and done guy. My chances of going twice in an hour are almost nil, but I have no problems spending 10-15 minutes of foreplay followed by 40+ minutes of multiple position intercourse. I'll be 57 soon, only in average shape and I have a lot more difficulties in finding a woman who will enjoy/allow that much non stop sex than I do fucking for that long.

Kitty_Rains See my TER Reviews 457 reads
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30 / 41
Re: My take on it: so guys that take the blue pill have a "hard"

Literally.

I know some men who use viagra and extenze.. they just cant get to an orgasm .

Similarly Ive seen guys use viagra on porn sets and on one occasion, after 6 hours of staying hard the 2 guys were asked to do a finishing scene... they both ended up in opposite corners of the room beating themselves near senseless for about another half an hour before they could produce a money shot.

Note to the inexperienced.. if you don't really need it -  DONT USE IT

balljointnut 23 Reviews 424 reads
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31 / 41
Time to the finish line.

5.4 to 7.5 is the reason I book with MSOG hookers. Whether it is a first time exp. or I have seen her multiple times I will blow in short order the first time. After that all bets are off. Second time around I can at times seemingly last forever. Sometimes "Thar she blows". Other times I can tell mijo isn't going to cooperate so after putting in a "college try" I call it off. Some have taken me to nirvana and made me pump three times. They are rare and rarely repeat the feat a second time.

Some chicks just like to fuck. My current reg. is perfectly happy if my dick is in her the entire time we are together. In her words she just loves having sex even if neither of us is going to cum again. It is the act that turns her on. Who am I to turn that down?

mlovinn See my TER Reviews 394 reads
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32 / 41
Love It!


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Cardinal_Richelieu 2 Reviews 428 reads
posted
33 / 41
Being older

As I age it seems I can last longer.  The downside is I'm one and done.  But I can go a long time before the one!! 😜

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 378 reads
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34 / 41
The Difference in stamina between Civvies and Porn Stars

Dear Ms. Rains:
Just wondering, if you had a bukkake scene what is usually the length a working porn star would go with you and when you are a working escort what is the usual length? Also would the injections as well as the experience of the men that you might engage with a critical factor with the length of the act? Finally would the physical shape of the men be a primary factor in how long they would last with you?

Posted By: Kitty_Rains
The guy at home with his wife or gf is going to get his rocks off faster.. if he's P4P he's going to try to get more bang for his buck  
   
 I'd say 20-30 minutes is more like an average for a hobbyist  
 that being a mean average.  
   
 Of course there's always going to be the guys who can take 40-50 minutes  
 there's going to be the guys who want to go overtime ...these guys are usually the ones who have had some assistance usually in the form of the little blue pill... and just cant get there no matter how hard they try!  
 there's going to be the guys who do take 5-15 minutes but can shoot MSOG in an hour  
   
 but take all those together and mean average it out, you'll find about 20-30 min.  
   
   
 ..and yes reviews are often inflated to boost reviewers egos  
   
 although I swear anything written about my ability/skill is all true :-D  
   
 

-- Modified on 12/1/2015 3:19:18 PM

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 376 reads
posted
35 / 41
Re: Much longer these days

Oh I thought that meant she liked me when she went fast and hard LOL

Posted By: escalade1964
I remember just staring this and I barely made it to the bed before blowing. LOL  
   
 The longer you do this and the older you get seems to be taking its toll.  
   
 I'm just coming off a pretty serious relationship so am having issues anyways.  
   
 It does depend for me as well, work stress, vs. weekend...much different!  
   
 Especially longer if the girl's goal is to get you off quickly, and YES  
 we can tell.

scb19 10 Reviews 340 reads
posted
36 / 41
Well, sex as depicted in

"Quest for Fire" had to be quick or the woman would get away.....LOL.  Study it, talk about it, yada yada yada but no matter what it's just biology.

scb19 10 Reviews 369 reads
posted
37 / 41
Older guys do it longer....

but as Marsha Winfield said in her standup...."but who whats to fuck and old man for a long time?".

Posted By: The_Lies_We_Tell
http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/09/how-long-should-sex-actually-last.html  
   
 Little bit of a read,  but pretty interesting.  
   
 So fellas...how long do YOU last?  
   
 I'll start :)  
   
 While i am certainly guilty of busting sooner than I'd like,  in general i hover in the 20 minute range. That's for normal sex, most positions.  
   
 If it's something really kinky,  or the girl is just blowing my mind that number can reduce significantly.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 311 reads
posted
38 / 41
LOL. Are the guys now becoing the "clock-watchers"? eom


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earthshined 321 reads
posted
39 / 41
Re: My take on it: good info . when I use it I don't

take it in the recommended time " one hour before..."  

I always take it in the morning for an evening/night appointment. maybe that's why I never had that problem.  

First time I tried it half hour before and  I didnt have trouble "releasing" but it did feel desensitized.

earthshined 337 reads
posted
40 / 41
Re: It's not really that hard My sex drive isnt that strong so

I couldn't have sex every day but even in one day I'm so out of shape I'd be gassed after 10-15 minutes  of straight sex

GaGambler 264 reads
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41 / 41
In that case my advice to you is "Hit the gym"

Your sex life will thank you.

I certainly don't consider myself in great shape, but while I no longer have the inclination to have sex several times every day like I did even so recently as my late forties, I can still go two to three times a day without feeling like I exerted myself.  

I say this sincerely, if 10-15 minutes of sex leaves you "gassed" you really need to get on some kind of program, sex is not THAT physically taxing. Being in that bad a shape can't be healthy for you. Even taking a brisk walk every day is a start.

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