I've seen this lady 3 times and have given her a great review. Now she doesn't answer. Why not just PM me as to why she wont see me now. Why is that so hard?

I don't know.

her the farther away you will push her..........must be like some law of gravity............or better yet law of human relationships.

....she's not worth wasting another moment thinking about, and you forget her and move on.

Sometimes you get lucky, and sometimes you don't. I just had a new lady receive glowing reports from my two references, but she never returned my inquiry. How am I supposed to know it's okay to contact her again, unless she responds to my initial introduction? And if she's not going to respond, why contact my refs? It makes no sense at all. It's all good! Just another of the hilariously unbelievable situations one encounters here. I have so many, I could write a book

My guess would be that you probably "grew too attached" and crossed the line on something.

Way too many fish in the sea.

Listen, I totally understand your frustration.  No one likes being ignored, especially when there isn't an obvious reason.

your relationship with her is purely transactional, and it begins and ends at either your door or hers. You paid, she performed, and if something made her uncomfortable and she does not wish to see you again she's not going to tell you that - it's not worth the potential shit storm of emails, texts, and calls from you trying to convince her otherwise. Not saying you're that guy or that's what's going on here, but in talking with providers and reading these here boards it seems to be a relatively common issue for them. Another possibility is someone has her on an extended date, and if you were the one who was paying for that date would you want her answering emails and PMs? You can't have it both ways m'man. Or there are a hundred other reasons she's not gotten back to you. You shouldn't care about the "why."

Many times you'll hear nothing butt flattering comments, and thank yous. Only to never hear from them again.

on vacation

well said!

She absolutely loathed being with you, but business was slow and now that Russel Crowe finally came back to town, she's preoccupied with other "things".

Of course she's polite during your time together. It's her job. That doesn't mean that afterwards she's got to keep it up even if you two didn't really get along.

Of course it's an act, however I was talking about gals I've repeated with.

I think it's better if she does not answer right now, being you are sooooooo upset by this you felt the need to post a damn thread. I mean cmon, dude. This is not match.com. You are way too involved because most guys would not even give a fk and move on to the next provider who did answer. How do you know she does not have some serious issues in her personal life that might be preventing her from getting back to you? OMG, hookers have shit happen to them! Shocker.

If you are this bent out of shape now, I can only imagine what you would do if she did tell you why she may not want to see you, if in fact that is the reason she has not been returning your means of contact.

Not trying to be a dick, but it doesn't. I know the PC explanation is "ohhhh just don't worry about it", but if it happens enough, it's probably you. Can't fix it if you don't know!

given "the answer" to a few and guess what! They still try to engage me in conversation. When I say I'm not interested in seeing you that probably means I don't want to communicate with you.

Sometimes providers don't want to hear why you didn't do whatever she thinks you did or why that other provider BL you and shouldn't have. It gets tiring so no response is the best answer. Most people get the "hint" and move on.  

I don't question it til someone mentions it.

It was something like:   "yes dude, these hookers hang upside down in the closet, just like bats, they are simply waiting for you to call or e-mail."   We all use lol a lot, but that is one that just made me lol just thinking about it right now.