If you only get laid once a month, you are a long ways from having a sexual addiction.

My advice is either lower your standards and get yourself some civvie pussy, or lower your standard and try to find a hundred dollar quickie once a week.

Neither option is a great one, but it beats pounding your pud twenty nine days out of the month

Or you could get another part time job to make more money

Re: You need a sex buddy.......

......There are lot's of older high sex drive women out there looking for UTR fun. Hiking, Ski, Book, Adventure, Tennis clubs etc are ideal places to find them. Also you could join a local swing club where they have a GB once a week.

For about $100 you can get a decent 45 minute massage and good hand job.

Do one of those during your bye weeks.

I did that for many years when my funds were tight.

The only suggestion i can give you is to find some civvie pussy.

With a civvie chick you won't have to spend all your money buying pussy. With only $400 to spend it's going to be extremely difficult to get laid regularly in the hobby.

I don't know who you are, and I don't know what your circumstances are, but  here is something else you could do.

It seems that you need more money coming in so you can allocate more funds to your hobbying ? Do you have a way of supplementing your income so you can satisfy your itch and still maintain your standards. Civvie pussy is well and good, but as you know (and other guys have underlined it) you may have to lower the standards.

I know a lot of people who have side jobs to supplement their income, so they can pursue their hobby (not this hobby, but just hobby in general).

One reason I said strip clubs is that I almost always cum in my pants every time I get multiple dances. Maybe this can serve as a substitute for regular sex. This was before I decided to not waste money on dances, but maybe I should go back to it?

Several replies mention civvy pussy here, yet there are tons of posts on these boards always saying about how civvy pussy is more expensive than hobby pussy! So what is it guys?

I went to a few massage places and people. I found someone who did it out of her home and eventually we developed a sexual relationship. It is a bit like a combination of FWB or sugar daddy relationship. I get much more time for much less money with much better personal service than I would get with a provider.

The experience is different from one with a provider. Some good, some not so good. I spend much more time on her satisfaction than I would with a provider, even though I am fairly attentive to making sure my provider partners are happy.

I took some looking to find this relationship but I think it is possible.

Good luck!

I'm on fixed income, have to save up....  But in my area I can usually get an hour GFE for 2-250.  I can get FBSM for around 1.  
I would shop around...

I have exactly the same kind of budget as you! The first year I started hobbying, it was an addiction. I felt I had to get more. But I am now into my third year, and it all seems rather routine now.. I can easily go weeks without sex and be just as happy. I am much more picky now that it takes more to get me excited...

I agree with the suggestion about the hand jobs. I actually find them more sensual than full service as she does everything for you and there is no pressure to cum multiple times..

Who doesn't charge you.  I've had plenty of those over the years here, and that's what fills the time between seeing women who I really want to see, and who I'm willing to shell out money for.

turn her into one for a short time...many here can show you how lol. Fact is, many providers here are actually looking for some dumb ass to fall for them, so you should not have a problem finding cheap ass on your off seasons.