Several replies mention civvy pussy here, yet there are tons of posts on these boards always saying about how civvy pussy is more expensive than hobby pussy! So what is it guys?

I just want to know what some of you guys would do in this situation. I have been allocating $400 per month to spend on the hobby, which usually is spent on one provider but sometimes two cheaper sessions. For the most part, I have been self-disciplined enough to stick to this limit even though I would love to spend more and see more providers. This month-long period between appointments is really stressful for someone like me who has a high sex drive and what some may call sex addiction. This self-imposed rule is kind of taking the fun out of the hobby. It is becoming more about finally scratching that itch after a month-long wait, and it is a feeling of relief more so than pleasure. You would think that I would get used to this routine and develop more sexual control, but I am extremely horny 2-3 days after an appointment and hating the fact that I have to wait 3+ more weeks until I get to do this again.

What would you do in this situation? I would appreciate suggestions from everyone, especially those of you who have limited hobby funds like me.

One idea that I have is this: Go to a strip club every week for the next few months, and buy a few dances every time. I may not get laid doing this, but at least it will provide me with weekly sexual activity. However, I'm not sure if lap dances will be pleasurable enough. Hopefully I can stay under $200 per month doing this, and then I will have more money to spend on the hobby in the future. Will no sex for several months drive you crazy?

If you only get laid once a month, you are a long ways from having a sexual addiction.

My advice is either lower your standards and get yourself some civvie pussy, or lower your standard and try to find a hundred dollar quickie once a week.

Neither option is a great one, but it beats pounding your pud twenty nine days out of the month

Or you could get another part time job to make more money

......There are lot's of older high sex drive women out there looking for UTR fun. Hiking, Ski, Book, Adventure, Tennis clubs etc are ideal places to find them. Also you could join a local swing club where they have a GB once a week.

For about $100 you can get a decent 45 minute massage and good hand job.

Do one of those during your bye weeks.

I did that for many years when my funds were tight.

The only suggestion i can give you is to find some civvie pussy.

With a civvie chick you won't have to spend all your money buying pussy. With only $400 to spend it's going to be extremely difficult to get laid regularly in the hobby.

I don't know who you are, and I don't know what your circumstances are, but  here is something else you could do.

It seems that you need more money coming in so you can allocate more funds to your hobbying ? Do you have a way of supplementing your income so you can satisfy your itch and still maintain your standards. Civvie pussy is well and good, but as you know (and other guys have underlined it) you may have to lower the standards.

I know a lot of people who have side jobs to supplement their income, so they can pursue their hobby (not this hobby, but just hobby in general).

One reason I said strip clubs is that I almost always cum in my pants every time I get multiple dances. Maybe this can serve as a substitute for regular sex. This was before I decided to not waste money on dances, but maybe I should go back to it?

Hi,

... putting a crimp in my hobby lifestyle!! :o/

For me, civvie pussy is too hard to get because of lack of game.

Posted By: perfectstorm

Several replies mention civvy pussy here, yet there are tons of posts on these boards always saying about how civvy pussy is more expensive than hobby pussy! So what is it guys?

I went to a club and just like that spent $250 on lap dances from one girl. I should know better by now than to ask her how many songs was that when were were done. She claims we were back there for 12 songs but was going to charge me for only 10. We were back there for no more than 5 songs from where I kept count. I didn't argue with her, I paid my dues, left the club and found a provider for $120 for the half hour. Even with the hustle that goes on at the clubs I still keep falling for the same trap. If you do decide to go the club route. Set a limit as to how much you will spend that day on an air dance and let the dancer know how many dances you want so you will avoid making the same mistake that I keep making. This same dancer would only dance on me during an R&B song and when a rock song came on she just sat there. All the while charging me just for sitting there at $25 per song. She would dance once, sit beside me for the next 2 songs, and dance again. I didn't think this was fair but she knows what she's doing and I'm catching on to her tactics. I said all that to say this, use extreeme caution when at the club. Think with the financial head and not the fun head.

I went to a few massage places and people. I found someone who did it out of her home and eventually we developed a sexual relationship. It is a bit like a combination of FWB or sugar daddy relationship. I get much more time for much less money with much better personal service than I would get with a provider.

The experience is different from one with a provider. Some good, some not so good. I spend much more time on her satisfaction than I would with a provider, even though I am fairly attentive to making sure my provider partners are happy.

I took some looking to find this relationship but I think it is possible.

Good luck!

I dabbled in some civie sex a year or two ago, and it was an unmitigated disaster.  Nothing but drama and heartache, to say nothing of some serious moola invested - all for naught except some so-so sex.

Stay with the pros.

I'm on fixed income, have to save up....  But in my area I can usually get an hour GFE for 2-250.  I can get FBSM for around 1.  
I would shop around...

I've gone years w/o sex before. 3 weeks aint nuthin' but a thang

you are my hero. lol (along with Derek Jeter)

good words to live by.

I have exactly the same kind of budget as you! The first year I started hobbying, it was an addiction. I felt I had to get more. But I am now into my third year, and it all seems rather routine now.. I can easily go weeks without sex and be just as happy. I am much more picky now that it takes more to get me excited...

I agree with the suggestion about the hand jobs. I actually find them more sensual than full service as she does everything for you and there is no pressure to cum multiple times..

She can't take what he doesn't appear to have, and it also appears from his posts that he is single and is reduced to having no sex at all in between his paid sessions.

The down side of course is that it is quite unlikely that the OP has any "game" and since he sits at home alone rather than having figured out how to "live off the land" so to speak, it's unlikely that he is going to attract any hotties to begin with. My advice to him is to hit on a couple of "less than attractive" women at first, just to get his confidence up as they are more likely to be receptive to his advances then move up to the more attractive women as he begins to develop a bit more self confidence. Nothing will ruin a mans ego that to get shot down ten times in a row when he has confidence issues to begin with.

Or just married?

Either way, my condolences.

As for me, I start getting really grumpy after about the third day.

you could say a "medical" condition.

Who doesn't charge you.  I've had plenty of those over the years here, and that's what fills the time between seeing women who I really want to see, and who I'm willing to shell out money for.

turn her into one for a short time...many here can show you how lol. Fact is, many providers here are actually looking for some dumb ass to fall for them, so you should not have a problem finding cheap ass on your off seasons.