so contrary to the response i received from the last post i made - i was out in vegas this past weekend with my husband and as a surprise I did try to meet up with a provider to give him a fabulous fun.......what happens in vegas stay in vegas weekend!!!  but needless to say it was the worst experience of my life and I was totally ripped off - even though i thought i had did my due diligence and read this girls reviews and followed all the newbie pointers and the worst part is I tried to write a review of her so no one else would be scammed like me and the TER site has denied my review because it conflicts with the one other review she got -  
how do we know these girls arent going on an reviewing themselves to attract other customers and why wont TER allow you to tell the truth???  i was so disappointed and I am really uncomfortable even trying again - seeing as though I am obviously a bad deal maker - any advice?????

with one review? Am I reading this correctly? Don't see gals that have one review. See girls who have many reviews and check their reviewers that they have many reviews. Cuts down on the fake reviews.

In Vegas, backpage and the real hot pictures are almost always bait and switch, or major upsell.  Like the gentleman before said, look for numerous reviews, and try sticking to the ladies who actually have a presence on TER, either ads or posting under the regional board.  99% chance of success that way.  Lots of us had to learn the backpage lesson!

It really sucks because you can't get that time back.... Maybe next time it will work out... Don't give up!!!! There's a lot of great fun real women on this site.... Good luck and do a bit more research!!!

Sorry but you didn't even come close to doing due diligence or following the pointers found on this board! If you had you wouldn't have seen a girl with one review! All the advice here says to see "well reviewed" ladies with several to many reviews written by reviewers who have written several to many reviews themselves!

That is the problem.

i defintiely made some mistakes - and being the woman side of our relationship and having NO experience with woman - i was really off - my husband on a funny note wasnt that taken by what the girl did - his quote was "ah honey, this is life trying to be with a woman - they take ya for all you got"  and giggled and told me i got credit for trying!!! anyway if i eve make it back I will try again using the advice you all gave - i actually did try to get some good advice a few weeks ago and when i wrote in on the board - and said what i wanted to plan - most response posts were 1. that i was a fake, trying to ctahc her husband cheating, 2. i was really a guy trying to scam some girl and 3. that i couldnt be real because there is no wife that would ever do this.  
so needless to say this whole experience has been very frustrating!!!

...is also a new hobbyist with only one other review, and it was that provider's first review as well.

So you've got a brand new hobbyist who writes two reviews for two women who've never been reviewed before.  That's not my idea of due diligence.  I've heard of thinking with the little head but I never heard of thinking with the little man in the boat.

You've been given some good advice here that, if you take it, will keep you from making the same mistakes again.  Also, there are a couple of other women here who hobby with a husband or SO and you should find and reach out to them.  PM me for their handles if you'd like.

Very sorry you had to go through this, but it happens to many newbies because they don't know about the signs to look out for. You can write a review of your experience as a "RIP OFF" and that will be tagged on her profile for life.

way to make a girl feel worse - did i mention i too was new to this - trying to make a surprise AND i came on TER before asking for some pointers and was told I had to be a fake!!!  i am obviously not great at navigating this......i am working on it....

If you post stuff like this on the newbie board, they are more welcoming and willing to help.