Sorry, but newbie providers don't write like that.

Newbie providers are self conscious of their bodies whereas old providers have accepted their age and girth.
Besides, only old providers drink tea and reflect.

7) Don't insult our intelligence.

She's not new.

She may be new to the business or not, but not knew to life. Years back I saw a provider in her first week or two, she was a little nervous but we got thru it and had a blast. About 3 or 4 weeks in she had a john that was too harsh on her during the session. According to her side, she had to yell at him to stop. The guy later coped to using Viagra and wanted to get his monies worth. Because she yelled at him and refused anything further, he wrote a bad review. She called me asking how to handle the issue, we had made a connection. We talked about her options and she is a very intelligent, educated and professional girl in her 30s but had to start hooking because she was laid off and not able to find any work after 6 months with three kids to feed and a soon to be ex-husband that was not helping. She echoed many of the same sentiments that the OP stated and that was within the first few weeks she started hooking. Especially #5, good lord she has an amazing athletic body with huge boobs and an ass that man would die for.

But having dated many recently divorced civvies, a very common thought among such women, provider or not. And it does not matter if they are 20, 30 or 40+. It’s the fact that the men they loved left them for something else…younger, thinner, heavier, bigger…smaller boobs, does not matter. The fact that the man in their life no longer wanted them is what shatters and completely ruins their self-esteem. Now for the ladies that are, shall we say not my type; well they come into a business where there is something for everyone. So if she is a bbw, well then bbw fans will be calling and complementing her all day.

So not every provider is clueless coming into this and incapable of such profound reflections.

I'm a new provider and this morning I'm reflecting on my experiences thus far over a nice cup of tea.  Normally, I'd be chatting up one of my girlfriends about what's going on in my life, but I don't think this topic would go over too well!

Some of my thoughts:

1) I absolutely love my favorite patrons!  To me, our connection is real and I get a lot out of our companionship.  I really do love pleasing them.  A lot of people don't seem to believe that a provider can really care about a patron, but I absolutely do.

2) I'm terrified of delusional white knights.  I'm in this industry because I choose to be.  I don't want to be saved!  Way too many patrons are out trying to save a whore when they should really be on a dating web site.  If you can afford this hobby then you can certainly get a girlfriend.  Please respect my choice to be in this profession.

3) There is far too much misogyny in this industry.  I've met some very rude, bitter, mean little men.  Heard of YMMV?  Belligerence is not going to get you very far.

4) I don't care at all about cock size and I don't really understand men's fascination with the subject.  

5) I used to be a little self conscious about my body.  What girl isn't?  Well, not anymore.  All you horny men and your compliments have made me feel pretty damned good about my body!  Thank you!

6) I don't upsell and I don't like being haggled.  Seems to me that the bottom feeders on both sides of this industry deserve each other.  

Wow, you're mouthy. You may be what she means by bitter men! Ever consider that though she may be new to *charging* for her services, she may have always been a party girl?

which is probably why she used an alias.

I believe it when she says she's a new provider because she's still referring to all the guys she sees as her "patrons" rather than "those assholes."  LOL.

because men don't write like I write.

You can't insult intelligence when...

nevermind.


HalfHour

Maybe she means it's her first year or so, not her first week!  Who the fuck cares!  The post was thoughtfully done, and responses should be to its substance.

I commend your thoughtful post. I have had a few tea reflecting moments by myself, with a smirk only I could explain hehe. I agree with all that you have said, and got a good giggle out of it. Have a great hobby season !! xoxo

Seriously, I like your attitude, but when you post anonymous that limits the chance to see what else I might like about you. Feel free to msg me if you're ever around San Diego.  I promise I won't try to rescue you, or talk about penis size . . .

...would that others were as reflective about things.
To the naysayers - How about sharing your secret of all knowing mind reading so we can get in on this being positive of who and what others are.

I LOVE HUGE COCKS!

upon us with equal enthusiasm?

I have a hole for EVERY size afterall !