Ladies, is there another level of screening you do before you get on a plane and leave the country to meet someone you've never met?  
Do you, have you ever traveled without meeting that person first?

I'll save my thoughts to remain brief

Do you always need to meet someone before you accept their offer?

Does the guy always want to spend some time with you first?

I see rates for travel, passport ready, etc. I wonder about the preliminary screening by both parties.  

Most of my interest lies in how you ensure your physical safety since you're not just a cab ride or a drive from home.

I'm sure there are some who will willingly hop on a plane across the world without a second though and feel perfectly comfortable staying with a complete stranger for a week.  On the other hand, there are probably women who require a copy of your passport, birth certificate, and a full blood test before they'll even consider meeting you lol.  It really just depends.  

For me personally, I'm somewhere in the middle. I already have a fairly thorough screening process, so if I do agree to meet you, I already feel comfortable as far as safety is concerned.  My biggest concern with fly me to you dates is whether or not we'll get along for the length of time you'd like for us to spend together.  For domestic travel dates from 6-24 hours, I don't mind flying out to meet you and seeing how it goes.  I always book my own flight and room ahead of time, so worst case scenario I can hide out in there until it's time for me to go home.  But there are very few reasonable people with whom I can't manage to make it through 24 hours. Longer dates and anything requiring international travel, however, I will only accept from clients that I've already met.  It just isn't fair to either of us to waste that kind of time and money on a trip that might end up being an awkward, miserable mess if it turns out that we don't get along as well as we would have hoped.  

Other safety precautions include the obvious: Having people at home knowing the exact details of my travel plans, being prepared to book my own lodging should things become uncomfortable or unsafe, having an internationally capable phone, etc...  

I'm sure you'll get a different answer for every provider you ask.  It's an immensely personal choice and everything from the client to the destination to the length of time may affect the answers. Hope that helps give you an idea of one way to handle it, at least!

It would strike me as odd that someone who didn't know me would want to book such an extended date without checking for compatibility. I wouldn't travel with someone who I hadn't seen at least once. People can be deceptive, even if you think you know them.

I have a friend who is no longer in the business because of a trip that went awry. Her client tried to destroy her passport and became mentally unstable overseas. They were well known to one another and he just snapped so you never know.

with someone they never met. You both answer about how I'd expect as to how you'd proceed with someone they never met. The unfortunate incident with your friend touches on that. I/we could all assume we know everything, but that's the benefit of this Board.  

Glowing reviews aside, I'd need a comfortable level of compatibility and connection before I'd want to spend more than 24 hours with someone.  

For me, a vacation is about relaxing and rewarding myself, and a SO when in relationship. Monetarily, the cost of said trip would fund a  lot of fun in my own back yard or even a short flight to see you.  

Thanks for the reply ... Stay Safe ... Have Fun ... Repeat  terms. But the unfortunate incident with your friend touches on that.  

Thanks for the replies ... Stay Safe ... Have Fun ... Repeat

aren't the kind of men posting on this board day in and day out.  

They don't haggle or question. They give a lady what she needs to accommodate him and they do it with grace, respect and pride within themselves. There is an unspoken understanding. And if you need it explained to you, you don't belong there.  

They certainly know how to truly treat a lady here...first class all the way in every way imaginable without her saying a word. It's a beautiful place to be if you are part of that crowd.

I do many fly me to you for weekends and weeklong trips throughout the US and worldwide. At first it was with regulars but then I started to get invitations from gentlemen I never met.  Everything is pre paid in advance, even the return flight unless its by private jet, and I screen them before hand. No one has ever refused my screening. Nearly all of them are names that I can google and articles in top newspapers turn up on them, so I know they are safe because they have more to lose than me.  That is why they hire a companion, they need absolute discretion.  Its exciting to wonder what the trip will be like, I love to have fun and am always game to anything fun, kinky and naughty, so the trip is always a blast!
Passionately,
Frederica

I'm curious to how the ladies see it. So, let me ask you this ... if your white knight with all his style and grace ... and money, asks you to visit him without you meeting him first, would you go? And what kind of precautions might you take if you did?

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Its like a drug, the excitement of not knowing who how the night will unfold...what's he like? The danger, the naughtiness.... will I get the wildest and kinkiest requests?  And I have had a few that even I was speechless...some I had to bite my lip from laughing and some I was ....WOW is that even possible????...Thats why I love this profession...the gentlemen are so much fun and the nights are always wild....
Frederica

Tend to be the guys I've known, like, forever, and love. They all volunteered a deposit to cover transportation (I didn't even had to ask...they were just like, 'Tell me what you need'), and one even paid for an entire three-day date beforehand.  

I'd consider traveling for a new client... screening would be the same as for a shorter date. But, if we're going to be spending more than 12 hours together, I'd definitely want to spend some time speaking with him extensively, over phone, email, or both, to asses compatibility.  

I have a few clients who are very cool/nice guys, and fine for shorter stints...but, for reasons that basically come down to a matter of taste, I personally couldn't be around them for any more than a few hours.

being in your home city will do little if anything to help you.  In regards to safety,  I have no problem meeting someone out of the country, if they are easily verifiable, have references,  and there has been good communication going into the arrangement. That being said, there are some places in the world where there would be increased risks, and I wouldn’t travel. Most places in North America, Europe, Australia etc, no problem.  I don’t feel that meeting someone in Paris, is inherently more unsafe for me than Chicago. Be aware of your surroundings….always.

I absolutely adore travel, and have spent a much of my adult life traveling or living out of the US.  When I have the opportunity to travel in this line of work, I feel much like Frederica, it’s just adds an extra rush of putting two different activities I love together.  

I should add, that at this time, I can really only do 48 hr engagements, so that makes it much easier to commit to traveling with someone I don't know well. For a longer engagement I would most likely need to know someone previously. I can put up with most quirks for 48hrs.

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Much less someone you are paying or is paying you for sex.

I have done a LOT of multi day trips with hookers, not including a couple of trips much longer with hooker or ex hooker GF's, and on a paid trip about two days seems to be my limit. I don't care how hot she is, how compatible, how great the sex is, after a couple of days I am usually ready for a break.

The one thing I find completely unimaginable is to book a multi day trip with a woman I have never even met. Something like taking a hooker to Europe where the first time you actually meet her is on the flight over there. Yeah, like what could possibly go wrong on trip like that? lol

I would also never dream of traveling with a woman and only knowing her by her hooker name. If she can't trust me with even her name, I certainly can't trust her to travel with me. I can only imagine having an accident and telling the cops my companion's name is Tiffany when it turns out her real name is Sarah. Obviously I think the women should insist on knowing the guy's real name as well, for the very same reason. You just never know what is going to happen when traveling.

and, will make sure that BOTH us have a break from each other (I can't imagine anybody wanting to be around me for that long, either).  

The ones I couldn't tolerate for more than 6+ hours are the ones who never let me have a break from being 'on'.

I'd travel to meet someone new if I got a really good vibe. But, I'm also getting paid thousands, if we're talking overnight+

I feel the same about real name. I mean, if I get in trouble in France...do I say that I'm staying with 'Robert...you know, the balding American guy with wire-rimmed glasses?' The clients with whom I've traveled know me pretty well, and I them. I had zero anxieties about sharing my real name with them

If you know someone well enough to hop on a plane or get in a car with them, you certainly know them well enough to share your real name with them. and this goes for the guys as well.

I am not nor have I ever been a hooker, but I think I understand what you mean about having to be "on" all the time. Personally I don't even like being around someone who is "on" for more than an hour or so while we are having sex.  

I would love to hear how H+T deals with multi day "dates" I wonder what the survival rate of her clients would be? lol

But to answer your questions...  
1. Yes.
2. None of your damn bizness.

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