I have been in a few sessions where providers will take a alcoholic drink to calm down. I did not see this going on or it was hidden from a few years ago.

One lady by the session was over, she went through a pint and 8 ounces of Heineken in 2 hours. She drank it like folks drink after a workout.

The sessions where great and a lot of fun.

What is up with the drinking ?

I feel concerned because down the road the drinking could impact health. Two of them can't drive because of DUIs.

Sex work is hard. I know a lot of strippers who almost never drink outside of work but always need a cocktail to relax at the start of a shift.  I imagine the same may be true for some escorts.  I've seen a gal or two that I could smell it on and I recall one who practically had a full bar set up on the desk in her hotel room.  Now, I understand that an open display may be more for the benefit of a customer who wants to share a drink but, personally, I don't drink much and never before or during a session. I wouldn't have much interest in repeating with a lady who appeared to be intoxicated during a session.  It shows bad judgment.

All of this being said, it's really not your problem. You can't live someone else's life for them.  I worry about my friends, including my friends who may be providers, but I don't worry about folks that I have no connection or relationship with.

There are at least three providers whom I liked very much but won't see again on account of incidents that occured during a session as a result of their drinking.

Sure, one or two drinks is NBD, but after that, bad things start to happen.

If it doesn't affect your session, you probably shouldn't worry about it.  There's a world full of people who abuse substances of all kinds.  You're not going to reform them and it's useless to try.

passes out while sucking your dick, that's a problem!

I had that happen once.  I was, ''Uh...  You OK?"  I had to lift her head off.  At least she didn't choke on it or barf on me.

I thought it was really funny, actually.  I like it when a session is memorable.  But later when she gave me her private cell phone number and offered to come back and stay the whole next night for free, I didn't call.

Generally having a drink because you feel you need to calm down is a bad idea.  This is not social drinking, it is self medicating.  Over time one drink is no longer enough to feel calmed down, so it will usually lead to more drinks or the  addition of another substance to achieve the desired effect.  This is how some one becomes addicted or makes bad decisions that prevents them from driving.  Think about how many providers you know with dui's or  who simply don't drive anymore.  Please don't misunderstand I'm not saying all provider are alcoholics or drug users but it is rather prominent int the hobby when compared to other jobs.

no harm no foul. Drunk on the other hand is a no, no for either a provider or a client, unless you do it together.  I have only showed up drunk at the titty bar or an amp.  The pour girl at the amp worked her ass off the get the job done.  When I got back to the titty bar, My female friend (day bartender) that I had left with  a 100 bar tab to wait till I got back was gone. I rang her up and She Was "I thought you went home" I said I told you I would be back.  She said what took you so long. I said that's what the Japanese girl said.  Moral, drunk sex is only pleasant for the drunk.

But when both of you are drunk and on coke? Fuuuuuck!!!

So I hear.....

Your average monger is not a good looking guy.

Its someone a couple decades older than the prostitute and he can't or won't find a woman who will have consensual relations with him sans compensation.  Generally he's not a pillar of the community and a babe magnet

A woman who chooses to kiss, blow, and fuck some repulsive guys for money more than likely needs help to get through the day.

I don't begrudge a prostitute from using some substances to help her through the day.

I enjoy drinking, and I often drink before, during, and after a session. If any of you tee totalling Betty Ford graduates have a problem with that, TOUGH FUCKING SHIT

Oh BTW I have been drinking tonight TYVM, and I don't really need anyone's permission. Since when has TER turned into a fucking church social where men have to apologize for being men, and women, well I don't really know what women have to apologize for, remember I have been drinking. lol

AAR I might be guilty of PUI,(posting under the influence) but until that's a crime, you buzzkills can all kiss my ass.

If she wants to get fucked up in my presense, I'm good with that. I have no interest in preaching or being preached to about lifestyle choices. Straight hard liquor no chaser and we can get loose as a goose - make a hotel room look like a fucking domestic crime scene. Let's go!

If the lady has been drinking enough that I can tell, I will end the session before it starts. I also will never rebook. I will pay her part of her fee and be on my way. If it was an outcall I would offer her a taxi ride home on my tab in order to make sure she gets home safely.

Being intoxicated interferes with a persons judgement thus there ability to give consent. Plus the need to drink to do this tells me that it is doing her harm to provide. I will not be part of causing a lady harm just so I can get my nut.

In addition I want professionalism out of everyone I pay. That goes double for those I am paying $200+ an hour. Being intoxicated is not being a professional. I would fire anyone that I am paying if they showed up under the influence, providers are not an exception.

I feel the same way scoed. I would question a providers judgement if she was under the influence and would not go through with the session.  I want a nice sober lady who makes no dangerous "mistakes" in her profession due to drinking to excess.

and have not had a drink in 27 years.  It bothers me to be around sloppy drunks, but I dont mind if she has tossed down a glass or two to calm the jitters.  I actually like the taste of it during DFK as long as she is not wacked on it.   When I was still intimate with my wife, she used to get horny after a couple of drinks so I'd constantly be pouring the wine.   THat taste reminds me of the old days.

Anyone who's lost a loved one to a drunk driver will sadly attest that one potential DUI is one too many.
Admittedly, with some level of embarrassment, I'm personally grateful to have survived the stupidity of my youth unscathed (decades ago).

I certainly have to agree with the choice of leaving before the session if a lady is ever impaired to the extent where consent might be in question.

That being said, if 24 oz of Heineken (about 5% alcohol) was consumed as described, over the course of 2 hours, it should normally result in a blood alcohol level of approximately .06% (or less) for a 100 lb. spinner. That level does have some amount of reduced inhibition and some level of impairment, but wouldn't be necessarily be indicative of a problem AS LONG AS THERE IS NO DRIVING INVOLVED. However, in some circumstances the same consumption could produce a higher level for someone that size, which could be problematic. Fucking can be thirst inducing fun! Hopefully she was drinking as though after a workout because of the effort she put in!

I can also see how a provider could easily inadvertently over-imbibe in a situations where she has multiple appointments; clients bring a bottle of wine or other beverage they'd like to share, she wants to please the client..... It seems that there could definitely be a learning curve involved with being able to gracefully and adroitly avoid having your glass refilled too many times. I would expect that a lot of ladies have experienced that sort of situation at least once.

A Blood Alcohol Content (BAC) calculator can give an APPROXIMATION of impairment for a given level of consumption/time.
Best choice for all? Don't drink and drive.

If this was an alias It'd be "Captain_Buzzkill"

Been watching boxing on HBO with the ol man till he took off and just now saw this...

Fucking bunch of cry-babies that can't handle their shit if you ask my drunk ass!

Here's a little ditty for you fucking pussies that can't appreciate WTF the Gambler and I do.

We're all adults here. You can't hang with the big dogs, keep your ass on the porch.

I don't condone drinking to excess. But for those of us that do, and make it one of the four food groups, the rest can mind your fucking business!

I don't remember any of you walking in the bank today with me making my house payment. Or going to the grovery store after and buying food and shit for me and my boys.

Like Gambler said. Go fuck yourself.

If you're going to sit there and count how many drinks I consume, you're going to be sitting there for a long ass time.

You've been drinking or not.  As for fucking myself, don't really need your permission, but thanks.

The only drinking I'll do, in regards to a session, is a glass of wine with the companion. I usually bring it, and open it in her presence so she knows its not been tampered with in any way.

Can't remember the last time I threw up from drinking. But then again, what day is it today? lol!

I had no idea he could be this dignified.

Gambler's been around for a while. Might turn you on to a thing or two.

For another, you'll NEVER see me wearing a tie. I'm fucking 43 years old and I don't have the slightest idea how to tie one!

But I do own one. It's a Jerry Garcia print I got from a radio station.

And if anyone here doesn't know who Jerry Garcia is I will be forced to sic Hirogen on your ass for all of eternity! lmao!

Not all the episodes are about MP67, you'll recognize some of the rest of us too. LOL.

Actually, in Peep Show, the guy buying the beer is the uptight, wage slave, and the guy behind the counter is his loser roommate.

I dont usually drink BUT with clients I have shared some wine, a few beers or a mixed drink or two. These alone will not get me sloshed. I dont see any problem with it honestly if both parties are ok with it.  as long as everything is done responsibly.