i posted a question to hobbyists about whether they would marry a provider last night.  i now put the following questions to providers:

His handle is Scoed...
From what I gather. He is cool. PM him.

thank you

I recently dated an older man he was 60 but looked GREAT for his age I'm 20 so their was definitely a massive age gap but  the chemistry felt real and the sex was amazing seriously we had a thing for 8 months and to be honest I really did fall for him, I felt like i could happily marry this man, but in the end it all kind fell by the way side as I was just kind of well wouldn't say just sex to him but he's been married and  divorced so he didn't want to escalate things to a relationship which did break my heart if I'm being truthful.

sorry it broke your heart.  it was only naive because of the age gap.  i met a beautiful woman, but she has difficulties reconciling her work.  i am not a hobbyist and do not have insecurity issues.  it will be a difficult task for her.

Most continue to provide.  It's a story as old as the hills.  Watch the movie "Pretty Baby" sometime.
PS: None of the ladies I know will talk to you about it.  It's the kind of personal information they share with someone they trust.  And you are very much an unknown.

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Very much an unknown, AND admitted you are not a hobbyist...Why are you here or how did you hear about this site otherwise ????

found this site when i considered seeing a provider; i considered seeing a provider to avoid any emotional strings and she mentioned the site.

thank you.  i do understand the trust factor.  i will watch the movie.

you'll have to go back quite a ways, set the time at 3600 for good measure. The board used to be littered with posts about clients &  providers  getting married or just dating. There's an expression, "help I've fallen for a provider and can't get up" not sure of the origin but it's been used quite a lot over the years.  

...but share my life with a hobbyist?  sure -- why not?  hobbyists and providers are people first -- any labels come second -- and people can meet in interesting ways.  honestly, in the grand scheme of things, 'hobbyist' or 'provider' are only ONE of virtually limitless facets of a human being.  we're not defined by any one aspect of our selves.

The purpose of it is not to get "legal" (In fact quite the opposite, sort of.) but to declare an ongoing relationship to our friends and family.

We are thinking of someone to officiate, and may even get a real druid priest, if lucky.

And of course, any excuse for a big rip-roarin' party is a good one.

Great post Katie.

Thanks, Butterflydust.  

Butterfly dust made a brilliant post.  

To think that I may be thrown to the curb when you tire of me or when my dick gets limp.......

It sounded to me like a limp noodle wouldn't be a problem... just a limp wallet.

London... you wouldn't consider a NON-HOBBYIST who knew you were a provider (or perhaps ex-provider)? Would you marry and keep your secret, or just not marry at all? Not judging, just curious.

I am living it. It takes real work. It isn't easy but what in life worth a damn is? I am sorry about your experience but I know it can work if both parties work at it.

Or was that just the "unengagement"  for the "unwedding?"

Considering what most hookers are living on I doubt that too many of the mongers aren't quite well equipped financially to support YOUR spending needs  LOL

those term are perfectly acceptable.  i have no problems with her work and have no intention of asking her to retire... its her job and either i can accept it and love her or find someone else.

i have no plans for a state marriage license.  thank you for the post.

A guy who did it once or twice in his entire life? Maybe, but not someone who lived and breathed it. Hey, I also don't expect some guy to date me as a provider. I would think he had a screw loose lol.

Good call. But I wouldn't be me if that wasn't the case. LOL

LMAO...yep! I still luv ya!

Isn't that what the guys generally do here? I know, they are renting the cover and not interested, for the most part in the actual content, they just look at the pictures.