His handle is Scoed...
From what I gather. He is cool. PM him.

I recently dated an older man he was 60 but looked GREAT for his age I'm 20 so their was definitely a massive age gap but  the chemistry felt real and the sex was amazing seriously we had a thing for 8 months and to be honest I really did fall for him, I felt like i could happily marry this man, but in the end it all kind fell by the way side as I was just kind of well wouldn't say just sex to him but he's been married and  divorced so he didn't want to escalate things to a relationship which did break my heart if I'm being truthful.

I know I was naive in thinking it could have really been something considering the age gap and the fact that he has daughter in the same age group as me, so theirs that. I did not intend to fall for him or to love him that was not part of my plan but it happens.

And to honest what more could I have expected? being with someone like me isn't for every one so such is life i guess, but too answer your question yes i would get married, but I also plan to stop escorting once I graduate college, but I would want my husband to be aware of my past.

Most continue to provide.  It's a story as old as the hills.  Watch the movie "Pretty Baby" sometime.
PS: None of the ladies I know will talk to you about it.  It's the kind of personal information they share with someone they trust.  And you are very much an unknown.

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you'll have to go back quite a ways, set the time at 3600 for good measure. The board used to be littered with posts about clients &  providers  getting married or just dating. There's an expression, "help I've fallen for a provider and can't get up" not sure of the origin but it's been used quite a lot over the years.  

...but share my life with a hobbyist?  sure -- why not?  hobbyists and providers are people first -- any labels come second -- and people can meet in interesting ways.  honestly, in the grand scheme of things, 'hobbyist' or 'provider' are only ONE of virtually limitless facets of a human being.  we're not defined by any one aspect of our selves.

to me, knowing and accepting that i am a provider is #1.  i've dated civilians and hobbyists in the past, but even with my civilian partner (whom i am no longer dating, but not because i am a provider -- we're still on good terms, it was the result of a relocation for a job), i was very up-front and brought it up on the first date.  however, i do want to have more children someday, and when that happens, it will be time for me to retire, anyway.

so the answer is basically yes, just minus the "state marriage" part.

Yes and yes.

Butterfly dust made a brilliant post.  

I feel much the same way. I require my life partner to not only be okay with my job, but to understand it is something I enjoy, and something I will only stop when I am good and ready. I also require my partnership to be based on a deep emotional and spiritual bond, not monogamous sex. Monogamy doesn't work for me, and I feel it is a superficial measure of commitment. I understand others feel differently, but to each his or her own. I am fine with my partner engaging sexually with others as well. Also, I would never marry or partner with someone whose job I couldn't deal with, and I would never dream of insisting someone stop their work for me. I would just move on until I found someone with whom I am more compatible.