and each time I had conversed with them for some time after meeting them on this or another board, and gotten to know them quite well.

Both times things went swimmingly.

Sometimes I want the excitement and exhilaration that I can't get when I am seeing someone who is well reviewed.
Seeing well reviewed providers can get boring and predictable.
It's like hunting, but not for food

idea of TER's existence, and therefore have no idea that I even had reviews.

In each case it was as Mr. Fisher had said, I had a long standing communication with them, over many many months, and in all the cases, our times together went SWIMMINGLY!!!

It seems to be a pattern that has been expressed over and over on this board and the regional boards.
Taking one for the team by seeing ladies with no reviews.I understand that the lady has to start somewhere with someone taking a chance and seeing her for the first time.My question is what makes you decide to do this the hot pics,price,consistently seeing her ads,or some other reason?There are many well-reviewed ladies on here and some gentleman are experienced hobbyist so why go with an unknown versus already having an idea of what you are getting?In my city I see many TOFTT which seems to leave the gentleman disappointed and out a lot more than if he had went with a reviewed lady.

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I've been on both sides of the fence and considering i'm a  recent member. I Started without any reviews and it does impact us as providers. Most men want to know what they are getting, which I can understand some men don't want to be surprised by what's not in the box.

.. about six months ago.  Why?  Because I had been reading the CL ads for amusmement forever and this one stood out as not out of the same cookie cutter.    

It went GREAT!  She was a semi-pro making ends meet that month.   A good time was had by both... I got to cum twice and I KNOW she got off at least once.  

Having said all that, it was incall and to a nice neighborhood and I had the option to 'pull the handle' at any time up to knocking on her door.  

I followed my instincts and all was well.  By the same token I have driven off from appointments for no other reason than 'something' (unknown) made the hair on the back of my neck stand up when I got there.  

No guarantees in this sport!

MVR

markets herself well known by participating on the regional TER board, shows some positive personality, posts some nice pics (not necessarily graphic) along with her one aloted ad per week, it is possible to get attracted to her.  There needs to be a mental as well as a physical attraction for me to make a date.  I will repeat with those ladies who continue to display these characteristics as well as provides a quality experience for a reasonable price, travel logistics permitting (since I often hobby while traveling on business).

Good luck to you.

I've seen 4 non reviewed providers. And out of that four only ONE was worth seeing again. As I mention before in another post, I have my three main providers I see in rotation now.

They all stay at the same hotel when they visit, I get a discount at times, They all make sure I get my nut off, I get along with them all, The staff at the hotel are friendly, I'm always comfortable, and it's only a few min drive to get there.

Right now these three providers are giving me what I want, so I'm happy. I don't see the point in taking the risk when I'm getting what I want.

I have way past one review, but it originally started with one!!!!!
thumbs up for TOFTT

on the newbie board that just attracted me to her. I was traveling to her area in a couple of months so I kept in touch. A great time was had by all and we continue to stay in touch.

So I would say that "chemistry" even through the board was the catch!

But yes her pictures were really hot.

When I have seen women without reviews, it's because I am convinced she is OK.  Not a Rip Off and not a Trap.  
A number of factors come into play when choosing who to see.  Reviews are one but not the only factor, and I have seen women without reviews.  

Lower price doesn't hurt but it's not a factor for me in deciding. Consistently seeing her ads is a major factor in taking the plunge.

That, and it she has a certain look. While I find women of every sort attractive, and I prefer more mature providers overall. Sometimes a little dark-haired spinner who is not too busty, just makes my blood boil. (Especially is she has some nice ink and is a rocker chick.)

I'll enjoy my guilty pleasure, tip her well, and ask her if she'd be interested in being completely naked, taken care of and pampered as a sex toy for 30 days straight. (with the grin of a lecher, of course)

Then I go back to my everyday activities.

Its all good fun!

HalfHour

I know many ladies that I can more or less at any time, all of whom are highly reviewed and thought of on TER, and deservedly so.    Even if none of them are available, there are always a number of well thought of ladies, both visiting and home based in NYC or NNJ, that I can reach out to.  The most adventuresome I will get is to post an inquiry that I am available on such and such a date, who's around that wants to play?  This usually garners a number of responses, including some surprises.  Twice when I did this, ladies that I had met at M&G's months before remembered me, and both times, they got the nod.  BTW, both were well-reviewed here, so the choice was easy.

I mean, you're a very hot lady with many reviews and I can't wait to meet you, to tell the truth!

Thanks to those who TOFTT we have new ladies joining the community....if everyone would only see the well-reviewed we would not have new ladies. I do TOFTT if the lady looks hot....

there are many ladies who choose not to be reviewed that are as good as the reviewed ones

A provider's looks get me to look at her ad. But that is the beginning. If I can't find reviews I look for features in the ladiy's advertising, and her response to inquiries. I don't get explicit, just desired times and mode of visit. The way a lady advertises and how she handles inquiries provides me with actionable information pro or con setting up a date with her.

I totally understand it is hard starting out with no reviews or reviewed somewhere else.I can understand the TOFTT with a lady you have been communicating with for some time seems pretty cool and has a board presence.I am more talking about the gentleman that calls sets up a time usually that day or the next and that is as far as the communication goes.Seems like not enough research goes into the decision or he cannot resist and then he is disappointed.
Thanks everyone for your responses!
And to MR,OH YEAH! I am waiting!

Can't really tell you why, the normal stimuli probably.  Unfortunately, the experiences were just OK.
I wrote reviews, basically said the ladies pics were real and they were not robs, but not the great time I usually have.

Without reviews it's iffy.  I've found 2 jems...  I've been taken twice...   NOW, I'd not go without a web site (shows pro attitude) & some conversation.  Maybe through a measage site like TER offers.  

NEWBIES are best off with well reviewed providers.  With some experience, TOFTT is still risky as far as performance but with experience, one learns the way this is supposed to work.  If things don't seem right, the experienced hobbiest knows to move on.
skb

a great incentive is a serious discount. If someone has zero reviews and would like to lure guys in for a review, look at the price range around you. If you offer a really great deal, people will take a second look. After you have the reviews, the lady can always increase rates if the believes enough guys will continue seeing her...

I back channel with other hobbyist, talk to other providers who may know the lady in question, look at other review sites,  read her website/ads, Google her, and use other methods to get the information I need to feel comfortable with meeting her. I do all those things anyway as I don't always trust reviews as there is way to many reasons to post incarcerate reviews. I will see a lady if I can verify she is not a robber or LE. I Have seen 6 ladies without reviews and was two ladies first client ever. Sorry no reviews of those two as one was just testing the waters and didn't know if she really wanted to do this as a job at the time and now it is to late to post a review. The second was a double with my wife and I do not review any sessions with my wife as she has her own reviews from the early days of this site and it could be taken as a shill review because there are those here who know my wife professionally as she now is providing again and one of these knows my TER handle. Out of other 4 ladies I only reviewed one, one I couldn't review as she took one ,look at me and called me a "fat fucker" and left before I could even invite her in, one asked not to be reviewed, and first one was before I even knew there was review sites or anything about screening ones dates and she robbed me. The one that insulted me I was seeing as a favor to a friend of hers who wanted to help get her started, her friend made it up to me in spades for her friends behavior. I have been happy with every encounter I have had with a lady I have screened that didn't have reviews except one which is about the same rate of good dates I have with reviewed ladies. Reviews while important can only be trusted so far.

I have seen three such providers, years ago, and all were positive visits. It's more nerve wracking to go that route, but sometimes you strike gold. One of the providers I met is a favorite, and we stay in touch to this day. Pictures are what hook me, and then the rates make or break the whole deal.

Not me, too risky in a lot of ways, but I understand the attraction.

Zig