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Raquel de Milo See my TER Reviews 1995 reads
posted
1 / 29
So, what should I say?

So I received a message on Twitter...

What do you guys and ladies think is the right way to answer such a question?

Is he insinuating that an intelligent person would not be a professional sex worker?  Are sex workers viewed as less than intelligent?

I disagree with that assumption, the successful independent sex workers I've met are highly intelligent.

JackDunphy 652 reads
posted
2 / 29
I'll tell you what I would tell him.

"Thank you kind sir for giving me a great idea for a threAD!"

escalade1964 65 Reviews 390 reads
posted
3 / 29
I do not see where he is insuating

This is just his way of saying you are special

jelloman42 10 Reviews 402 reads
posted
4 / 29
Not enough data to go on, I answer your query regardless...

It appears to me that he's commenting specifically to his feelings regarding your choice of pics...any inferences to judgements regarding your chosen profession seem to be your own creation...

WildJimmy! 354 reads
posted
5 / 29
Tell him to read reviews. Almost all providers are praised for being surprisingly smart.

And no one puts it together. AND check out the grammar and spelling of the clients who rave on about how intelligent the provider is.

Basically it's a another way of complimenting a girl after you've already mentioned her big tits and sweet tasting pussy.

Raquel de Milo See my TER Reviews 443 reads
posted
6 / 29
I'm looking for an appropriate answer.

My purpose of asking this question is because we are frequently asked these types of questions.  I think the ladies and I would appreciate advice.

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 436 reads
posted
7 / 29
Why not try this?

If you feel a need to explain, and that would be a big 'if' if it were me, you can tell him that:  

"Many educated men and captains of industry (lol I love that term) with six and seven figure incomes pay me what the average person earns in a week just to have dinner and dessert with me. So, I guess it all depends on how one defines intelligent  PS I case you didn't catch my drift I can say this same thing in seven languages if one other than English would be easier for you to understand"

Merry Christma

JackDunphy 390 reads
posted
8 / 29
Really?

You are telling us that when guys call you "stunning", "sexy" and "beautiful" its a problem? LOL

Oh, you poor baby!

Nothing a day at the spa won't cure, I'm sure. LO

jelloman42 10 Reviews 355 reads
posted
9 / 29
Then ask the appropriate question...

I think my response was correct based on my reading of the "tweet" in question...I do not see any inference, let alone an outright statement, regarding his being judgemental of providers...therefore your asking for advice on how to defend your chosen profession in not appropriate to the situation at hand...

Intrigued* 388 reads
posted
10 / 29
This is man speak for I'm afraid of you but I think you are hot...

Tell him thank you and leave the next move to him.
 

Posted By: Raquel de Milo
So I received a message on Twitter...  
   
 What do you guys and ladies think is the right way to answer such a question?  
   
 Is he insinuating that an intelligent person would not be a professional sex worker?  Are sex workers viewed as less than intelligent?  
   
 I disagree with that assumption, the successful independent sex workers I've met are highly intelligent.

Lady_Rose See my TER Reviews 388 reads
posted
11 / 29
"Almost all providers are praised for being surprisingly smart."

And Blonde to boot! :)

PollieAmorous See my TER Reviews 315 reads
posted
12 / 29
Agreed

The response should be thank you . Respond to his compliments not his question . Pollie

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 319 reads
posted
13 / 29
How about, "Thank you for the compliments." EOM

Posted By: Raquel de Milo
So I received a message on Twitter...  
   
 What do you guys and ladies think is the right way to answer such a question?  
   
 Is he insinuating that an intelligent person would not be a professional sex worker?  Are sex workers viewed as less than intelligent?  
   
 I disagree with that assumption, the successful independent sex workers I've met are highly intelligent.

Raquel de Milo See my TER Reviews 357 reads
posted
14 / 29
Re: Really?

Posted By: JackDunphy
You are telling us that when guys call you "stunning", "sexy" and "beautiful" its a problem? LOL  
   
 Oh, you poor baby!  
   
 Nothing a day at the spa won't cure, I'm sure. LOL  
   
 
Maybe you misunderstood me, guys that ask me this type of question usually end up with this type of statement: why are you selling yourself, you can do better than that.  Following that it's common for them to try to convince me into free sex because I'm too good to be a whore.  

If I'm not making sense with this let me know because I have always wondered how to appropriately react

keystonekid 114 Reviews 271 reads
posted
15 / 29
+1. PS nailed the correct answer. eom


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keystonekid 114 Reviews 360 reads
posted
16 / 29
Not sure which pic you used in your tweet but the pics on your website . . .

are stunning.

JackDunphy 370 reads
posted
17 / 29
In all seriousness, who gives a fk what he or his ilk think?

Why do you need a response to those asshats? Just hit delete or ignore it and move on

sasha2cute See my TER Reviews 336 reads
posted
18 / 29
Maybe, just maybe you're thinking too much into it.

Accept the compliment. Demand the envelope. Next!

sasha2cute See my TER Reviews 336 reads
posted
19 / 29
Exquisite put.


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GaGambler 342 reads
posted
20 / 29
You've got it almost right there PA, the correct response is "Thank you

now fuck off"

I am just wondering why all this energy is being expended trying to come up with a clever answer to a stupid question. I thought someone just said that hookers were smart. buying into some losers little game he's playing with you is not what I would consider "smart"

Actually Pollie got it completely right, kill him with kindness. It will completely diffuse him. Engaging him, or insulting him will only encourage him, just like a board troll.

GaGambler 380 reads
posted
21 / 29
What kind of grown ass man uses Twatter to ask this kind of question in the first place?

Just consider the source and move on. There is no proper response.  

How do you respond to this question. "have you quit fucking your brother yet?" Same answer, you don't.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 278 reads
posted
22 / 29
I hate those I never answer back (e)


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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 330 reads
posted
23 / 29
No reason for sex worker to be offended

Nothing wrong with someone asking question.Guy wasn't nasty to you at all..Hobbyists going to have PAID good time with all sex workers.

-- Modified on 12/28/2015 5:23:33 AM

Related Link: http://www.preferred411.com/P136493

mrfisher 115 Reviews 336 reads
posted
24 / 29
What to say to an ungramatical non sequitur?....

A range of things:

1.  nothing (ignore)
2.  Learn how to write/edit
3. So that I can get compliments like yours
4.  No

 
I'm sure there are others

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 312 reads
posted
25 / 29
Re: What to say to an ungramatical non sequitur?....

Not all folk's have fancy device and spell check.Sad folk's judge folk's on a board over spelling and edit.LOL :)

Related Link: http://www.preferred411.com/P136493

bigguy30 260 reads
posted
26 / 29
I trying to figure out what Twatter is supposed to be in the first place? eom

Posted By: GaGambler
Just consider the source and move on. There is no proper response.  
   
 How do you respond to this question. "have you quit fucking your brother yet?" Same answer, you don't.

GaGambler 270 reads
posted
27 / 29
Don't forget stupidity

We are awfully tough on stupid posters as well.

Congratulations are in order, you have vaulted into the lead in this year's SPOTY's, the first female poster to have the lead this late in the year since the competition started.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 299 reads
posted
28 / 29
I don't consider myself the grammar police but.....

that tweet isn't even in the ball park.

No spell or grammar check is ever going to help that mess

ilarasantos See my TER Reviews 287 reads
posted
29 / 29
Captain Save a Ho aka White Knight

Is he trying to save you from something? Oh lord! They all have opinions that most prefer not to hear...send him the link to your wish list.  
What is he supposed to do for you with this? lol.
Happy Holidays.

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