Women over 30 remember what they looked like.  Women under 30 have no idea how good they'll fuck in a few years.

A man having any facial hair inhibits perfect DATY.

Let a woman know which way to head immediately prior to her exiting your hotel room.  After a perfect encounter, no one wants to look silly, even if only for a moment.

Women want to be shown how good you are in bed, never told.

If the girl is coming to you, have bottled water and hand towels by the bed.

Humor and kindness are great to include in any e-mail, but, of the two, humor is better.

When DATY, try having the lady close her eyes and be so gentle with your breath and tongue that she can barely feel you.  I've been told that almost every man is too rough in this dept.

Women LOVE a shaved cock and balls, but it must be done the day of the encounter.

Woman consider eye contact, kissing and hand holding more intimate than fucking.

Older women are impressed with the unmentioned reasons you chose to see them.

People on the TER discussion boards are, in most cases, extremely intelligent.

Men's underwear is unnecessary.

Over 50% of all providers offer bareback full service, but never with another provider in the room.

Women who require deposits are always reliable.

The donation in the white envelope thing was never a good idea...shows intent.

I find Jacksonlips more interesting than that other guy who goes by my real name.

Performance reviews are everything.

I know Amber Lynn's real name, phone number, and where she lives. The fact that that interests me is a character flaw.

Women with small breasts LOVE their bodies.

Plan on arriving at least 1/2 hour early for an appointment.  Time unwinding in a lounge beats the hell out of time upset in traffic.

Women who love sex are really interesting people in all areas of life.  Same goes for men.

Girls who won't DFK or give a BBBJ aren't concerned with disease.  They're mediocre sexually.

Start the habit of leaving a nice note and big tip for the maid in your hotel room.  Peanuts to you, means the world to them.

If you pay for an hour date, and the woman spends an entire night with you, she really likes you.  Either that, or she's homeless.

I always feel a bit silly calling a provider by her fake name.

After the novelty of a three-way wears off, it's 2 hours of the girl's time, but 1 hour of your pleasure.

If you cum in a woman's mouth, then kiss her, she'll say something about it.

If you're unsure if anal is on the menu, put her in doggy, wet your thumb and press it against her ass.  You'll get your answer.

Unless you know the girl well, or dinner is involved, always book just an hour.  The last thing that will determine the quality of your encounter is the amount of time you booked.  You spent more money than you needed to and women don't find suckers hot!!

Sending a thank you e-mail after an encounter means more than anything you do before or during it.

The Boston Medical people have a great slogen...sex IS life!!


Jacksonlips

1)  Give a warm hug upon entering the door but be sure to say,
   "Oh, what a nice hug you're giving me" in case he's LE."

2)  Always place your oils, wrappings and anything else you think
   you might need on the nightstand so you don't have to fumble
   for it later.

3)  Never say, "Would you like a massage?"  You have to have a
   license for it (in case he's LE). Instead, say, "Your
   shoulders look stiff, would you like a backrub?"

4)  Always, always, always make sure you're freshly showered. I
   will still excuse myself to refrehen upon arrival.

5)  Always make sure you carry breath mints with you.

6)  Never let a man make you feel bad by telling you, "Oh, I
   hate wearing these things. I just can't keep it hard." Well,
   then you've got the problem, not me.

7)  Always put a smile on your face. Happiness is contagious.

8)  Always look into your partner's eyes. Contact is important.

9)  Feel good about your body and show it. The more confident
   you are, the more comfortable he will be.

10) Always find something nice to say, but don't be phoney.

Hugs,
Ciara

She's a smart vixen, but a sexy beast who has heart as well ... hey hun what are you doing on the 4th of July? Need some fireworks?

is well worth the wait. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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Fantastic observations.  I agree with pretty much everything.  I have also learned a few things while reading this board, so please keep it up, my luvs.    

The only thing I wonder about is the no no on the white envelope.  Seeing it usually reasures me that the person is professional enough not to count it out in front of me, make a big deal about the exchange, and that I'm not going to get stiffed..   Are there reasons for me to change this viewpoint?

I was there with you right up untill...

"Over 50% of all providers offer bareback full service, but never with another provider in the room."

While I must acknowledge your greater experience, I still find this stat difficult to digest. Are you talking 50% offer BBFS to someone sometime in thier career? Or, do you mean just to regulars? Or, do you mean its on the menu?

Jacksonlips, in my experience, is close to the mark. Why be surprised? It is a business of human relations, you know.

Frankly, for many different reasons, it's really too hot a potato to be discussed on a public fora. I would really rather not discuss it than go through that hypocritical bullshit that others go through. Suffice to say, I am a big believer in safe sex.

Great Post. I have learned that 50% plus od the providers I have seen a second time (if they like you) give BBBJ, DFK, and will allow you to play with their toys.

Jacksonlips, this may be the best post I have read all year. I liked the two below in particular, but they are all classics.

"Let a woman know which way to head immediately prior to her exiting your hotel room.  After a perfect encounter, no one wants to look silly, even if only for a moment."

"Sending a thank you e-mail after an encounter means more than anything you do before or during it."

posts like these and archiving them somewhere???  

In any event, what your post shows is that in the last analysis, we're all human beings and that we enhance our experience in the hobby by being the best human beings we can be.

After an encounter just as we part, I've found when I offer a Creme Saver it is accepted and appreciated.

The last four mean a lot to me, especially 7, 8 & 10.  I wonder if we underestimate and underappreciate two of our greatest assets: our smile and our eyes.


7)  Always put a smile on your face. Happiness is contagious.

8)  Always look into your partner's eyes. Contact is important.

9)  Feel good about your body and show it. The more confident
  you are, the more comfortable he will be.

10) Always find something nice to say, but don't be phoney.

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...all in good ,safe fun...
I very much enjoyed your thought provoking view to a provider.


Women over 30 don't care what they looked like...still look great, but dam!...they sure know their body and how to fuck.  Women under 30 look good and have some ideas how good they'll fuck in a few years.

A man having any facial hair exhibits perfect DATY...
95% of the time...nobody's perfect.

Let a woman know which way to head immediately after her entering your hotel room.(I'm sure she'll know anyway)  Before a perfect encounter, one can look silly, even if only for a moment.

Women want to be shown and told how good you are in bed.

If the girl is coming to you, have Champers,lube and hand towels by the bed.

Humor and kindness are great to include in any e-mail, but, of the two, humor is better... as long as its funny.

When DATY, try having the lady open her eyes to make contact with yours and be so gentle with your breath and tongue that she can barely feel you... but then if she's naughty... a good pussy spanking will sometimes be in order.  I've been told that many man are too soft in this dept.

Women LOVE an unshaved,hot,sweaty cock and balls at anytime.

Women consider foreplay more intimate than fucking.

Older women are impressed with the mentioned reasons you chose to see them.

People on the TER discussion boards are, in most cases, extremely intelligent and almost always horny.

Men's underwear is unnecessary unless its below freezing.

Over 80% of all providers offer "only" covered full service.
I would suspect the other 20% would consider if $ are right and they are asked. VR don't play russian roulette.

Women who require deposits are reliable but see less clients.

The "present" in the envelope shows good intentions especially with an understanding that it happens afterwards.

I find Jacksonlips interesting...Btw...Wassup with the Lips?
Jagger-esque?...just wanted to know what's in the name?

Performance reviews are everything... provided you know what you want although sometimes you can't always get what you want...you get what you need.

I don't know Amber Lynn's real name, phone number, and where she lives. Now...ask me about Ginger Lynn? Wouldn't you like to know.
Keep your feet to the "flaw".

Women with A B C D cup breasts LOVE their bodies.

Plan on arriving at least 1/2 hour early for an appointment.  Time unwinding in a lounge beats the hell out of time upset in traffic but... go easy on the sauce.

Women who don't love sex are really uninteresting people in all areas of life.  Same goes for men.

Girls who DFK or give a BBBJ are concerned with disease less (but not by much) than their overall enjoyment of sex.

Start the habit of leaving peanuts to the maids in the hotels...Only kidding...

If you pay for an hour date, and the woman spends an entire night with you,she's probably homeless...and doesn't dislike you.

I always feel a bit silly calling a provider by name unless its dirty.

After the novelty of a three-way wears off, it's double your pleasure ...double your fun...and less $ in your wallet.

If you cum in a woman's mouth, then kiss her, she'll say something about it but only after the splooge has been dealt with.Don't ever let her talk with her mouth ....

If you're unsure if anal is on the menu, put her in doggy, wet your thumb and... ask.

Unless you know the girl well never book more than an hour and
maybe take her to dinner first so than you can get to know her

Not sending a thank you e-mail after an encounter means less than anything you do before,during, and after it.

The Boston Medical people have a great slogen...sex IS life!!
Long live sex!

Cheers!


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You do put a lot of thought in it.

There is so much that I have learned from all this. I can't begin to put it in words.

Thanks.

"Oh, is this 'card' for me?"  If LE is listening, then all your accepting is a greeting card. It also makes it easier to take into the bathroom and count it if you're not sure.

Hugs,
Ciara

Mmm, kiss me, you fool!

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