I'm a "whatever it takes" kind of guy also. First off, I'm just happy that I'm getting one, so if a lady has a certain technique that does the job, I'm all for it. And I've met a few ladies with some techniques that drove me wild.

For a finale, the hand pressing on the base feels great, but the real action is happening in the first 2 or 3 inches. I think the DT is just a turn on, for me, because of the visual effect.

Personally, I have only one rule...

It's gotta be a female that's performing it on me.  Beyond that, most everything else is negotiable.

whatever body part you want to add to the mix!  Just do it!

A BBBJ is the ONE service that I insist upon - so the TER reviews are critical for me in this area.

And the comment about the head being most important - that's for sure.   DT my little member isn't a big task for any lady!  Unfortunately.

I've run into a lot of younger ladies who seem to think that a good BJ is about imitating porn. If so I wish they'd go back to the 70s and 80s for their inspiration......

All that drama looks good on the screen but does nothing for a lot of guys. For me, it's overstimulating, and will make me *numb*.

I like light hand action on the bottom 2/3 and teasing, plaful mouth and tongue on the top third. Tease it out of me - you don't have to force it, to pump it out of me. Make my hips rock! That way I may take two minutes longer but I will BLOW. And, uh, more likely see the lady again '

and I usually try and communicate it.  Slow and sensual with hands gently working me as well.  My mind is in is as much as my other nerves and a slow teasing BJ by a beautiful woman is hard to beat.

Never found DT or the jackhammer technique to be particularly enjoyable.  But it seems a common technique, maybe as mentioned due to porn.  I personally have never found a woman gagging or tearing up to be stimulating.

I'll do it however you request but I have to tell you that if I can't use a hand to tilt it in the right direction you can expect a lot of teeth scraping.

I absolutely HATE when a guy grabs my head or ears and forces himself into my mouth causing me to gag! Fetish sessions are EXTRA so expect TEETH.

I used to go head on..... literally but it was an ex of mine (who had no idea what I did in my spare time) that told me he would much rather a mix of hands and straight head.  As in all things, I believe pleasure is in the feelings of the person receiving = ), making communication paramount.

If you make a meeting and want satisfaction it is your job to articulate your wants and needs to the provider.  You likely won't need to vocalize exactly what you want but you could easily guide her as the two you go along.  

Remember she is not a mind reader and will likely take you request in stride.

I absolutely refuse to put that much thought into getting a BJ....

Thankyou all for your replies.
skb

It's all bout the tongue, darlin... where you use it and how you use it... soft slow torture

::kisses::
Summer

Very well stated SKB.

(1) that it is always BBBJ; and (2) finishes with TCIMNQNS!

I love it, but I am so into it I am not thinking of any rules or any scripted performances. I do a number of things depending on what the gentleman likes and how he moans.

Hugs,
Ciara

When I spoke of hand work, I was refering to the LADY's hands on the gent.  Angain, thanks for the thoughts on this.

Also, Thank you Ladies for pointing out that my statement was unclear...  All my life I have thought that NO GENTLEMAN would force a woman's head down.  I'm not into kink...  at least not THAT kind of kink!  I do not want my lovely companion to suffocate or choke...  and I want my need to breathe to be respected also.  
skb