I have had a few calls and some messages from potential guests stating that Anal is considered part of Full Service GFE.  Now, this is something I've only attempted twice in my private life, and only one of those attempts were somewhat successful.  I'm inexperienced in....negotiating....those curves in the road, and don't feel that offering that with a guest I don't have an equally trusting rapport with as I may already share with someone in my private life could potentially end rather disastrous for me, and unsatisfying for my guest.  And no one has ever tried to negotiate this in person after arrival, nor has anyone ever seemed interested in asking once arrived.  Everyone seems quite happy with what I have to offer.  I have noticed it can be somewhat of a screening process though.  Those callers that are "hell bent on leather" for it seem to be more of the Fetishist Hobbyist category, so I don't necessary feel bad in politely explaining that it's merely not on the menu.

...and it's usually something that is an upcharge as far as I've seen...

You are in Detroit.

That's how I've been approaching it.  I never list it as a menu item, even one that's negotiable at any rate.  I've always thought that butt stuff (going in either direction) was akin to Fetish work like water sports, S&M and most BDSM practices.

First I will say that anal is not something you should do if you are not fully comfortable with it.  For the providers that I have seen that have been comfortable with allowing penetration in their forbidden hole, it has been a wonderful experience for me.  As a client, I have seen it both ways, pertaining to up-charging. I will say that I would much rather see a girl who includes greek in her flat rate than one that up-charges an additional $200 etc i.e. GFE $700 GFE and anal $1000.  

Lol!  You'd be surprised by that!  Most recently I fielded a LOT of calls and texts about this in Columbus.  Many, many more requests than I get in the Metro Detroit area.  But, I don't think it has to do with the locale so much as it does with the demeanor and background of my guests in question.  

In fact personally I wouldn't even question about services available because of the legal issues that could arise.  
       In truth gfe experience to me means unrushed, kissing, daty, fs, probably bbbj but not set in stone on that. Other things can enhance it but those are the basics.  

Yes, anal is a PSE activity on the menu.

It's probably because she is young and appears to be newer to the hobby. There are men who prey on ladies like this and try to tell them lies to get what they want. This is not something that occurs only in Detroit. My clients are very respectful.

Just not my cup of tea.

Ok, I actually had to Urban Dictionary what PSE was!  Yeah, that's not me.  I may have done/do some light amateur work for clips4sale and things like that, but the hardcore Anything Goes lifestyle of mainstream Porn?  Just not me.

It carries it's own risks.  Also I think just as with anything else, some are more able to accommodate it physically than others.  I think it is perfectly reasonable not to provide it.   It's a niche thing.  So if they have to have it, there is somebody out there who will provide it.  It doesn't have to be you.

But if it is I love to indulge.

It's definitely not considered GFE.... I'd consider it PSE or Fetish.  I would never recommend a lady to offer it unless she does truly enjoy it, I find it quite pleasurable.

I have tried it a few times, but I always seem to feel a little shitty afterward.  Is it just me?

Hell The percentages of real civvie GF's that do anal is very small,  
Personally not my thing as I can not believe its feels good to the woman, I might be wrong and there might be some women that really get off on it.
If I was with that women, then yeah I all in for it.

to shove it up their ass.

I've never considered it as GFE.
And I may inquire if the mood hits,
I see where some ladies have an all inclusive  menu  and others have it list as an option with optional price.
I never do anything, nor should any one else, do anything they do not wish to participate in. You should always leave the opt out or the opt in up to your wants, needs and wishes and desires.

Don't do what you don't want to do no matter what  somebody says is the norm. Just don't do it. Once you set those boundaries for yourself, you will have a lot of fun with the guys that accept those boundaries. Good luck, be safe & have fun.

If someone do not like it then do not do .

If you look most providers add an additional fee for anal....  

She has an interest then she has to explore her sexuality and female side to the fullest - That is ONLy way to become a dream woman  
( man's value is in his promise -female's value is in her past- that can apply NOT only to sex life )

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on clips4sale.com or wherever... how can I find your clips?. I tried searching Cori. No luck.

What size strap on would they like you to use on them?

There are other providers out there that just can't do and won't do anal by their choice.  In my point of view, anal should be part of PSE and since most provider out there do charge extra for it and of course there are provider does have anal as part of their service..

Greek is more of a PSE experience rather than a GFE experience. It's usually advertised as a "service". Some guys will push for as much as they can get, but it's bullshit to say it's part of the GFE date. It's not.

Greek is normally an extra 100, with advanced notice required.  Does not turn me on, so I've never requested.

I don't offer it not even for lots of extra money and I don't like it in my private life either. It's up to you if you want to offer it for a bigger fee. Most girls in Oz charge at least $100 on top of their normal rate to do it and still respectfully decline those clients who are more well endowed )

Pavilena, the question should be to establish a baseline for activities that she will participate in within the hobby.  The primary rule should be anything that she wouldn't allow her SO to do she shouldn't offer to clients.  That way she has control and autonomy over her body and the session itself.  No still means no, even if it is in the confines of Play for pay.  Also although the sex is protected, that is still the greatest risk to contract STD's.   That is why she should enforce her right to deny when those ask acts that she doesn't feel comfortable with.   Also there is also the question of how, to prepare to participate in oral and how to modify your diet so that you can be ready to participate in an act of that nature.

Based on the European and British boards I frequent, it is becoming more of a standard service. Not in the US though. The last 3 companions that stayed with me in Europe offered it up with me asking or suggesting (not really my thing). And I have seen discussions where providers say its becoming more common and that it is like the BBBJ  - meaning that getting BBBJ was something special a long time ago, but now considered a standard request.

a girlfriend would do including kissing, lots of touching, oral both ways, maybe mutual touch massages, and FS with a nice cuddle time afterewards. She might even join you in the shower before you leave. The number of activities depends on the amount of time for the encounter.

First of all, anal is not "included" in GFE. Second of all, it not done right and received properly it can be very uncomfortable.  You should not feel forced into doing something you have only tried twice and not enjoyed.
Some women love this, I spent a lot of time with two ladies (separated by many years) each one of whom  had her most profound climaxes by receiving anal.  Each loved it and I loved it with each of them because of that. If you absolutely want to offer this, first find a lover or friend with benefits who is very patient, very skillful and --after cleaning yourself out and lubing up well-- try it with him, slowly carefully then let things happen.  If this is exciting to you, great, if you feel like it was a root canal cross it off your menu.
In my experience, most ladies who offer this chanrge extra.

Then it's usually her, not you 😨
 

Like a lot of things - you know GFE when you experience it.  No question to me that it COULD be part of FS GFE.  I have certainly done it outside the hobby...  

civvie girlfriends and only a few wanted to even experiment with anal.  Most will hide in the closet on "anal night."

who include anal in their GFE rate or offering. Those that do enjoy it as much as their clients.  

o matter SO or a client.

and given that only 4- 5 percent of women truly do enjoy it - gentlemen simply never have been with those women.
And if gentleman IS A GENTLEMAN - it wold not be his thing to sorry rape her to the ass( sorry for graphics ) and she still can't  orgasm
 Even she does offer -  all tone of this thread is evident that hobbyists and providers do discuss that matter as  from menu and service point of view - what is offered and how that has to be offered. The pleasure  woman may have or not have  is not a subject here  seems.  
So no wonder WHY WHY true gentleman would not be in to such  

t is way more simple - or she does it BECAUSE SHE DOES ENJOY IT
 
or She is not doing it simply because she DOESN'T enjoy that and that is hurt her  

1. I actually made you laugh:
2. You called me a rapist;
3. Called me young or 60;
4. Woman without a J shaped cervix can have an anal.  orgasm;
5. You weren't talking to or about me at all ... lol

And trained herself to enjoy it so she doesn't have pain etc. she charges 200 extra for it

So what would be "PSE" for you? LOL!!!

In fact, most of my experiences with anal were with women whom I did even know performed it on my without me even knowing they were going to do it.  The surprise was more fun than the reality.  Watching the look of joy on their faces was the real prize.  I can recall them even now.

is trying to sell you some good old BS... Greek, to my knowlege, is and always has been an "add-on" service (except I did see one lady say it was part of her regular package-no upcharge).  It's not anything I've ever had a real Girl Friend want to do...so GFE, no...PSE, maybe.

Cori,
Some of the gentlemen who hobby are going to see you once because once is enough for that particular guy.  Others are going to see you again and again and over time the two of you might find yourselves talking about the naughtiest fantasies you've ever had.... Your date may tell you that he would love to feel himself inside of your "other hole" some day and you will know if that is something you want to explore based on the gentleman.  
My first anal experience happened with a true lover type of guy who would daty until I would lose my mind... He started dato when I would get too sensitive for any more daty.  Then he started with the tip of his finger inside of my ass until I relaxed enough to take the whole thing.  After several sessions where we played with different sized butt plugs we finally worked our way up to the one he called, "Little Marc" because it was about the same girth of his actual cock.  Once I could accommodate his Little Marc, I was ready for the real deal on our following multi hour date.  It took a lot of prep: eating light, an enema the night before and the morning of our date but it was an amazing first experience.  He spoiled me!
  We spoil our lovers in this business the best that we can, right? So don't be afraid to save the highest levels of service for the guys who want a really intimate experience and let the guys who just want to pound some butt call the girls who offer PSE to all of their clients.  GFE seeking gents enjoy the progression from vanilla to XXX in my experience and they want you to enjoy yourself as well so just take it slow, be yourself and enjoy anal sex with the right guy or guys but not EVERY guy and I think you will be fine.
XoXo
Kristina