So it happened to me AGAIN. A client asks me if I have any friends I can recommend for duos and so I call my friend up and ask her to join. Hes a GREAT client; consistent, pays well, respectful, etc.. Well first she shows up LATE... not a little late, I'm talking 30 mins plus. Then on top of it when she gets there she is completely unenthusiastic. Mind you, I went all out... had a massage bed, candles lit around the apartment, etc.. I wanted to give him a top notch experience and this girl comes in and doesn't kiss, is barely interacting and treated it like a job she hates. We sent her home early and played on our own after she left and I apologized.. I've known her for years and would have never guessed that's how she is with her clients.. so my question to the chat... has this happened to you before? Did/would you blame the girl who set it up? Would it effect how you viewed her at all? I'm honestly frustrated and felt super embarrassed. He was nice about everything and even gave me a big tip but I just personally felt really bad about the whole experience. Second time it's happened to me too.. with a different friend... I don't even want to duos anymore if this is going to be a thing!

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.... I haven't personally experienced that.  All my duos have been good.

However, a Provider friend of mine had another Provider ask my friend to do a couple of doubles.  The asking Provider was so bad that both these gentlemen now see my friend on a regular basis and no longer see the original woman.  As you described, she was clueless, bad interaction, made my friend do most of the "work" and wasn't engaging.  

and one time I had taken them both out for a very expensive dinner (Her friend picked the place as we were both visiting from other states.)

Her friend hardly even touched me during the bedroom portion of the date.   It did affect how I felt about her for some time.   I eventually stopped seeing her as she descended into hard drugs, and eventually I stopped hearing from her at all.  She had moved to the south-west anyway.

The second time I brought the two gals together, and one of them (I had known both for a very long time.) showed up very late drunk as a skunk.   It didn't go well.

My friend got help for her drinking and we are very close now.   The other moved to Florida and retired, but I still see her about once a year when she travels up north, or sometimes I go visit her in Florida.

Fortunately I have had many duos that worked out wonderfully, so I'm all for them except at my age I'm not really up for it physically, and financially, I'm also not that able to hack it.

Sorry that happened. I am glad you paid her to leave if it was not I enjoyed. Your client is awesome for understanding you tried.  

I provide Duos and I totally understand how you feel. As a great provider you feel bad for their poor performance, or lack on enthusiasm. I won’t work with anyone who does not vibe well & I do not know personally. I find I do excellent with real life friends that I share time with personally, not just for pay. I do find it hard to get duo reviews. I’m still trying to make it to the top 100 😆 we need 20 reviews to be eligible. My girlfriend Aja is UTR.

First of all, let me say I am sorry this happened to you. These things can be very frustrating. I can relate. I wont go into all the details here bc I eventually reconciled with the provider and she apologized but she embarrassed me to another provider. The other girl, thankfully, was VERY nice about and kept telling me not to worry about but still...
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There is just a lot more added risk when you have a third party involved. It inlaces the chances of lateness (as you found out), increases the odds for lack of connection, personality conflicts, unprofessional behavior, etc. Threesomes are so different than a one on one date, for so many reasons, but the amazing upside when things go well with them far outweigh the downsides in my experiences.  
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The bottom line was you handled things correctly and your client appreciated your efforts. Just my 2 cents but don't let a few bad experiences make you write them off forever. They are so much fun that I think the enhanced risk is worth it. Again, sorry this happened to you. You deserved better.

Had it happen to me a few years back. A women with whom I had been several times; solos, threesomes, even a foursome, wanted me to get togeter with her and another woman, a Latina from Miami. My friend booked a great suite with beautiful views of Manhattan, but as others have experienced, the Latina was someone my friend barely knew. She was terrible and worst was that she kept yanking and rubbing my erect cock really hard. Hurt like hell. Kept telling her to stop but she ignored me. I was tempted to give her a smack but I don't hit women. Quickly finished with my friend instead and got the hell out of there. My friend was very apologetic, never worked with the Latina again but it was an awful moment for both of us. Lesson learned: in sessions involving more than one woman make sure she and/or you know and trust the others.

I can say that this happens occasionally. Fortunately, not in a few years, and the last time it happened the ladies had  never met before. One of the ladies I knew quite well (she's a veteran of innumerable awesome duos with other ladies and me), but the other was an unknown who the agency assured me was down for a duo. Instead, she showed up late, drunk and visibly uncomfortable with the experience. Didn't trust the agency after that.

Sorry this happened. Your girlfriend owes you a big apology and the money back. She wasted everyone's time. She should have been honest up front that she's just not into it. It is absolutely a very different skill set than a one-on-one. For me, a duo is wasted time and money if the ladies aren't 100% interactive with each other as well as me. Even if that's not what a player is looking for, the ladies have to be no less in the moment and spirited than in a one-on-one.

For me, unless the 2 ladies have played together, or at least have played with me in a duo setting otherwise and have shown great engagement and open-mindedness, I don't even try a duo. Just a couple of weeks ago, I turned down an offer from a lady who was "willing to try" a duo with a girlfriend. Nope. When it comes to duos, especially given the cost and effort to arrange, I approach them like Yoda:  "Do or do not; there is no try!"

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That’s about every 10th appointment I’ve ever had.  There’s alway a deadbeat in every crowd.  I’m surprised you thought you knew her. Sorry that happened

That's the worst and it pisses me of because now as the person arranging it I look like I don't have my shit together.

Omg that's terrible if I had gone out on a whole date with her and that was the vibe I'd be pissed.

Yeah it sucked.. I got the vibe from him that it actually made him appreciate me more which is nice I guess but that's not why I wanted to do it. I wanted him to have the experience he had dreamed of... better luck next time!

Yeah thankfully I do have a friend that I work really well with but the problem is that she is white and let's be honest our clients do not always overlap. Some clients get very touchy about the race of the providers they see which is a whole different topic for another thread...

That's what was so crazy! I knew this girl for YEARS! But I think I'm quickly learning that how someone is as your friend and in hookups (we have played with guys we like together in private and for OF) is not the same as how they approach their business. Because I take providing VERY seriously.

I'm still stuck on 100 duos! What a stud! Love that for you lol...

We played with others privately and for content but I guess with clients it's different for some people.. oh well

@ladywhistledown
It's unfortunate you had such a very
disappointing incident.

 
Just  like  marriages;    
Sometimes  Threesomes  are  great,
other  times,  I've  heard,  they're
average  depending  on  the  synergy.
(I've  always  experienced  excellent  
  ones  however)

 
If  "Duos  Partners"  are  synergistic
as  my  Partner  and  I  are,  we  always  provide  ultimate  satisfaction  for  our
Clients.
 

The  logistics  of  creating  a  truly  
mind-blowing  "Threesome  FMF
Tryst"  takes  creativity,  STAMINA
and  ultimately  genuine  affinity
between  said  Providers.
 

Omniscient  of  individual  likes,
dislikes,  strengths  and
weaknesses,  we're  in  tune  and
abreast  of  each  other's  stamina.

This  awareness  translates  into
"unspoken  nuances"  of  when  to
change  activity,  positions,  alter
pace  and  timing...  
"Synergistic"  indeed!

 
We're  intimately  aware  of  each
other's  safety/pain  threshold  in
the  instance  when/if  a  Gentleman
is  being  too  rough,  or  needs  to
hasten;
Timing  is  of-the-essence  whilst  
completing  an  earth-shattering
release!

 
I  enjoy  working  with  my
"Duos  Partner"  because  the
chemistry  is  apparent;

We  joke,  laugh  and  love  to
pamper  our  cherished  Clients
and  each  other,  and  it  shows.....
Because  why  not?    
Life's  too  short  to  not  indulge    
"disfruta  el  punto  dulce!!    

 
The  pinnacle  of  sensations  via  a
"four-handed  two-mouth  bj",  and
many  other  delights  that  which
only  two  sets  of  lips,  hands  and
other  accouterments  can  provide....  
equates  to  a  fully-saited  Client,
having  been  put  through  an
acrobatic  menagerie  of  pleasurable  moves....  
Simply  an  indelible  Ménage à Trois!
 

Xo Angelina Jones 💋

Stud, no. Total voyeur, yes. My duo sessions involve the ladies playing together for most of the session while I watch. That's why it's so important the ladies are compatible. Once I jump in, I'm lucky if I last a few overstimulated minutes. 😆

You are my hero sir. I thought having a few dozen threesomes was a lot. Boy do I have a lot to learn! lol.

That was hysterical! I literally lol'd. I know how you meant it though. And yeah, I'm sure you are right about clients not overlapping. Never made any sense to me. I choose the women in this lifestyle based on beauty and reputation, as beauty knows no color. I cant imagine eliminating WOC from my choices bc I would have missed out on many incredible experiences with great women.

I’ve only had one, so far. It seems like the girls I’ve seen, if they offer duos, don’t really engage with each other. As a matter of fact, the one I had, the two were basically like tag teaming me. Not what I was expecting at all. Sometimes one of them would leave me alone with the other. I have heard from guys I know, that the girls not being into each other, not interacting, is very common.  
Not what I want a duo for. Well, hope springs eternal…

Did a quick count in my head and realized that one lady (the aforementioned veteran) was part of 19 separate duo meetings (and one 4some meeting) with 8 different women over ths course of about 5 years. Man--she was awesome!

Are especially interesting because they present unique factors to consider. In one on one encounters, the primary focus is on each other's pleasure with considerations of their environment, boundaries, hygiene, leaving any issues one might have at the door, etc. Threesomes and group encounters require the same as one on one encounters, but now you have 1 or more additional partners to consider. You also take into account how all parties align with each other.  
For a truly interactive experience, all parties need to be able to effectively communicate and read the room for things to flow smoothly. You should be open in terms of not obsessing over acting out a strict script or completing a checklist of requests. A successful duo is a balancing act where the measurements are constantly adjusting. Some may view duos as a hassle since they require more planning and legwork. But it should be viewed as foreplay for the main event: the details coming together sets the scene, the mind starts racing with all the possibilities that could unfold. Each hour and day that passes by adds to the anticipation of an explosive finale to come. No two duos are the same, which opens the possibilities of pleasure and connection to a whole new level.  

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you again. This coming from a longtime friend adds to the disrespect. Have you and your friend spoken to each other about it? Based off your original post, it doesn't seem like yall talked about expectations beforehand. Hopefully that was a one off experience from her. But I wouldn't blame you if this changes how you view her or even strains your friendship. Shoutout to your client for handling it the way he did. Some would be understandably upset and possibly stop seeing you. It could be assumed that you knew about your friend's behavior beforehand or they think you will start acting like that going forward. I wouldn't blame you since you cannot control what anyone else does. But I would look at you differently if for example the same client was experiencing bad duos with girls you are suggesting. I would say don't write off duos if you still enjoy them. Just adjust how you vet your partners and when to suggest which partner to which client. Hopefully you and your client are able to write that off as a one off and continue to enjoy each other.  

I'm lucky to have never experienced a lackluster duo. In most of the duo's I have enjoyed, both of us were already seeing the same gentleman separately and he thought we would play well together. He would then reach out to both of us about the possibility of including the other and planning would start if we both agree. My now duo partner and I reached out to each other beforehand and really hit it off after our first duo together. Afterward, we made it a point to communicate with each other (boundaries, work preferences, etc) on how we would like to do things going forward to make the experience we offer even better. In duos that I was not familiar with either person, there were a couple small hiccups or hesitations. But we still had a wonderful time since all participants were respectful and loved exploring. Imo the duos that flow the best are when at least 2 of the partners are familiar with each other.

Yeahhhh people get really touchy about this... on both sides of the issue.. I find it strange TBH

Hey, if you can afford to play that often with that man girls, you're a stud in my book lol

Seriously! I do this as a job and I'm not pulling down those kind of numbers

That's insane, the idea of having a beautiful girl right there and not interacting is ludicrous to me.. but I get not all girls are as bi as I am lol.

Oh we talked.. she just doesn't get it. I don't have any issue with her going forward I just wont be calling on her for duos. Bottom line I'm sure we all have lots of friends that we know who are great friends, fun to hang with and be around but if you were business partners you would kill them. I just don't like the way she handles her business.. now I've learned that just because a friend is great in private doesn't mean they can turn on the same chemistry on the job..

I love a good ts 3 some. Too bad the other gal wasnt into it

That's definitely true, everyone cannot be everything. I'm glad that y'all are able to move forward from it.