I am thinking of potentially reaching out to some providers about a MFM session.  I was wondering how would one make that happen?  I know there are couples who offer this service, but my urge is to go with a single lady (my ATF) and perhaps another hobbyist in my city per her recommendation.  

Never done it, but would with my ATF.

It is something I could set up with certain guys but I would not give you any sort of information on them, which would include the reviews. Even if he said it was ok to share that information, I would not share it. Too many things could go wrong with this.  

A visiting provider was in town with a guy advertising services.  I read some reviews of them... but many included.. things like while i was kissing her.. he went down on me..
It made me mervous and i decided against it. I contacted the provider and told her I was not bi.. she told me that she enjiys helping to expand others boundaries.  I  decided against it...

But I wouldn't do MFM if it were free, much less pay for it. Makes no difference who the other guy is.

I really like the idea of the lady really enjoying it. And it fits my voyeur tendencies.  
I've done it in a room with 8 guys and 11 ladies, but just 3 of us is different. I would have to know the guy, to be sure we are on the same page.

Some guys think having a lady in the room makes it less gay.  If you're curious, book a TS and save the other half of the fee. You can still get that I'm-not-gay-because-there's-a-pair-of-tits-in-the-room feeling.  

For example, you could always post on your local board about what you are looking for and see who replies.  I could screen them and we'd go from there.  Hard for me to do the same as that would be seen as advertising.  

Is if I was given a significant discount.

Don't worry CDL, my dick isn't very long, so there is zero chance of crossing swords when I'm pounding her from behind and she has you down her throat.

When I was in San Diego, back when MySpace was popping, I saw a profile of an ass just sitting there perfect.  On a whim I contacted the lady and shot her a line.  She responded back and we talked.  Then she dropped a proposition on me.  She said "hers the deal, my man just likes to watch me get fucked."  I paused, then agreed to meet.  That Friday evening, she gives me her address, and I'm on my way.  Nervous as fawk, I make it to her place, she answers the door, smoking hot and introduces me to her man.  He is cool with everything and after some drinks we head to the room.  She's giving me head as her dude is watching and we do the deed, he hops on while I clean up and next thing I know she has my cock in her mouth until I finish again.  Cool couple, as she stated her dude just liked watching his girl get fucked.  He didn't touch me nor did I touch him.  So, yeah I guess it is amazing because I don't feel once ounce of gayness in my body.  

with two people I am very close to.

I don't care if you are gay or not, it makes ZERO difference to me either way.

How about I fuck her today in Texas, and then put her on a plane for you to fuck tomorrow??? lmao

I wouldn't want the lady to pick a "Hobbyist", that would be in poor taste in my mind. I would feel better if she selected a male escort who's experienced in this. A fellow hobbyist may not be able to handle the situation well. He would probably be all "giddy" like a 6th grade school child. And can you see it now, you cross swords and he utters a "Eww...". Or he's more in awe of your package and just how you move...you get the drift...So hell no, it's not my style anyways, I have a hard enough time with MFF duos cause I have the attention span of a 4 year old when it come to this shit.

The majority of couples that I have seen advertise this service are more "cuckhold."  I'm really not into paying to watch live porn and not being able to participate.

Unless you just watched the TS play with its tits, or something, the situation is not comparable. The above poster specified that he didn't want to interact with the man. I don't know whether he wants to be going at it with the lady at the same time, but I get the feeling it's more about voyeurism.  

but they are frequent posters/advertisers here on TER and 100% legit from what I have heard. They seem to offer what you are looking for.

Would you be watching you, like a clone, or would you inhabit the consciousness of all twelve of you at once?

Less gay, but most of the posts I've seen in this guys are looking for DP.  My point is if you want to rub your dick in another guy's, you still don't need a girl in the room. Again, if you're bi-curious, hire a TS.

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Swingers clubs either. If I want more women for an orgy I'll just hire more women.  I shouldn't have to trade mine to some other dude.  I know some guys that tried it and the problem is your woman sees a guy she wants to fuck, but his "trade" is an OTHFB, so for me, it would only be an option if I was broke, because it's obviously going to be cheaper.

I was recently approached with this idea.
I brought the idea to one of my ATF's and she was all over it - I never got an email back from her so fast before lol

I feel like it would be a better experience if the two men are friends first....less awkward and more fun!  Also it doesn't always go down like you want it to.  My one paid MFM experience went well and it was with two friends but one was shy and I could tell her wanted me to himself while the other was all for the group action.

It gives me amazing orgasms thus my interest in MFM...Hard to maneuver though and one or both men have to be longer in length otherwise it won't work.

He doesn't want to interact with the man. They ALL say that. I would say it too if I was going to try that shit.

Yeah, it's all fun until one of the copies makes a copy and things go down hill from there

I suspect this one will likely be put in the thread about sex fantasies where the reality never lived up to the expectations for most guys (and maybe gals too).

I'm grounded enough to know that NOBODY ELSE wishes there were more of me.

And like you I asked on here how to go about it.

I watch my fair share of porn, and almost always the woman has an exceptional orgasm, I wanted to be part of that and cross it off the bucket list.  

and will continue to be until the equipment no longer works. My last two FMF doubles have been fantastic.

Both were women who'd never been with two guys at the same time and reached out.  They also offered a very attractive rate to do it, so a friend and I did.  As your OP stated, there was no male-to-male contact but still was not a turn-on.  I probably won't do it again.  But I'd say go for it if you can find some willing participants.  Best bet would be to find a girl you already know who wants to try it and is into the idea.

of a lady who really gets off on being banged from behind,  while she has a cock in her mouth.  
I guess it gets my voyeur tendencies flowing.