When a provider is going down on me, I like to hold her head with my hands.  Not to ram anything into her mouth or force anything on her, it just feels right to have my hands on her head (and I like playing with hair, too).  But, I have found out thru experience, some providers don't like this and some REALLY don't like it.  I am just curious as to why. I've asked a couple of times and never really got a clear answer.

How does a provider know that you wont suddenly grab her head and try and ram your dick down her throat? She doesn't. You really can't see how that uncertainty would make her uneasy?

Past trauma - abusive spouse/SO.

Here are a few more.  
Your hands are covered in lube and pussy juice and she just washed her hair.
It is distracting to have someone rubbing your head when you are trying to work.
You are rubbing in circles and it is tangling her locks.  

it's no more in depth than that for me, really. When guys start messing around and tossing your hair all over, it gets in your face and mouth. We are better when we don't have anything but your pee pee in there.

into a rythym-erotic

doing this it used to REALLY bother me when gents put their hands on my hand, but now I can't say that it bothers me at all or that I notice. But, I also think that from then to now- I have a different attitude and my guests are different. So, that may be why it is no longer a problem. As long as you are gentle and sensual with how you touch me, it wont bother me at all.

I'm not sure who was more embarrassed.

So read the reviews carefully and see if you can find those gals.

If I ever write my memoirs, THAT will be the title.  

Actually, why did you came back? Didn't you planed to become famous writer?

We are the guinea pigs, didn't you know?

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bahahahaaa!!!! you right, it's not like she is here for some play for pay.

there's no need to be insulting about it. As I noted, I don't ram heads into me, I just like the touch.  I explain this in session.

Ya know, I was thinking about it today, and I think the reason that it sometimes used to irritate me is usually it is when the guy is trying to push my pace. I totally understand that some guys want you to go all down- but ahem. I know what I am doing, and I usually like to start slow and build up- so when you push you are ruining my flow.  

If the hand is very gentle and not entangled in the hair or even gently holding said hair so it does not get into my mouth is appreciated.

Most girls (myself included) hate that shit! I wouldn't do it to a provider unless she's ok with it.