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I recently returned from working overseas for a few years. It's hard to get enthusiastic about spending between $200-$300 an hour when you know that same $200 will buy a 25 year old solid 9-10 for a whole day in Dubai, or 2-3 of them for a day in Thailand! jmo :(

AMPtime1546 reads

A lawyer, dentist, doctor, accountant with years of expensive schooling makes 3 hundred an hour... and they have the overhead of an office.  3 hundred (cheap these days) is way too much for most providers.  There is no guarantee of service, no guarantee that they haven't doctored their photo's, etc.  Oh, yes I'm forgetting the adage "only stick with well reveiwed providers", but seriously, 4 hundred an hour?  It's a joke. But as long as guys are willing to pay this ridiculous amount (or more) then the providers should keep laughing all the way to the bank. I'll stick with AMP's, which are riskier, but I have never been ripped off.  I've never been unhappy after paying 150 dollars, and get a bottle of water on my way out the door.

Whats the average hourly wage over there?? Everything is relative!!!!

Depends a lot on what you do but as a US contractor it's not hard to make 6 figures overseas.

Kama Sutra1572 reads

The sensual fantasies that come alive in the far east - Bangkok, etc. is a very affordable.

In comparision, the US is way too expensive ... and, stale!

Do you really feel like its way to much ? You have to take in all factors.. I mean the risk alone putting ones self out there with the possibilty of being arrested ,public humiliation ? 20 dollars I could work a square job and not have look over my shoulder.20 dollars isn't going to post anyones bond.. Pricing is all relative.. Some other countries are not as hypocritical or concerned so maybe they have the pleasure to be wide open and care free.My heart breaks for those forced to do things against their will and shame those ready to exploit them ..News Flash its here also ever go to a spa and pay 100 to the owner and only have to tip 20..  I could think of a million extra curricular activities that cost more and are not anywhere near enjoyable. I come acroos people that can not afford the pricing and I try my best to be accomidate.. End all you get what you pay for.. you could spend twenty dollars here just get in your car and go to that street you know the one! oooh Russian Roulette sounds fun !!Side note good for your wife for doing something so admirable.. Your a lucky man to have someone so amazing

every men deserves to visit Thailand at least once in their lives :)

this is USA guys sorry but thats life

You may be able to pay a small amount for girls in those countries but many are not doing it of their own free will.  I know this for a fact as my friend's girlfriend is a bargirl in Phuket and was sold into it by her family.

As for Dubai, it's like anywhere else, you can get girls for low rates if that's what you want but by no means all escorts there cost so little.  Personally, I charge a bit more than $200 per day when I'm in Dubai :)

with walleye. We used to spear them out of the river when they came in to spawn in early spring. Lived on this river, we figured it was about 15 minutes from river to stomach. All free, exquisite taste. Those days are gone now.

You could spear all the walleye your Native American heart and stomach desire, and fuck us poor provider-deprived hicks to boot.

BigDayMon1175 reads

You can look good like me and get them for free.
I pay when I know it will be a good lay.

Barnaby341211 reads

I've lived in, Japan, Thailand, and Vietnam for 15 years and visited Korea, Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan and Australia often.  I would not agree with any of the generalities posted so far, except that you can find situations ranging from exploitation to exalted in all those countries, and of course the US too, where there is exploitation and slavery as well as marvelous and totally independent providers doing well by being marvelous. I've always avoided situations where young girls are obviously being exploited but it's not always easy to tell.  As for the US, if we had a reasonable system consensual behavior between adults would be legal and LE would be confined to health and security protection for customers and clients alike.  Not easy, but it can be done and in fact exists, albeit imperfectly, in some countries.  JMO.

I feel your pain.  I was in Argentina about 3 yrs ago and the service and the price are much superior to what is here.  The girls there actually act like they really like you, it absolutely amazing.  $300/hr here is riduculous considering the service you will probably get.

That's really it right there, they work for it. I mean you pay $100-$200 and you're with her all day. You hit it in the morning, then go get breakfast. Hit it again after lunch and head to the beach. If the Viagra's still working you hit it again in the evening, dinner, drinks, one last time before crashing, then you wake up in the morning at 6:00 am because you feel something and realize she's got you're cock in her mouth again. American girls just don't understand that level of service imo.

:)  Well..... for when you'r home... I'd be happy to help change your attitude about the "US girls" ... I usually enjoy myself...but, I guess it's often mutual...

Be grateful for the amazing times you had while you were there...and maybe you'll attract more quality women here :)

Have a wonderful day,
Sarah

-- Modified on 5/14/2007 3:59:17 PM

If you want a sexual high?

A real cheap fuck
without needing luck.

Makes American men
cry and sigh!






-- Modified on 5/13/2007 5:51:08 PM

Love Hurts966 reads

Yeah, of course the same $200 will buy 2-3 of them a day in Thailand! And buying a Chinese-made Bratz doll for your unsuspecting kid will fund a company based on more or less enslaved employees. Asia is a continent where living wages and the entire economy is based on few regulations and no unions or demands from workers. You lived there yourself! Where have you been sticking your head other than up your own ass?!?

Get this, blockhead: a majority of prostitution in Thailand is pure slavery. I used to live in Asia for YEARS, primarily in the 1970s. I've returned a few times, mostly to visit with my German ex and her family. Comparatively, the sex industry was exploitive enough then; now, the situation is worse than ever. Girls get sold, kidnapped, and trafficked in from Laos all the time, sometimes by their own desperate families, to satisfy cheapskates like you, who are overjoyed to get away with "bargains" in the sex trade. Do you really want to support an industry that takes in 10 year olds who are forced to sell their virginity, only to end up in your greedy arms 10 years later? Not to mention the extreme drug use that has surfaced among sex workers, something which was relatively a small problem back in the 1970s.

Your whole rap, about "buying them" is indicative of how you view women who provide their services for your enjoyment. Would you really be saying this about escorts in New York or Los Angeles? Doubtful! But because your wallet becomes bigger than your dick in most Asian countries, you can toss off statements like that without nary a thought.

My ex is funding and running a rehabilitation home for former commercial sex workers/slaves in Thailand. The stories we've heard do not rival reality, since these women are so damaged with shame, grief and stress syndromes that they frequently omit the most gruesome details. The facility has a waiting list that goes on forever. If you think you're doing someone a favor by spending your paltry sex dollars in Thailand, think again. There is a big difference between the American women you find on TER who come to this job freely, willingly and who have alternatives. I'd rather spend time with Ava of Beverly Hills or Miki the Milf and pay what it costs - and know that I haven't contributed to a system of female slavery, a life of broken families, drug abuse or broken hearts.

You obviously have strong feelings on the subject of child prostitution & slavery and justifiably so, it's inexcusable in any form wherever it takes place. We have both here in America too. If you'd read my post before exploding in self-righteousness you'd see I was talking about women in their 20's acting freely on their own.

Regarding your comments about "buying them", what do you think the whole game is about anyway? Its business, I want to believe that I'm attractive and wanted by beautiful women half my age and they're willing to sell that fantasy for an agreed upon price. Yes, I'm buying them for a day or whatever the time frame is. Get over yourself.

Love Hurts1024 reads

Yeah, keep working that demented rationalizing mindgame of yours and you'll soon believe yourself. Fantasy or not, you're not buying PEOPLE, you're buying services, and at slavery rates to boot, while complaining that no one will sell her body for peanuts in the USA.

Yeah, to you it's a game. To these women, it's survival. But apparently, ignorance is bliss. As to women in their 20s acting freely on their own - that's a laugh. Why don't you check the facts on how many Thai women in their 20s prostitute themselves "freely on their own." But of course you're deaf to your own disingenuous vibe, so..

Just returned from Manila.  It cost 5K pesos for a top flight Escort or $100 for 2.5 hrs.  It was fantastic. I saw the same provider 3x. She was about 20 yrs young.. She was the oldest of 3 sisters all living with their mother in a shanti town built on top of garbage heap.  She was trying to help out.  On a good night if she could hook up with two clients, she could make as much as her mother would make in a month washing clothes for other families.  Her hope was that she could save enough so that they could buy a small house and she could send her younger sisters to school.  

She asked me if I could help her find a way to come to the US.  She wondered what life would be like here.  We fantasized.  She wanted to know what Las Vegas was like.  she heard she could make a lot of money there.  If not there she said she knew some people in New York.

She also said that she was approached by some people who tried recruiting her for an 'entertainers' position in Dubai.  She actualy would have to pay them big bucks so that arrangements would be made for her travel papers so that she could do tricks in Dubai.

Like I said, poverty sucks.

Barnaby341301 reads

These situations are conducive to rationalizing, moralizing, and evasion.  It's true that many women, even in the US, feel they have no other choice to try for a better life, escape class distinctions, open up new opportunities (like paying for higher education), and achieve some independence than to enter the hobby.  Recently two terrific providers I really respect have told me essentially that.  I admire their pluck and honesty, and also don't feel guilty about "taking an interest in their careers," so to speak.  Countries like Thailand and Argentina, though hardly bereft, are quite different because economic opportunity and range of choice is much narrower.  A person who goes on a sex tour to Bangkok is not necessarily depraved either, but in a better world their providers would have more choices.  In 2007, women in the profession seem to have three kinds of experience:  sordid, where they are tricked, enslaved and/or trafficked into degrading and exploitative situations; semi-voluntary, where providing seems the best way out of a life that is not going anywhere and offers no opportunity; and entrepreneurial, where adventurous eroticists take advantage of their charms, enjoy the hell out of what they are doing and make a bundle.  Of course there are gradations within categories.  If there is a person anywhere who can categorize the moral imperatives that should govern providers and hobbyists in this thicket, I haven't seen him/her among moralists, feminists, sybarites, pragmatists, or anyone else.  JMO.

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