She was the first provider I ever met, and I'm hopelessly in love with her. What should I do?

Newb,

You asked this question in TER chat today and I told you to run.

And, I mean run like hell. There is little hope for a relationship with a traveling companion.

RUN!

and don't do anything rash.

it sounds like she's not returning the feelings.

In that case, my advice is to go see other providers pronto!  What you feel is infatuation and the endorphins that get in your system after sex.  Visit someone else -- or quite a few someone elses -- and dissipate the feeling.  

Relationships with providers are hard enough when the feeling is reciprocal.  If it's not, then you've got to realize there is NO prospect of getting a reward out of this.

Pull yourself together and have some respect for yourself.  Otherwise, you're just beating yourself over the head.

Oh, and a final piece of advice - do the lady in question a favor and don't mention her name or other identifying info.  She didn't ask you to fall in love with her.  I'm sure that like most people, she's got enough to deal with in life without someone telling the world they're in love with her.

you may fall out of love

you have a house?  Sell it, live in a cardboard box... and spend every dime on your time with her... oh, a car?  Visit CarMax - they will provide a reasonable sum without much fuss buying your car --- More time with Ky...

next, you married? ditch the wife - she will only slow ya down....   buy this gal some jewelery and take her on a vacation to some exotic island resort....

Quit your job, and that way you can spend all your time with her....

Do all this and know that she will respect you for all you did for her!  



April Fools comes early this year! lol!!

Seriously, what guy in this honorable group of dudes has not had this happen to ya.... it is kinda like the common cold - it should pass in a week to 10 days, if not, well, you need to find an antidote... I have usually found antidotes by searching on TER - and in your case, in the search box put 10 in looks, 10 in experience and 10 in overall impression - next check B&D with mild spanking... oh, and under kiss- yes with tongue, for "touch pussy" yes, and "lick pussy" again yes... for BJ?  put yes, without cover.

That will get ya going.... it takes approximately 1 -2 hours "in room" to take effect... and you will be immunized against lady #1.  Unfortuantely you will now be "hopelessly in love" with lady #2...


me?  see my reviews... figure out which one I am "hopelessly" in love with.... lol!

We are all alike...  and instead of "hopelessly in love"!??? well, I think that we are simply "hopeless"!!!!!

If you're hopelessly in love......

YOU'RE HOPELESS BRO!!!

It is better if you don't.  After you've posted this, it won't happen.  Further efforts to contact her are likely to be treated as stalking.  Even if they are not, you are more likely to become a stalker if you contact her.

The cure is expensive.  See as many other providers you can as quickly as you can and disrupt this insanity before it brings you to rack and ruin.  

Then, get some hope and go on with your life.  You had a life before you saw her, you'll have a life after her.  

If you want other advice,go the Erotic Highway and talk to the Love Goddess.

Rule #1 in this hobby is that no matter how great the woman may be, or how great your time with her was, this is a business.

Rule #2 is under no circumstances should you ever lose perspective or forget about rule #1.

Falling in love with the first provider you've ever seen leaves one to doubt if you are cut out for this hobby. In the hands of a person who isn't capable of keeping it in perspective, this hobby can be a poison.

May I suggest you spend some time and go back and read all of her 6 pages of reviews. It will take an hour or so, but get a grip. You were just her LAST review in Decemeber.

This girl has been at it for 5 years, and to be honest her reviews are mediocore at best. You were the only one that could see a 10 and 10. This may have something to do with the nature or your review, your submissiveness, or this is just a sick joke to garner attention on this board.

In any event, move on. One of us is going to banging her tomorrow anyway. Get it? Oh, that won't be me by the way, she's not my type. lmao

Reude!!

Hmmmm, not your type, that's a new one....Hahahahaha

Happy New Year Smarty

... so we can see who/what you're dealing with

Sorry I haven't responded to this.
THings went from bad to worse, and I truely wish I'd  kept it up on this thread. PLease refer to the nest one under my name. She's on eros in Vegas under busty, if anyone is interested, and for me she's the most beautiful woman in the world. Funny thing is I was actually planning on selling me house...