Some women can have extra fat, but if the skin is tight and the fat is nicely distributed, that's one thing. But as we all get older, that extra fat tends to form into folds and flaps. Not a pretty sight and a reason to avoid getting too fat at a young age even if it still looks okay then.
If I'm seeing her from a distance or up close, and what she's wearing.
It could be her hair, her eyes, her smile, her shape, her ass, her legs, her boobs, her outfit, (or lack thereof), etc.
This is a gorgeous shot! And a gorgeous woman!! Wow! I'm doing a photo shoot soon so that's why I created this post, to get an idea of what people like so I'm able to get shots that appeal to everyone. Well, can't win them all lol but a we'll say a majority!
I take in the whole package all at once.
+1 on overall looks and appearance. No one thing outweighs the overall appeal.
Look at me and I’m yours... 😉
...me too...most everything else can be buffed,shaped,implanted,molded,moved or fixed,but an electric pair of eyes!!!...they seal the deal everytime...."the eyes have it"
Then, when I get a chance, her smile. With today's dental technology, there's no excuse for poor teeth.
Third? Her voice. It must be smooth and well modulated. Too screamy and too smokey are non-starters.
Absolutely agree. Show me a girl with a sexy ass and I can almost ignore everything else. It usually comes in a total package however. A girl with a sexy ass almost always has a beautiful face as well as the rest of her body. The opposite doesn't seem to be true for some reason. Wonder why that is.
This probably goes back to the days when I was a pimple-faced kid in high school that girls wouldn't give the time of day to so all I could do was sit behind them and dream.
Proportionality is the key for me -- if she is "ample," then it should be evenly distributed (preferably with a small waist -- remember the sage advice of Sir MIxalot
A lean and athletic frame with smaller boobs and booty? Great, as long as the proportions are right for me. What throws off the appearance for me is small boobs/huge booty or HUGE boobs on an otherwise "normal" frame -- yep, too much of a good thing. I know, I speak heresy for some hobbyists here who believe there's no such thing as "too much" when it comes to breasts but I know what works for me.
After that, the smile is a big indicator for me -- and PLEASE include a smile photo in the mix!
And a big turnoff for me is large coverage tattoos across her chest.
Thanks for the input i have a lot of tattoos but none on my chest. Some girls have them and they look nice but I don't think I could pull it off!
Thanks everyone, this is really helpful stuff. I'll keep all your comments in mind when doing the shoot 
xoxo
of the entire body. Therefore, it is best if there is at least one photo showing the lady from head to foot so I can see how tall she is, is either her breasts, waist, or a$$ out-of-proportion to the rest of her body.
Photos should include multiple types of clothing including lingerie, casual clothes (shorts, sun dress etc.), long party dress, swimsuit, business attire, etc.
... a pretty face goes a long, long way.
... and her expression, her smile (or lack thereof), the hint of fun and mischief in her eyes (or not), it's a great indication of how the session will go.
Yes, a pretty face is a serious turn on. There are a few who can seriously turn heads walking down the sidewalk. Even if their bodies aren't perfect, that's okay if they are very pretty and enjoy kissing. For me a pretty face goes a very long way.
on her face. Average looks (to me) or more, an I-want-you look is an instant turn-on. If she tells me what she's going to do to me it gets even better.
I notice the gun and badge.
And on a great date the handcuffs.
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specifically their (apparent) weight. Though I think that is mostly a reflection of my own self-image; I’ve been overweight my entire life (I’ve probably lost and gained the weight of 3-4 people in my lifetime). I’ve been told I wear it well - probably due to my height - but honestly at this point, how I feel is more important to me than how I look.
-sigh- I need to start working out again
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For me what I first notice is her hair and the length of it - love long flowing hair. Then it is her eyes and whether or not she is able to engage you with her glance and finally is the amount of cleavage she is showing. Too much is a total turnoff - the "right" amount is a total turn on!
My ATF has all three features which is exactly why she is my ATF!
Breast ,ass,and lips.Then I check out the reviews.If they are good,then other factors are just secondary.This is on a shallow day.
On other days I will look at overall appearance.
lol, Boobsman....your username says it all
A little humor is healthy for the mind ,body ,and soul.
I gotta agree with ya there
Even though the body is obviously very important, the face is equally important for me. Even if she has the perfect body, if her face isn't decently attractive it's a serious turn off for me. I would place the ranking...
1. Boobs
2. Firm body
3. Face
4. Legs
5. Nice ass
Fairly new to this but my first couple of encounters the providers never hesitated and made feel interesting, sexy and welcomed all at once.
It spoiled me for the providers that have that have that wary look in their eye and make me be the one to start things.
If I'm paying for an experience, I expect an experience where it's mutual admiration and effort, at least for the time we are together.
Usually overall physique. Does she have a lithe and statuesque frame? If the answer is yes, the follow-up is to focus in on her facade, and eyes in particular.
IF you will be including a face photo a minimal make up... beautiful shot of ONLY your face is always good to add to the mix. It gives men a chance to concentrate on just those features and beauty.
Always the face. I need a sweet, pretty face to kiss! Very important to me.
If i’m not up right next to her but am a few yards away I tend to notice her overall fitness and if she has a pleasing ass and bust. If those are all in shapely proportion I am mesmerized. If up close I tend to notic eyes and mouth first.
It depends on how close to me they are when I first notice them. Generally, I first notice the face and eyes followed immediately by the physique as a whole; I then I focus on legs and butt. If a woman looks fit with a pretty face that is a big turn on for me.
Some faces are sexy, some beautiful, some cute and some just have that look that I like to see.
she can have the best skin, or be the most gorgeous woman, but if her affect is flat or distant, there is no way I can enjoy it.
Face-->Boobs-->Legs-->Butt in that order
