As we all know it matters GREATLY! How do you feel about the first impression? How do you like to be greeted? Have you ever been turned off by a bad first impression from a provider/client? Or do you not pay attention and go straight into jumping bones??? Share your thoughts!

"You never get a second shot at making a good first impression."

I know several gals who bowled me over with passion the first time we laid eyes on each other.  I still see many of them.  

 "nough said?

Some guys for some reason seem to need conversation or some such bullshit to get their motors running. I am NOT one of those guys. I have never had a bad session that started with a great kiss. It answers all my questions about whether or not she is going to have passion during the session.

The worst way to greet me is with no physical contact until after the donation is taken care of, followed by endless small talk that gives me the impression that the lady is trying to put off getting sex for as long as possible, usually followed by her trying to end it as soon as possible.

'Nough said!

Yuck! Definitely have to have passion and a genuine connection! Which is why I keep constant contact until we meet. This way there will be no need for small talk or awkwardness!

dfk, or at least real friendly lfk, at the door makes me very very excited about the upcoming hours.

just talking, esp. without at least flirting, is a total turn off.

also:  look like your pictures.  first impressions matter.  if you are obviously 10 years older than your pictures, it's going to be apparent when you open the door.

Till the doors in the elevator close, then her kiss will tell me alot...if it's a nice,slow,sensual passionate kiss then I'm toast.

First impressions happen even before I walk through your door. Were our email exchanges thoughtful, rather than matter of fact? If so, I'm already impressed, and know I'll have a wonderful time. Then when we meet, are you excited to see me? And lastly, what is the ambiance of your incall like?  

Best all time first impressions.  

When I opened the door as per her instructions, she ran across the room, and literally jumped into my arms.  

When she let me in, she gave me a long, deep kiss. When I opened my eyes, her incall (hotel room) was decorated to the max, with sexy music playing. I knew she took her profession seriously.  

When I came in, because she was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, I became extremely nervous. She sat me down on the couch, and started talking to me like a regular, non hobby person. Pretty soon I'd forgotten how gorgeous she was, and we were off to the races, many many times.

When she closed the door she came over to me, and gave me the deepest wettest french kiss I've ever received. I knew it was going to be hot. By the way, she's the lady who bangs her arms on the walls when she cums, so she enjoys her sessions too.  

A wonderful fbsm session turned full on gfe, surprising the hell out of me.  

Worst all time first impressions.

When she let me in, she escorted me back to the hobby room, sat me down on a couch, and proceeded to sit on the other side of the room.  

When she let me in, we walked by a room filled with teenagers.  

She answered my polite request for a session with a blank email. If she didn't wish to see me, why not delete my request. Why the blank email?

She responded favorably to my request for a session, one year later. I couldn't believe it.  

When I walked in she was mad because I parked one spot over from where she wanted me to park. Guess she was looking out the hotel window. That's the first impression you want to convey?  

The ladies who made a great first impression saw me return many times over (hundreds).  

The ladies who made a poor first impression were all one and done

That WILL turn me on and get me going immediately!

but it can be made powerfully in many ways. I often meet in public (bar, restaurant, etc...) and going straight to jumping bones isn't generally considered acceptable behavior    

Anyway, a genuine beaming smile, physical contact right away - critical.  

Everything usually goes better with a great start, but I have had dates that got improved greatly even after a "lackluster?" start. Often, a second date is much better when this happens - we can all have an "off" moment.

I don't think I've ever had a date start terribly, so no immediate turn-off situations for me to describe.

It conveys a world of caring, but is very socially acceptable.

Gals:  Go for it

is the next one ... especially one with someone that is separated by distance with the thought of the moment we're together that first time ...  

Now I'm wondering ... in public or ensuite ... hmmmm ... after all the emails, ensuite ... There'll be time for in public later.  

Any thoughts on this ... ?

performance score of 2-5.  That is to say any one of the three elements of first impression should have tipped me off early in the encounter that the remainder of the date was going to be unsatisfactory.  It has taken 10 unfortunate experiences for me to learn this lesson.  The easiest of the three qualities to deal with is punctuality.  Therefore, I have a limit for a late start; the last time I extended the limit, sure enough, the date was sour.  The cold greeting is the toughest to deal with as the door has already closed and the envelope is on the table.  Any ideas on how to handle that one?

Conversely, on time, prepared/coiffed, and warm greeting is predictive of good, great, fabulous, and, with my TPP (Temporary Perfect Paramour) 5 perfect, dates.  Fortunately, the vast majority of the ladies I have met have dazzled me with their first impressions.  Hobby on!