You are missing all the make believe romance that the BSU crowd loves to pretend exists in their encounters.

Aside from that, you have summed it up rather nicely. Sex, all by itself is a great thing, and most likely my favorite pastime. To me "fantasy" would be jerking off to porn with a real girl in sight, and quite frankly I prefer the real thing to fantasy every time. No offense to you guys that jack off to pornography, but that is something I haven't done in decades. I guess that is just one of the many benefits of finding out that women will fuck you for money at a very early age.  

So yeah, I am with you on this one. Fuck fantasy, I am quite happy with the real thing, and I don't need "fake love" to enjoy my sex. Sex all by itself works just fine for me TYVM

This issue has been on my mind for a while because everybody refers to the fantasy and I do not get it.    Yes, I am relatively new to TER but certainly not new to fucking around in P4P.   I am also not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but I am not a complete dimwit, at least I don't think I am

As you know, both men and women get pretty complacent in a lot of areas once they get married, so the hobby is about getting a young woman in matching underwear, and makeup, who is excited and motivated to get down and dirty with you.  And the provider gets a guy with shaved balls, who smells good, is a gentleman, and treats her like one of the most beautiful women in the world!

I think the first definition is the one intended.

(Unless you go for gang bangs, that is.)

When you see an actor play Macbeth on stage, do you think to yourself:  Hey, that guy isn't really Macbeth, he's just an actor!

Or do you let yourself relax and imagine you are in ancient Scotland, etc.?

If you do the former, what's the point in going to the play?

So, is the hobby like that play.  Join in the fun and you'll find it a lot more interesting.  Just remember that when you leave the theater, you are back in reality lest Birnham woods to Dunsinane come*.

(And believe me, you really don't want that.)

The fantasy is that she's a girlfriend who has some feelings for the guy, likes him, and enjoys having sex with him. Maybe that happens sometimes, but the danger is that the acting that the provider does convinces guys that it's real. It's just the money. As so many have said here before, see what happens if you don't pay.  

While I enjoy GaGambler's brash posts, I'm mystified by the following:
 - BSU
 - TYVM

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I'm sure that you may have done that at some point?

LOL! TYVM, MF —EOM

BSU = Biggest Suck Up

usually takes a while before they start picking their nose and farting in front of you (ok, ok, I admit it, the farting comes from me).   Now about the makeup, please, not too much, I hate it when I think that the person I am seeing is auditioning for clown school.

my true self at work, but alas, I would probably end up living back at the folks' basement (to my little brother, if you are reading this, please, don't take offense to that).      

More often than not, that would be the beginning of the ultimate nightmare.

I get to have my world rocked for 2-3 hours with women that I'd be invisible to IRL. And, I don't have to work for it or listen to any bullshit to get what I want. I have absolutely no "game" and I'm not a good looking man, so if it weren't for my buddy Ben and the hobby I'd be up shits creek with no paddle and I'd have to settle. And when the time is up, I or she leaves. Fucking great fantasy if you ask me.

was being sarcastic.  May be sarcastic is not what I mean, Tobi, if you are around, am I using the proper terminology?

Even in the hobby, things slide the more you see each other. Remember that girl who greeted you at the door in sexy see-thru lingerie and planted a big kiss on you the first time you met? Fast forward a dozen appointments and now she's greeting you in sweats and sometimes no makeup while finishing up her food and complaining about previous clients who wanted weird shit. Then she needs to pee before sex, lol.

..there is no fantasy. Rather there is the reality that thanks to several hundred dollars I can have incredible sex with someone less than half my age who would never give me the time of day in the civie world. Not only that. No drama. No work on my part. Just sex.

The fantasy part of this hobby is the best part. I have a new ATF who is a real submissive and the fun and anticipation of our next session is a big part of the whole experience. I'm not into heavy BDSM but the fact that I can suggest a scenario and give her instructions as to what to wear, how to present herself to me upon arrival and to only say Yes sir, please sir and thank you sir during the entire time is fun and a real turn on for me. She is great about it all and after we laugh and have fun with it. The anticipation, however, just adds to the whole experience and makes it so much more enjoyable. Anyway it works for me. I also just enjoy the company of a beautiful woman who likes to receive as well as give.

in my case slow it to real life  look and last for a minute.

of GFE service which allows escorts to charge more for their service. Once you meet them it's over and you have to deal with reality

The fantasy is what goes on in your mind prior to your arrival. You get to fulfill that fantasy, or turn it into reality, when you visit her. Fantasies are totally different for each gentleman. They may include a certain hair color, body type, body part, article of clothing, age, preference, number of women, sexual act, and on and on. The fantasy might also include roll playing certain scenarios. Most ladies will play the roll you want them to play, if that's what interests you. She might even pull out a whip.

Play the game the way you want, and if it comes up short of your expectations, it's your fault.

= FuckYouAndTheWhoreYouRodeInOn.

Got to pay for what you want. Or the hookers could all go back to one and done and out. So, don't complain about paying for something the guys wanted and hookers have had to provide...if you want msog, you got to pay for that.

Dinner or over night to achieve that.