chocolate, wine, gift card. Something not too crazy price wise. What do you gals like to receive as a surprise? (I am talking about the ones that don't have a wishlist on her website). PM me if you like to keep it a secret.

This is often reserved for those ladies I have met on more than one occasion.  I will on occasion, depending on the lady and the circumstance have gifted lingerie (that I think I would enjoy seeing on her), perfume, and other small items that I think she would enjoy.

I need to place a wish list on my site for sure

It's not too hard to find, especially on line.

only because its such a common gift and many do not use it.

While I'm sure she'll appreciate any token of your affection, I would suggest avoiding anything wearable-- at least until you get to know her better.

Maybe it's just because I'm a secret glutton... But I've never met a box of chocolates that I didn't like lol ;

Not to give to her, but to use yourself before showing up at her door.

My thoughts exactly. Wine, maybe. But chocolates? I've never been gifted a box of chocolates that I didn't consume. Lol

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Maybe it's just because I'm a secret glutton... But I've never met a box of chocolates that I didn't like lol  
 

Wow, I second that...I love the smell of a freshly clean....you know

Tinder seems to work quite well too.

You can never go wrong with flowers, even a single rose is a lovely gesture.

Especially if she is hosting in a hotel room.  First off there is nothing less discrete than a bunch of guys coming to her room all bringing a bouquet of roses, secondly where the hell is she supposed to put them, thirdly they die and then she has to get rid of them.

Unless they're flowers carved out of soap and resting in a bottle of mouthwash lol

The vast majority of first date arranging is fairly matter of fact. I'm pretty sure that the best gift is that you showed up on time, cleanly shaven, showered, with the correct amount of roses in hand, and a smile on your face. Then when the session starts, occasionally, stars and sparks begin shooting off in the form of a, beyond the physical connection. That's when the idea of a gift begins running through my mind. But the vast majority of the time the first session is wham bam, thank you sir, there's the revolving door that you're not likely to come back through.  

I took white wine and tomatoes from my garden because she offered me wine with fresh frozen organic fruit in it the 1st time we met. Another time I to a girl chocolate covered strawberries, champagne an OJ. What lady is going to say no to that. And one other time I'm at Kmart before the date and saw paper plates with her nickname on them and gave her those. Dorky but she loved them. Just pay attention.  

even to "wham bam ladies" and it's paid very nice dividends. The gift idea comes from her web site, and no, I don't give Ipads or Loubies, but I keep to items like favorite wine, candles or gift cards.  

especially on a first meeting.  Maybe just an unsigned thank you card, to put in the envelope with her correct donation enclosed.  That way they can either throw it away or keep it if they like little things like that (you know how some women are with cards).  I've had a few actually say to me how impressed they were for the thought.

It's not that I don't like chocolate, but I eat maybe one small piece a month! Lol. When I get an entire box, they always sit there on the counter and I end up eating them eventhough I don't want to...

Though some guys like to go all out. Lingerie is nice, but they would have to have their measurements on their website. I'm a computer and music nerd, and have gotten lots of gifts in those arenas after knowing the guys for a while.

I'm not much on gifts for the first date.  There have been times when I had to cancel on a lady but always managed to set up another appointment.  That is the only time have have brought a gift on the first date, kind of an apology for canceling.  But I have always found that finding something unique like a small box of gourmet cookies (Honolulu Cookie Company) is always nice.

here's a big charge:

i like sunflowers and gummi bears too!

...but it was very thoughtful in this case because we had corresponded for quite some time before meeting, and I had mentioned a very specific brand of chocolate, and also that I hardly ever drink alcohol, but when I do I like *insert my favorite brand here*. He brought me both the chocolate and a bottle of my favorite whiskey, and I couldn't have been happier because it showed he cared!

She also requested a bottle of Patron, we consumed all the Patron and most of the chocolates during a two hour session, and a great session it turned out to be