I wanted to get your guys' perspective on sleeping overnight with a provider.

This is an innocuous topic.  There is no secret or juicy provider board leak here.  I am as harmless as a freakin gnat.  I post for fun.

I don't have a clue as to whether or not I fart while sleeping, nor would I have the slightest clue on how to stop doing so if I do. lmao

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If my lady friend has done her job right, I'll drift off to sleep right after, LOL.  As for the snoring, you could try rolling him into a different position or try one of those nose strips that open up the nasal canal.  

Because I love to snuggle

I have a hard time sleeping on overnights too - even in muggle life! Something about being in close proximity with a new person for an extended amount of time makes it difficult.  Because of this I tend to sleep way on the other side of the bed. But now it'll be even harder to sleep because I never thought about trying to curb my bodily functions before! haha!

Lmao. Sounds like straight out of a movie. All that time wasted when you could just wake your client up with some head and I promise they won't give 2 farts about your hair. Get some rest and have a fun time. Otherwise it sounds like you shouldn't do overnights. Personally,I have done a few overnights but wouldn't anymore because I don't have the attention span for that and I value sleep.

...occasionally on my left side...

I generally get crappy sleep, and I tend to worry about snoring and freshening up in the morning too.

Lord knows how she does that, but I'm not going to book an overnight to find out.  Now, if I was ever to book an overnight, which is highly unlikely, I would treat it like any other time a woman has shared my bed. Like you said, some like to cuddle and some don't and I just go with the flow. It's really not that complicated.

I've only done overnights with one provider, one I've known for quite a few years, so I'm very comfortable in her company.

I haven't done overnights with Providers, but I was curious.

The very first overnight I did set a standard that has unfortunately never been met again.  She was a night owl and had an overnight job in her civvie life so was used to broken sleep.  We started our date at 7PM and didn't end until 9AM the following morning.  It was a once in a lifetime experience exceeding every wild imagination I ever had.  I came five times (I could those many years back then) in every opening of hers.  We sucked, fucked and slept and sucked, fucked and slept...

I don't do overnight "sessions."  They are always OTC but may be piggybacked onto a paid session.  So I encourage them to do whatever their pre-sleep ritual would be if I wasn't there, including make-up removal, putting hair up, soaking their dentures (although this one has yet to happen, but makes them laugh when I say it), and anything else they would do.    
 
 I had one where we were sleeping spooned with her back to me about two in the morning. She squirmed a little which woke me up but I pretended to still be asleep. Then she said my name three times, each time a little louder that before.  I didn't respond, so she assumed I was still sleeping. Then she let loose a major fart. I could feel the escaping warm air against my thigh.  I waited about half a minute, then said, "I heard that."  She jumped out if bed, putting her hands over her face in shame, completely mortified.  I started laughing and she joined in. After a good laugh for both of us, she crawled back in next to me, kissed me softly on the lips, and said, "Now we have to get married,". YIKES!!!

Sleeping will be easy, it'll be late and I'll be tired...so it all works out for the both of us.

It's funny that most guys, myself included, don't want to do a thing right after sex but maybe lay there or eat a pizza, while women seem to get all energized and want to go do shit right after sex.

So true, my ATF has gotten up after a over night session and a few minutes later I heard her vacuuming downstairs. When I woke up the next morning she was asleep next to me. I went downstairs and the place looked like my housekeeper just left. I made her favorite breakfast for her,  she's a treasure!

So, I usually get up and let her out.

Paint the living room?  Go to Disney?  Drill for oil?  I'd like to see you deduct your hobbying expense as Capex!

I'm by nature one of those who normally doesn't really sleep.  Slight movements or noises and I'm immediately awake.  I'll look over and see how she's sleeping, adjust the covers for her if needed and make sure she's OK.

...and have a bit of sleep apnea brought on by allergies and asthma. It's difficult for me to get a "good night's sleep" even under ideal conditions.

I am the same way, and that's why I don't currently offer overnights. I will when I find a solution that will make it possible for me to not be a cranky zombie the next day due to lack of sleep! 😂

I imagine I'd treat it the same way I treat sleeping next to anyone. I just go to sleep. If any problem comes up on her end, snoring or whatever, I follow her instructions. They've never been unreasonable; usually it's something like, " Roll over."  

....... not snoring is sexy. So sleeping with the CPAP mask  is not only good for my sleep but good for whoever is in the bed next to me.  

bed when that's not possible. I also bring eyes mask and ear plugs. I usually sleep very well after I have sex. These are the preparations that work for me. I hope it helps.

I have done a few overnights and they were all awesome experiences.  A lot of cuddling, massaging, sensual touching, small talk, light kissing ... time is obviously not a factor so you have time to really connect.  Every time, though, I'm not sure that I ever really slept.  There were a few hours where I rested with my eyes closed and a beautiful woman in my arms.  But those short, episodic naps were mixed with sensual experiences initiated by either the woman laying next to me or me.  I haven't done one of these in a while, however.