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nyshyguy69 1 Reviews 2162 reads
posted
1 / 21
Proper Prostate Play Prep

So due to my ED (yup Urologist is working it - still haven't found the right plan yet) I never get more than half hard now and can't cum over 80% of the time.  My AMP regular (see her every week for over 3 months - luckily she loves DATY/DATO as much as I do) said this week that some of her other clients that have my problem sometimes get results from prostate play.  She is willing to try it next week - as long as I get ready.  No more specific than get ready.  Didn't say much at the time as it took me by complete surprise.  Never tried it before but am willing - especially if it helps seal the deal as it were.

So my during my regular visits I go after work (office type work - no real sweating involved) after showering in the AM and a fast baby wipe cleanup of the boys and the butt in the bathroom just before leaving.  Don't think this will fly next week.  As they don't have a TS I am guessing go home after work, shower, then enema.  Sound reasonable to those that have done this?

VOO-doo 753 reads
posted
2 / 21
Haven't really found it to be...

A cure for the type of ED that has a medical basis (rather than a psychological one).  

If a guy seems to be talking a long time, I'll throw it in the mix to see what happens. My approach is VERY slow. Soft touch on the perineum, then the edge of the anus, then the area itself... If I get an enthusiastic response, I'll delve more. If not, I'll back off and keep doing what I was doing before.  

Sometimes, it will push guys over the edge.  

Others are completely turned off.

You never know until you try :) Can't hurt (well, it can, but tell her if it does).

As for preparation, ask her what she recommends.

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PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 760 reads
posted
3 / 21
Yes it sounds reasonable but...

Make sure you dry your parts really well. People think just a quick wash and go  works.  Nooooo  dry those balls and especially your ass like the Sahara. Otherwise you will still smell 😕

impposter 49 Reviews 825 reads
posted
4 / 21
If the glove is a fit, you must admit ...

... it into your butt.

Posted By: nyshyguy69
As they don't have a TS I am guessing go home after work, shower, then enema.  Sound reasonable to those that have done this?
Unless lunch is near the exit, I don't think that the enema is necessary. Do you do that before going to the doc for your annual prostate exam?  

She should probably be comfortable enough with sterile exam gloves. Either Latex or Nitrile. You might want a dab of KY on there, too, but they probably have plenty of lube on-site.  (You don't need SUPER sterile, individually wrapped operating room gloves - just the same box of examination gloves hanging on the wall at the doctor's office.) And be sure to get them in HER hand size, not your butthole size :-)  Unless she's got man-hands, get size small.



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Sex-Aeterna 713 reads
posted
5 / 21
The times I've done prostate play...

My clients did not do an enema or anything (though, if you are doing one, I think showering after that would be better than before). Just a good shower. I do use a condom over my fingers when going in (no condom if just stimulating the outside) and plenty of water-based lube. The same when I've used toys.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 661 reads
posted
6 / 21
Take a bottle to .....

Work (enema or a summers Eve douche bottle)...   Empty it into yourself & clean it out... It's so simple...   I make my clients do it when they visit my incall.. No one likes a pooy hole!!! Lol  

Posted By: nyshyguy69
So due to my ED (yup Urologist is working it - still haven't found the right plan yet) I never get more than half hard now and can't cum over 80% of the time.  My AMP regular (see her every week for over 3 months - luckily she loves DATY/DATO as much as I do) said this week that some of her other clients that have my problem sometimes get results from prostate play.  She is willing to try it next week - as long as I get ready.  No more specific than get ready.  Didn't say much at the time as it took me by complete surprise.  Never tried it before but am willing - especially if it helps seal the deal as it were.  
   
 So my during my regular visits I go after work (office type work - no real sweating involved) after showering in the AM and a fast baby wipe cleanup of the boys and the butt in the bathroom just before leaving.  Don't think this will fly next week.  As they don't have a TS I am guessing go home after work, shower, then enema.  Sound reasonable to those that have done this?

bofia 26 Reviews 501 reads
posted
7 / 21
ASNR moment

Posted By: impposter
... it into your butt.  
   
Posted By: nyshyguy69
And be sure to get them in HER hand size, not your butthole size :-)    
 

-- Modified on 7/10/2016 4:59:35 PM

VelvetVacation See my TER Reviews 643 reads
posted
8 / 21
"She is willing to try it"

You may want to consider a girl that knows her way around an asshole.
Someone comfortable with delivering a most loving magical prostate massage. : )

Walter.Disney 532 reads
posted
9 / 21
I'm sorry about your plight

But that hole is an exit only hole.

I would think that you might want to check if you're becoming gay.  Which is fine, no problem.

Maybe find a really hot MD to work that hole for you?  That takes the gay question off the table.  I think.
Posted By: nyshyguy69
So due to my ED (yup Urologist is working it - still haven't found the right plan yet) I never get more than half hard now and can't cum over 80% of the time.  My AMP regular (see her every week for over 3 months - luckily she loves DATY/DATO as much as I do) said this week that some of her other clients that have my problem sometimes get results from prostate play.  She is willing to try it next week - as long as I get ready.  No more specific than get ready.  Didn't say much at the time as it took me by complete surprise.  Never tried it before but am willing - especially if it helps seal the deal as it were.  
   
 So my during my regular visits I go after work (office type work - no real sweating involved) after showering in the AM and a fast baby wipe cleanup of the boys and the butt in the bathroom just before leaving.  Don't think this will fly next week.  As they don't have a TS I am guessing go home after work, shower, then enema.  Sound reasonable to those that have done this?

souls_harbor 540 reads
posted
10 / 21
Re: "She is willing to try it"

Everyone has to start somewhere.  Even brain surgeons had to have their first patient.

Posted By: GYBOpower
You may want to consider a girl that knows her way around an asshole.  
 Someone comfortable with delivering a most loving magical prostate massage. : )

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 425 reads
posted
11 / 21
not with me! ... Especially ....

a rookie cockologist.  Nope, not with my dick.

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nyshyguy69 1 Reviews 552 reads
posted
12 / 21
Re: "She is willing to try it"

Well she has done it before but never offered it to me.  She is willing to try it on me - next week.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 504 reads
posted
13 / 21
Whoa! Just because . . .

he wants a little prostate play, it doesn't make him an asshole!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 406 reads
posted
14 / 21
That sounds good, its much easier . . .

to prep from the bottom up than trying to push things out through your mouth.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 629 reads
posted
15 / 21
This can be great fun

It can include one or two or ....well you'll see... fingers and a careful massage of your prostate. It can include rectal balls These come in different sizes so you can start small. These are inserted into your anus one by one. They are attached and as you are getting excited. they are pulled out.  (I am over simplifying a bit. Timing is everything to get the most out of these)  
It can also be a double pleasing "feeldoe". This is a long thin, or thicker depending upon tastes, dildo on one site and another side that is made to fit into her vagina at the G spot and to hit her clit as well.  As she is using it to massage your prostate with the dildo end inserted in your rectum,  it is rubbing her clit and g spot.  She can get really excited and it can be very exiting for you.  
In an event, what I do is make sure I am regular (I take metamucil every day so my rectum contains solid well formed stools I don't do this for sex just because I like to be regular and I believe the fiber is beneficial) The day of, I use a fleets enema and then shower well paying attention to anus, ball sack etc.  
I hope it works for you.  If not and cialis and viagra are not working, your urologist can set you up with a trimix injection you can inject into your penis just before sex. (Oh I know, but its not bad at all my patients tell me and it works.)

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nyshyguy69 1 Reviews 573 reads
posted
16 / 21
Re: Whoa! Just because . . .

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
he wants a little prostate play, it doesn't make him an asshole!
Thanks.  I think.

nyshyguy69 1 Reviews 381 reads
posted
17 / 21
Hey doc

Yeah the pills do nada.  Insurance Co shot down androgel as my numbers aren't QUITE bad enough.  See the Urologist this week.  Plan on bringing up inject able Testosterone.  My primary says even out of pocket its not too expensive.  Given the added benefits over just hard on shots and the fact that refrigeration for trimix may be a problem I think I want to try that route first if he agrees.  Plus the thought of injecting into the penis still makes me cringe.  The thigh not so much.

P.S. She has long thin piano player type fingers.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 415 reads
posted
18 / 21
Doesn't everyone do this for every date?

It's important if there's to be any DATA for sure .... and anal of course. FIA or CIA ...  
although CIA ain't happening here... a toy, ok. In the spirit of cooperation, but no Dick thank you.

VelvetVacation See my TER Reviews 537 reads
posted
19 / 21
The Dick Whisperer...

Please make your FIRST time a pleasurable one.  

Prostate gland stimulation is something every Dick Whisperer knows how to do, with skill.

nyshyguy69 1 Reviews 441 reads
posted
20 / 21
Re: Hey babe, I've got you covered:

Posted By: ToriValentine
This is a little note I like to send out to lucky gents:  
   
 Here are some guidelines for preparing for toy play:  
 1. Switch to a vegetable-based diet a day or two before our meeting (this in and of itself always aids elimination).  
   
 2. The day of our meeting, try to execute at least two rounds of douching about 90 mins to 2 hours before our meeting. Simply purchase a disposable Fleet's enema at a pharmacy. Dump out the premade solution (which is a solution to provide relief to constipated individuals and could be detrimental to our time together), rinse and then fill the bottle with warm water. The temperature should be warm enough to be comfortable inside you (as opposed to cold which could make you cramp). Release the contents inside of you, hold them as long as possible, and then let go. Repeat until the water is clear. While not the most pleasant of experiences, this is something you can accomplish in the stall of a public restroom.  
   
 3. Scrub your nooks and crannies after douching. Lather up quite well, even inserting one finger (up to the first knuckle), and rinse rinse rinse.  
   
 4. If you have been eating light to aid digestion, feel free to eat a heavy snack (starchy, something that will take its time) prior to our meeting. It will give you the energy you need.  
   
 If this sounds too extensive, then do your best.  
   
 xoxox  
 Tori

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Thank you this is the type of info I was looking for.

Nadiya Bella See my TER Reviews 451 reads
posted
21 / 21
& remember shit happens

So if its not a good day to play there, despite prep work, just don't go there... Some days are better than others so always listen to your Body! Great post Tori!

Posted By: ToriValentine
This is a little note I like to send out to lucky gents:  
   
 Here are some guidelines for preparing for toy play:  
 1. Switch to a vegetable-based diet a day or two before our meeting (this in and of itself always aids elimination).  
   
 2. The day of our meeting, try to execute at least two rounds of douching about 90 mins to 2 hours before our meeting. Simply purchase a disposable Fleet's enema at a pharmacy. Dump out the premade solution (which is a solution to provide relief to constipated individuals and could be detrimental to our time together), rinse and then fill the bottle with warm water. The temperature should be warm enough to be comfortable inside you (as opposed to cold which could make you cramp). Release the contents inside of you, hold them as long as possible, and then let go. Repeat until the water is clear. While not the most pleasant of experiences, this is something you can accomplish in the stall of a public restroom.  
   
 3. Scrub your nooks and crannies after douching. Lather up quite well, even inserting one finger (up to the first knuckle), and rinse rinse rinse.  
   
 4. If you have been eating light to aid digestion, feel free to eat a heavy snack (starchy, something that will take its time) prior to our meeting. It will give you the energy you need.  
   
 If this sounds too extensive, then do your best.  
   
 xoxox  
 Tori

-- Modified on 7/11/2016 2:41:07 AM

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