I am getting tired of masseuses promising an hour (even specifying "a full hour") and delivering 30-45 minutes.  But I've been a chickenshit about confronting any of them, because confrontation would ruin any erotic experience.

But I think it's time we hold these women to delivering what they promise.  We demand it in every other arena of our lives -- our money has value, we trade it for services as promised and we make a stink if we don't get it.  

The best strategy will be to demand, even on the phone call, that they deliver the full hour.  If enough of us do that, if enough of us make an issue of it before we're out the door in 35 minutes, these providers will be forced to conform to the standards of business in every other arena.

Good grief.  There are so many of us (providers & gents) on the other side of this conversation.  Some of us see "time" in a different parallel.

There are  many many providers who will not do this to you.  Look at my latest review.  I had a class to go to. I was 1/2 hour late to a one hour class with a world class dance coach.  This has happened too many times over the last year ... my fault.  My precious escape time.  So yes I can correlate to your feeling.  In other words,  my clients/patrons are so very very special.  I took  and choose to continue to take those  chances happily, no regrets, although I am sure I must find a better way to handle my "time management".

Life is an endeavor of dreams intermingled with and by foibles. Huge and "huger". (Need a hug?)   No regrets ... we take our chances and decide to or not to continue to in the spirit of love.

Is Love a  Lifegiving proposition?

I must be watching too much "Farscape" tonight. the words dictate truth past fiction.  synchronous, and uncanny.

xoxoxo

FF









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Aren't you glad you didn't jump in the shower? It probably would have been  a lot longer than that.

Actually I was on the verge of calling my coach and saying - "Hey put THIS on stage" and then jumpin in the shower with you. (You KNOW I wanted to)

;->>>

xoxo

FF

Outside of the money we men dish out, our time is also money. For myself and I'm sure for alot of men, time is important in a session. 1 full hour being pampered is just as important as the pop(s) its a psychological thing. I've read in many reviews men struggling to hold back a pop because the service will be over after they've poped, Men want to spend intimate time, when an hour translates into a 1/2 hour we feel cheated. Notice reviews where men give high points for women that dont watch the clock THATS HOW IMPORTANT IT IS! Especially when its a QUALITY HOUR. an idea if a provider bases their time on pops rather than time is NOT TO OFFER PRICES BASED ON TIME it would be clear and honset advertising and not feel deceptive, would only make sense don't you think? well this is my oppinion and what I look for.

Amen.  When a girl tells me one hour for x amount of dollars and then wants to split halfway through because I get off, I feel cheated.  I agree completely with eoj, don't quote an hourly rate unless you're willing to provide your services for the full hour.   I usually ask up front about mulitple pops to be sure, but it seems like whenever I forget it turns into a one pop session.

great...now I'm really going to wonder about what it would have been like...might have to go take a cold shower soon...

you know FF, anytime you want, I'll come over with my Mr Bubble and ducky if you draw the tub!

There is something to be said for "I charge for my time" aside from just legalities.

I do see your point, eoj.  We are all strugglng betwixt and between a spectrum of agendas, and LE.

Hang in there. You can read the reviews as well.

Bear in mind, we ladies go through the fire too, at times feeling sucked dry (not in a nice way), and then thrown away and spat at (not necessarily by men in this biz).  

My saving grace? I BELIEVE that water seeks its own level. Karma, if you will.  Other ladies have other perspectives...perhaps a topic to open...what positive outlooks help us through?



xoxo

FF

Hi Felicia,

Your response is much appreciated. I do understand the complexity of this hobby / business and will keep your comments in consideration,  This is my two cents so providers can know at least what THIS MAN WANTS; I seek providers that offer multiple pops and the full agreed time. thanks to TER I can find them! I'll never say never though!

felicia you are a fox!

eoj

Hi ... Eoj

& it's Foxx, lol (there is actually a Felicia Fox).
Thank you for your thoughtful response.
   
Back to the subject at hand ... (WHICH hand?. lol)

NONE OF THIS (referring to discusssion above) was  EVER an issue with a lot of us ladies!!!!  WE just wanted to make a man happy and wanted to be treated fairly in return...

Guess the problem occurs when it's a matter of what one deems happiness or fairness.

My leveling note:  Water seeks its own level. So in the long run, things work out.  This is a short run hobby requiring "long run" attitudes perhaps?

Oops. looks like I circled the block and got caught on the corner of walk and don't walk again!!!

ER, UMMMM, and if your calling me a Foxx is just lip service , well, I'll TAKE IT!!


xoxo

ff                                              





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Hi Felicia FOXX,

oops sorry i guess i was standing on a soap box. let me get down. bottom line for me is that  the providers that i visit help  me love and feel loved, they comfort my heart and soul and i appreciate them dearly. Someday i will be able to share such feelings in a non business relationship with someone special, it is what i really want. from the sound of your reviews you seem to do the same for your clients and im sure they appreciate what you offer. Im calling you a FoXX because you are a FOX! lip service? i wish