Hi!  This message is for the ladies.  I'm curious...on average how quickly does it take to reach your point of know return and have an orgasm?  I know it will vary with technique and from one woman to the next.

I can orgasm fast. Depending on the environment, how attracted I am, their level of skills, how well the take direction. I've been known to orgasm quick but then over and over.

Just kidding but don't you know on this board anyone can answer any question they want?  Anyway, my answer is another question: how do you know that she actually had an orgasm?
They do fake these things, you know.

When you are wondering if she orgasmed or faked one to get on with the show,
see if her face is flushed, put your ear on her chest and check the fast heartbeat,  sniff her armpits to see if she has blown the toxins and pheromones out her glands with that massive orgasm she had.

Call the service a "performance" because there's usually some acting. Three minutes seems awfully fast from a standing start, but not for a second or third O in the same session.

Using a high powered vibrator I've been known to cum in under a minute (bless the man who invented vibrators). But even that isn't every time. Depending on my mood, what's on my mind, what else is going on around me, how tired I am, if I've had a bit to drink (whiskey clit), the planetary alignment, etc. It could take longer, or I could have to fight for it.  
Some women just reach climax easier. Could be you just hit all her buttons.

...to come that fast (I know that I am certainly not representative of many female physiological attributes, especially when it comes to mighty O's). I have never had a provider come in under 3 minutes and have not seen that in the civvie world either.  But anything is possible.

Unbelievable!  Stone her!
Now back to reality.  Do you really think there was only one?  Idiot.

yes, it's hard to fake the rapid heartbeat and flushing of an intense orgasm, not to mention female ejaculation (not squirting). Of course, the absence of these does not necessarily mean there was no O.

I really don't get off often with DATY. I have however been with women that do get off easily from just touching.  I definitely love It  but seems more like foreplay for me.  
No offense but maybe she just didn't like your technique?  I will echo Julia Jones and say to start off easy and let her pull you in
XOXO,  
TL

grab my ear and pull my head towards her because she was ready for a little more pressure, but this was after about ten minutes of light teasing on my part.

When I perform DATY, I monitor respiration, pulse rate, and involuntary muscle contractions in the abdomen.  Sniffing armpits is not necessary for me, thank god.  Its very difficult to fool me.  The longest it has taken me to get a provider to O with DATY was 40 minutes, but I was purposely edging her a little.  Never had one in three minutes, though, so I think the OP got whiffed on that one.  

A woman who O's fast is treasured, while a man that O's fast is the subject of much joking.

In general friends with benefits are the most honest. They expect to be satisfieg and will tell you how you are doing and what they experience.  I can also judge by women who cum with a large flow of different tasting liquid.  
I have had friends with benefits who really do not cum with DATY and who I would help finish with a vibrator while kissing and talking dirty and I have had a number or women who cum really quickly. I recently saw a provider who i did not review recently who was not physically attractive and in a very unattractive setting, but I began DATY with her sitting on my face and in a flash my mouth was full, my face was covered, and she had clearly cum.  She did this twice more.
So my opinion  on how soon is: anywhere from minutes to never.

Or do you mean you should share a blunt with her?

We were together for quite some time and it was great on days when she'd be horny and I really wasn't in the mood for a fuck fest. She would just give me a little head to get me good and hard, climb on top and she knew just how to hit her own spots and could cum in no more than a minute or two.

with electronic help i can go in under a minute.......with manual help i can go in about 3......but i also recover quickly and can have multiples..........i can usually have about 5 or 6 in a 30 minute period.....if i am super worked up it can be more.....it does get uncomfortable after so many though.