I went to go get tested at Planned Parenthood, and one of the questions they ask if "Have you had sex with a sex worker?" (sidebar: props to them using proper terminology!)

If I feel I have to lie to them, it's time to replace them.

but I don't lie to anyone about seeing hookers. I am way too lazy to lie, and if someone has an issue with me seeing hookers, that's their problme, not mine.

Rent is a good place...at least that isn't scrutinized in audits.

nless I come back positive for something, what I do here has no impact on my health any more than going out and barebacking random men in bars would...in fact, it has less impact.  

Under the theory that once it's out of the box, it can never be put back in. DO NOT want that in my medical file (or any file for that matter), even with HIPAA.

And asked "Have you ever had sex for money?" I always reply, "Does marriage count?"

There is only so much room in the title bar. lol

Yes I tell the complete truth to my accountant as well, and no I do not attempt to "expense" out my hooker bill, but I can see where "vagina rental" might be an appropriate expense category.

It's funny, I have two different accounting firms, one of them is a monger who pegged me for a fellow whore monger when I showed up with my young "secretary" at our first meeting. I always get first priority for his time, because unlike his usual, boring clients, we always have something interesting to talk about.

Does dinner and a show count?

After my ex and I split I started getting tested at my regular doctor's office.  I just told him that, since I was "playing the field" now I wanted to get tested on a regular basis.  

I also appreciate the fact that PP used the right terminology but I don't think that seeing sex workers is any more dangerous than picking up strangers in bars (probably even less so).

Lol! And you shouldn't! They owe you a fiduciary duty....Now your accountant, I dunno...

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most doctors, lawyers, whatever, instinctively have a different subjective view (less empathy) of you from that point on.  they'll be professional, but you no longer receive 100% of their "oath".

I'm lucky enough to go to an amazing clinic that doesn't discriminate. I tell them so that they will run all of the tests they have for me (a lot of times, when you get an STI panel done, they won't test for Herpes I) and because I come in for testing very often. It makes things easier. I'm also not in secret about my profession, so telling my doctor isn't a big deal.

"I don't think that seeing sex workers is any more dangerous than picking up strangers in bars (probably even less so)."

There's a little clause that starts off with...

Yeah. D'u ever come out to Houston?  

Sure, the doctor/nurse might not spread it around, but that does not stop the snot nosed MA/Receptionist who sees your file from telling all her friends you're a hooker, with no proof it was her who told. HIPAA only works if you abide by it, and most of them don't. I was an intern at a hospital for 2 years, and I saw every record that passed through. I had to put the shit in the computer. Now, if they let some intern see records, you don't think the employees being paid are not seeing them?

and several accountants. The same rule goes for all of them IMO. If I feel that I have to "hold back" information from any of them, it means I don't have the trust level with them that I need to continue to use their services. I've reached that point with more than a couple of Doctors, Lawyers, and Accountants alike, and obviously none of them work for me any longer.

I don't care who knows that I am a "whore monger" Of course it might be different if I were a hooker, but since that is unlikely to ever happen, i guess I will never know. lol

and I have fired countless doctors, lawyers and other "professionals" over the years. Those letters behind their name don't mean shit to me when I am paying the bill.

and as I mentioned before, I actually have more access to one of my accountant's time, as he doesn't find me as boring as his other clients and that is a direct effect of our both being whore mongering pigs.

If your medical condition is an issue in the case, your medical records can be subpoenaed.  You can get a protective order that they not be revealed outside the litigation, and HIPPA does protect you somewhat, but it's not like the records are forever sealed.  

what happens when fingers don't work too well...a horrible disease  

And likely don't plan on a trip any time soon.

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Yeah. D'u ever come out to Houston?  

I would probably say "No"

I had a very good friend, same age as me, who never married. During my 20's, 30's and 40's I was a married guy who saw escorts.  In all those years I never contracted any STD's at all.  My single friend spent those same years with a variety of women, many of whom he picked up in bars or at "singles dances". Until he finally got scared of herpes and HIV he had unprotected sex with dozens of women for years and had to get treated for a variety of, fortunately, curable STD's.

Even the street walkers that I used to pick up in the early 90's were safer than some of the civvie girls out there...

But I found Heather's comment very funny too

It does not affect how I treat patients in a negative way at all. I do however have a little better understanding and probably have more empathy.

I informed him I had GFs on the side...  I never said how long they were my GF for.  He clearly didn't approve but he ordered the testing.

I'd stick it out with you.

and I don't care how much money is involved.

I don't need money badly enough to have to tolerate people I can't stand, just like I don't need pussy badly enough to put up with BSC or demanding hookers either.

Rent and 1099's. ROFL!!!!!

But I trusted the RN and DOC and I figured, better they know vs thingk I am getting tests every month just because I am a straight up slut.  

so she knows too! my Lawyer knows too!

As a Sex worker, I am WAAAAAAAY more safe than I was as a Civvie! I NEVER used condoms as a CIVVIE! and yes thank god I stayed safe

now when I switch to Kaiser in JAN I will NOT be saying jack

they do use part of my rent, ads, massage oils, candles et