Saw a very nice lady for the first time a bit ago.  She was awesome looking and gave a great time and was well worth the money, she was in the above average price range.  

As I was leaving she said she wanted me for a 'regular' and would 'work with me' on the price so I could come by (so to speak) often.  I had never considered any sort of negotiation of the price for a lady's time for a lot of reasons, but mainly because I figured 'you get what you pay for' applies to all things in life and a negotiated lower price would result in a less enjoyable time.  

I thought about it a bit and emailed her later and made her an offer to come back as often as I could, hopefully monthly, for just under 2/3 of her normal price.  She replied and said that she was fine with that and we have set a date for another encounter.

Just wondering how the ladies felt about a discount for 'regulars'?  I see a lot of up-sides to this as the lady does not have to screen again, knows him and what he is into etc.  I suppose in the bottom line (it is always the bottom line, isn't it?) it depends on if the lady has enough 'full pop' business to meet her needs?

MM

I can't publish the discounts I have gotten, but let's say that the providers out there reward a good client.

They don't want that out there as public knowledge, and I don't blame them.

She's not just offering it like a "Have a nice day, come back soon" like you get at the checkout counter...You obviously behaved yourself and made a connection. They don't just throw out discounts unless your business is better to have then someone else's.

Are you giving a monthly rate to these particular regulars?

including escorting. Everyone in business knows how difficult, challenging and expensive attracting  new customers can be.  It's much easier to keep good customers, think of it as a loyalty program like an airline or hotel. I have had the same experience as you and always, I keep these arrangements to myself. I also NEVER bring this up with an escort I'm just starting to see, I let her make the first offer.

The more of those types of arrangements I have, the less new clients I need to see.

Now that she knows you she does not have screen you, worry about manners, how you look, and you interact.  That is alot of time and stress avoided.  "Regular" means regular income, which is nice when you are self-employed.  A little benefit for both parties.

it to all of us. Chill Out Babe

I agree.  I haven't had this come up with a provider I'm seeing.  However, I've discussed this with other providers.  Many just don't get a grasp  business, all they see is the lump sum amount they get at one time.

Seriously though, obviously she considers you a good client. You treated her well and she feels she can trust you.   Pat yourself on the back and sign up.

I had a hi end providers say to me during the heat of the moment that shw was going to offer me a "great cock" discount. Never happened.

You got it right.  When you're self-employed regular business without anxiety or added work is so very nice.

Did you ever go back?  Did you get the $50 discount?

Well, recently saw a lady who I liked.   And then I asked her if regulars get a discount because I'll be back soon, and she said take $20 off.  Well, after 2 days, she messaged me and said take $50 off if I came and saw her that day.  I couldn't that day, but I feel like it's always good to give regulars a discount.

there's one lady i've seen who is not only great, and we seem to have great chemistry, she has never watched the clock with me and in fact i have gone well over time into chargable amounts, without her saying a word.  

i would never ask her for a discount because i figure that, per minute, i am already getting a discount with her.

You two should get a room and talk stupid to each other, since you can't grasp the point of a DISCUSSION board. Here's how it works...OP asks a question, we all answer. Don't like the answers, too freaking bad.  

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Well fucking DUH!!!!

LOL... I'm back with her soon!!

For example, a 4 hour dinner/date becomes an overnight.

I do that with a few gals I know, and each time they suggested it.

She knows the rules, If only she played by them

I have had three LA 10s do the same for me.   The crazy thing being that they approached me.  It caught me off guard as well.   They also did things like CIM and other things that I never read in their other reviews.   I guess it pays off to be nice, clean, groomed, friendly, and in shape.

By him alone, I get about 400 a week which is pretty damn good in the south from one person lol. I am always the one who makes the offer too, as none of my clients have dared ask for a discount. I also make the first move to offer OTC time for dinner and the like. It's called taking care of those who take care of you....or, they just might go somewhere else.

How I go about it.  My site clearly states I don't negotiate, but for those who want to meet once a week for a overnight, or those who want to travel regular then will negotiate a little.  For those who call once a yr or every few months looking for 1 hr. then no.
I prefer regulars that you can count on.  Quality not quantity
I also believe you get what you pay for.

That is what I would expect a regular provider to volunteer or hint at without my asking.  What always happens is whatever amount they go down, they get back in a tip if not more for a long  term.  They  really lose at most a slight bit of a tip, but I make it up with other things if we go out, if not  I send a gift.  Then if there as nice as usual, they get a tiip plus the difference, I just like being recognized by having the price lowered to show some appreciation for my continued business.