"In the rarer moments where a client who leaves a very critical review of a provider wants to go back and see that provider again, I've seen visceral examples of the dynamic devolving and I maintain that I'm personally not interested in getting caught up in a predicament like that. So my point still stands. And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone."

This is a dumb idea. First, it could be interpreted as scoring manipulation because those who choose to see her, and may want to see her again, will feel pressured to give her a higher score. And, you will have no way of knowing for sure if they are giving honest scores or ones to insure they can repeat. This needs to happen organically. If a reviewer feels she deserves a 6 or lower, that's what the reviewer should give her. If the consequences are she no longer wants to see them, then so be it. That's her choice, as much as it is the clients choice if he doesn't want to see her again. If he's butt hurt because he felt his 6 was generous and wanted to see her again, well tough shit.

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So again, why state it only on the forum but not on the website if it's true?

Most of us who look at a providers pictures and think, she’s a 6, wouldn’t book her. So her comments do not apply to most of us. A smart provider creates her website and ads to lure in her target market, not to keep out those she doesn’t want. While she may be the one who just broadcast it here, I can assure you there are many other providers who would not want to see you if they knew in advance you think they’re a 6 or lower.

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Anything SHE damn well pleases.

Wtf are you doing? Just let it go. You don't tell us how to run our businesses. We can include or omit whatever we want on our websites, your opinion be damned. Go read a book or something.

So let me get this straight. If she says for people who do x to not even reach out on the forum, why wouldn't she want to let people know this?  

Sorry but I think you’re taking a statement and blowing it out of proportion. Others may agree with you, but she clearly meant what she said, so you posting this isnt a consequence- she might find it funny you designated an entire post, and others might interpret you and this post as crazy.  

I think you're slightly confused. If you think I'm making this post purely because I disagree that is not the case!

Yes, YIKES!

No. She does not need to post all her fun facts on her website because 9 out of 10 times people don't read the entire website prior to contacting a provider.

rocket likes to argue. About anything.

I’m not confused.. it seems you are. You def made this post bc you disagreed (otherwise you wouldn’t have worded it so biased or passive aggressively). If your intent was genuinely to see other viewpoints.. why are you telling others not to book her in the same breath?

team_rocket_qwerty should just tell providers his TER username when booking. This way any who pay attention to the boards can decide if HE is not a match for them. Control what you can CONTROL and sometimes you get what YOU want.

Her statement only makes sense to TER reviewers. It wouldn’t make sense to non TER members and would only serve to confuse them. Her website is created to attract a wide swath of clients, not to cater to the whims of a small minority (possibly singular) of TER forum readers.

Excuse me?

There is a reason people use aliases on this board, including yourself.

"And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone"

Now THAT I won't argue with

And the person the broadcast was intended for received it. Now you know not to book her. Mission accomplished. No reason to add it to her website. What do you expect her to post, "If you're team_rocket_qwerty from TER don't book me." ? Sorry, but HER website is not all about YOU.

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So no, I don't expect anything about me but rather the same statement she made on here to be put on her site.

We know you were the only one in that thread, as well as this one, talking about giving out a 6 or lower to an ATF and repeating. We know she said that anyone who rates the way you just described not only should not see her a second time, but don't even bother booking her the first time. These are both in writing and the only absolutes. Anything else is how we choose to speculate. First focusing on the absolutes, her message is clearly intended for you.

One would think Rocket wasn’t so dense that he couldn’t realize he was the subject of the original post.

A thread is not representative of all the clients she might get.

When digging a hole, stop digging…

But I don't see any serious attempt to get anyone to up their review of her so where is that review manipulation you're claiming?

Rocket is either one of the biggest trolls on this site or is genuinely on the spectrum without knowing/accepting it. He has a specific viewpoint on everything and cannot ever be convinced that anybody else could ever have a different opinion, and will argue multiple posts and paragraphs to prove it to himself that he is always right.

He said, if she puts it on the website then it can be interpreted as manipulation.

Perfect!  

Fair enough, I didn't realize that and think he is wrong on that point.

"When you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging."

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

The guy who takes this advice well, literally stops digging. Then there is the guy who just stops digging that hole. A yard filled with lots of small holes is no better than one with a smaller number of large holes. The instructions are to stop digging, not stop digging one hole just to dig up another.

Why would someone be pressed or worried about my opinion or the possibility of seeing me (again) if they were intent on writing a damaging review about me and giving me a low score?

Maybe in that case  “if he can not dazzle us with knowledge he can baffle us with bulshit”

Once again, the first step is to understand some don't view a grade of six as "trashing" or bashing. But in order to understand that you need to understand what user review are. User reviews are for us by us, they are datapoints to tell others, not something that you use in your ads as some kind of social score to show how good you are. They are for customers by customers. It's like barbershop talk except having public visibility.  

If I seen someone who I thought was a 6 I wouldn’t see them again.  If she posted that on her website I wouldn’t see her to begin with.

to anyone paying attention and reading between the lines, the dynamic between you and providers you consider your ATFs has absolutely nothing to do with me and my body.

He’s on the spectrum. He can’t read between the lines. That doesn’t excuse his creepy obsession with what you do with your body and with whom.

She can do whatever she wants with her body but if, for example, she decides her body doesn't want reviews, she'd have to be remоved from listing on TER.  

The misogynistic pervert with the creepy obsession denies he has a creepy obsession. Go figure.  

Thanks for bringing this up, I almost missed it.

Why would anyone care what TER says a 6 is if 85% of the users don't abide by it? No one is arguing what a 6 means according to TER. We all get that. You seem to think we do not. What you don't seem to get or even care about is that most TER users don't give out 6s the way TER intended. I get you wish they did. And, if it was common, we would likely fall in line. But it simply is not.

That's some serious research.  Were you an archaeologist in a prior life?

"No one is arguing what a 6 means according to TER. We all get that."

You guys are adding a bit too deep into what she said. From what I get from her statement is that if you did not have a favorable time with her, purposely booking her again or booking her to make another critical review is very weird and doesn't make sense. She wants no parts of that and rightfully so. Lena was straight forward in what she said.