Write Review
2,072,942 Total Reviews 4,372 New Reviews
8,007 Users Online

TER General Board

Re: We Know Two Things (Excellent Breakdown)
team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 539 reads
posted
1 / 25
Should what Lena Duvall said here be posted on her website?

"In the rarer moments where a client who leaves a very critical review of a provider wants to go back and see that provider again, I've seen visceral examples of the dynamic devolving and I maintain that I'm personally not interested in getting caught up in a predicament like that. So my point still stands. And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone."

 
I believe this is valuable information that can help prospective customers who follow TER scale to not engage with this provider as to avoid puhsback.

 
I feel like saying this on a forum where very few people read the board is not merely enough.

 
I think that such policy which doesn't favor leaving an honest and truthful critical review, done according to the ter scoring policy, should be broadcast publicly.

hehitshewins 3 reads
posted
2 / 25
Simply, No

This is a dumb idea. First, it could be interpreted as scoring manipulation because those who choose to see her, and may want to see her again, will feel pressured to give her a higher score. And, you will have no way of knowing for sure if they are giving honest scores or ones to insure they can repeat. This needs to happen organically. If a reviewer feels she deserves a 6 or lower, that's what the reviewer should give her. If the consequences are she no longer wants to see them, then so be it. That's her choice, as much as it is the clients choice if he doesn't want to see her again. If he's butt hurt because he felt his 6 was generous and wanted to see her again, well tough shit.

-- Modified on 6/24/2026 4:04:38 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 4 reads
posted
3 / 25
It IS a scoring manipulation

So again, why state it only on the forum but not on the website if it's true?

 
And Lena did say "don't reach out to me at all"  

How can one know to not contact her if she doesn't put this on a website?
Please do tell.

-- Modified on 6/24/2026 4:08:50 PM

hehitshewins 3 reads
posted
4 / 25
Your in the Minority

Most of us who look at a providers pictures and think, she’s a 6, wouldn’t book her. So her comments do not apply to most of us. A smart provider creates her website and ads to lure in her target market, not to keep out those she doesn’t want. While she may be the one who just broadcast it here, I can assure you there are many other providers who would not want to see you if they knew in advance you think they’re a 6 or lower.

-- Modified on 6/24/2026 4:36:02 PM

RespectfulRobert 2 reads
posted
5 / 25
Let me tell you what exactly should be on HER website.

Anything SHE damn well pleases. :)

tslucyjane See my TER Reviews 9 reads
posted
6 / 25
You're weird and have nothing better to do than troll

Wtf are you doing? Just let it go. You don't tell us how to run our businesses. We can include or omit whatever we want on our websites, your opinion be damned. Go read a book or something.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
7 / 25
Re: Let me tell you what exactly should be on HER website.

So let me get this straight. If she says for people who do x to not even reach out on the forum, why wouldn't she want to let people know this?  

 

Does she really want that then? Or does she want that but unable to publicly state this? Like what is the issue here?

briellehendrix01 See my TER Reviews 9 reads
posted
8 / 25
Yikes..

Sorry but I think you’re taking a statement and blowing it out of proportion. Others may agree with you, but she clearly meant what she said, so you posting this isnt a consequence- she might find it funny you designated an entire post, and others might interpret you and this post as crazy.  

Any place with shared opinions is bound to have disagreements.. and that’s ok. Be an adult. Blasting, passive aggressively posting, or attempting to influence others just bc they took a (subjective) stance says more about you, than the other way around! TER should screen posts like this from both ends; it’s only necessary if someone is robbing/blackmailing/deposit scamming/fake profile, etc

No provider or client is entitled to a 2nd booking (review or not). We all have our own autonomy. It’s your right to review, and it’s our right to deny.. we don’t have to list each and every thing YOU feel is necessary. While I see both sides, it’s important to know when to disagree and move on.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 2 reads
posted
9 / 25
Re: Yikes..

I think you're slightly confused. If you think I'm making this post purely because I disagree that is not the case!

Nowhere did I claim anyone is entitled to anything. However TER has its set of rules in terms of reviews, and I'm interested to see how these TER rules regarding reviews will interact with this viewpoint.  

 

And what do you mean "screen posts like this"? Posts like what? Did I call anyone any name? Did I make a threat of any kind? No ma'am. I am allowed by rules of this forum to quote a public post made by a poster in this forum and make it into a question.  

 
I simply pointed out that if a provider feels strongly like this, she (or he/they) should probably let the customers know ahead of time in the place where they advertise. How else would someone know not to contact her at all?

36363jensen 4 Reviews 2 reads
posted
10 / 25
Re: Yikes..

Yes, YIKES!

 
rocket you are the only person here that thinks what she said was some form of review manipulation or that a 6 is the type of score that most here think is one they would seek out. It is not a good score regardless of what you think. Her statement that she thought it would be a mutually agreeable outcome to not see one another again if the the customer though the session was only worth a 6. Clearly she was saying she thinks all the sessions she delivers are worth more. But if the client doesn't agree then perhaps they have incompatible preferences or wants in a session or just how various acts are performed.

 
THAT is a far cry from trying to say if you see me only give me 7+ or there will be trouble. It's not even clear that even if the goal were to filter out hard scores that that would be against the rules regarding reviews.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 0 reads
posted
11 / 25
I can't believe you created a post on her.

No. She does not need to post all her fun facts on her website because 9 out of 10 times people don't read the entire website prior to contacting a provider.

🤔

MeetJayFawx 14 Reviews 3 reads
posted
12 / 25
tl;dr

rocket likes to argue. About anything.

There it is. That's your tl;dr.

briellehendrix01 See my TER Reviews 10 reads
posted
13 / 25
Re: Yikes..

I’m not confused.. it seems you are. You def made this post bc you disagreed (otherwise you wouldn’t have worded it so biased or passive aggressively). If your intent was genuinely to see other viewpoints.. why are you telling others not to book her in the same breath?

This post reminds me of moms who frivolously blast people or companies on Facebook - yes TER should screen posts like this. Just bc you didn’t make a threat or namecall doesn’t change what I said. “Know when to disagree and move on”. It backfired and you gifted the provider more traffic. You made it clear you won’t admit it, but you weren’t a curious George posting a simple question.. it was an attempt to influence her bookings and soft launch a smear thread; providers or clients shouldn’t do that unless necessary. Like I said, it says more about you than the other way around. While I hear you, your suggestion on what we list on our ad or website isn’t up to you. I also read “score manipulator” somewhere which is a hilarious and woe-is-me attempt to reduce our autonomy and place your right to review above. Ive said my peace. With love - BH

hehitshewins 4 reads
posted
14 / 25
I got an idea

team_rocket_qwerty should just tell providers his TER username when booking. This way any who pay attention to the boards can decide if HE is not a match for them. Control what you can CONTROL and sometimes you get what YOU want.

cks175 51 Reviews 4 reads
posted
15 / 25
Dumb Idea

Her statement only makes sense to TER reviewers. It wouldn’t make sense to non TER members and would only serve to confuse them. Her website is created to attract a wide swath of clients, not to cater to the whims of a small minority (possibly singular) of TER forum readers.

Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 0 reads
posted
16 / 25
Sea kelp. -E-


END OF MESSAGE

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
17 / 25
"why are you telling others not to book her"?

Excuse me?

She said herself she wouldn't want to see a specific type of client and they shouldn't even contact her in the first place.  

 
I didn't launch a smear campaign on anything. If I see a seller state such a policy and feel strongly about something, I would think such policy could be found on the website too.

 
Nowhere did I tell people to not see her or have launched a smear campaign or influence her bookings . It's nothing personal at all too.

 
I want prospective clients to be aware of this policy. What is wrong with that?

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
18 / 25
Re: I got an idea - but why?

There is a reason people use aliases on this board, including yourself.

Why would I ever do this? The ability to stay anonymous enables me to say what I think without fearing for me getting doxxed. I'd like to keep it this way.  

 
A provider who posts under her business name, however, and feels strongly about specific clients not contacting her - I think this should be broadcast, no?

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 3 reads
posted
19 / 25
This is her statement

"And in fact, I'll push even further and say that anyone who perceives me in that manner and would broadcast those opinions, definitely don't try to book me a second time and kindly don't try to book me the first time. Don't reach out to me at all. Do leave me alone"

 

It clearly says don't reach out to me at all if you would broadcast those opinions. It's pretty pretty clear.

And I said OK, if that's your attitude let's see what ter says about this when you put this on your website.  

 

"Clearly she was saying she thinks all the sessions she delivers are worth more"

A sellers opinion on reviews written by paying customers is irrelevant. User reviews are for other users to peruse. Anyone can think they're worth anything, any provider can think she's Sydney Sweeney, it's not really relevant. In reviews,no such thing as worth. A seller is "worth" whatever the reviewer gave the seller. Fin.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
20 / 25
Re: tl;Dr - that I wont argue with

Now THAT I won't argue with

hehitshewins 2 reads
posted
21 / 25
It's Been Broadcast

And the person the broadcast was intended for received it. Now you know not to book her. Mission accomplished. No reason to add it to her website. What do you expect her to post, "If you're team_rocket_qwerty from TER don't book me." ? Sorry, but HER website is not all about YOU.

-- Modified on 6/25/2026 1:30:48 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
22 / 25
I didn't get the memo the message was for me and for me only

So no, I don't expect anything about me but rather the same statement she made on here to be put on her site.

I'm not the only person in existence on ter who has repeated with a provider whom we gave a six to.

 
Perhaps she should have been more clear and addressed me by name. But that's not what her statement read. It said "anyone". If this were addressed to me and only me, this thread wouldn't have been made

-- Modified on 6/25/2026 1:45:41 PM

hehitshewins 0 reads
posted
23 / 25
We Know Two Things

We know you were the only one in that thread, as well as this one, talking about giving out a 6 or lower to an ATF and repeating. We know she said that anyone who rates the way you just described not only should not see her a second time, but don't even bother booking her the first time. These are both in writing and the only absolutes. Anything else is how we choose to speculate. First focusing on the absolutes, her message is clearly intended for you.

 
Can we speculate that you are not the ONLY one who reviews this way? Sure. There's a likelihood you are not one of one. Based on the sample size in these two threads, however, I think there is also a fair argument that you, and whoever else out there may be like you, is in the far minority.

 
So, using the two things we know and what we can speculate, I think it's reasonable to conclude that minimally you were included in the "anyone" she was referencing. She did not use your name to insure anyone else who might be reading and thinking like YOU understood they too are being asked to not bother booking her. But, since we don't know for sure if they actually exist, the one and only thing we know is that the message is for YOU.

cks175 51 Reviews 1 reads
posted
24 / 25
Re: We Know Two Things (Excellent Breakdown)

One would think Rocket wasn’t so dense that he couldn’t realize he was the subject of the original post.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 0 reads
posted
25 / 25
Re: We Know Two Things

A thread is not representative of all the clients she might get.

 
So if she says "anyone" this means anyone. Yes, me included. But that message isn't fit me, it's for anyone who fits the criteria.  

Being a minority isn't a bad thing nor is it unusual.  

 
TER has some rules about reviews grade and providers interaction depending on scores, and I wanted to see if she would put her money where her mouth is, risking being chided by ter. I guess not.  

 
As long as her messaging includes the word anyone this means anyone who fits the criteria.  

 
"she said that anyone who rates the way you just described not only should not see her a second time, but don't even bother booking her the first time."

 
Yes exactly,  anyone who does this... so why not say this publicly? Broadcast it.  

This is the same issue as public negative reviews. Inability to take criticism. Okay, you can't take a criticism so we shouldn't book you second time, we shouldn't book you at all if we are gonna be critical.  

OK fine, so then dont be afraid to say it publicly. But some want to have their cake and eat it too.

If you are able to say it to anyone on the forum, why not say it publicly?

 
I will try to chase down every single seller who attempts to escape accountability and criticism.  

Have you noticed I have zero ssues stating things publicly, loud and clear ? Thats because I believe in what I stand for and I won't break my balls nor my word for anyone.

-- Modified on 6/25/2026 2:58:26 PM

Post Reply Back To Forum
Register Now!