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KJ5233 272 reads
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1 / 67

she is telling of the tale. "almost 1000"

Really...........

marikod 1 Reviews 478 reads
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2 / 67

I think Little Phil and GaGambler should start annotating these confessional posts so those of us who read the GD Board only once a week won't feel like we've missed the best episode of the year. I mean, you guys have lots of free time on your hands, don't you?

      Whatever happened, and leaving aside aside whether it is a good idea to go public with this kind of drama, credit to MP67 for being so open about his side of the story.

NoStalkerZone 503 reads
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3 / 67

You want to give him credit for that?

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 433 reads
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4 / 67

"So now I'm on the Blacklists and DNS lists.  
"Tell me I'm lying. Jane would tell Sue that Amy was a bitch.  
I don't care if your dog ran away."


 
 Anyone that reads you with clarity, realizes you say anything you are thinking, and sometimes  things you don't really mean, "even" when you are imbibing in spirits.
 If you PM, text, or call someone who does not  desire to hear your words it is simple to block your messages.  A few of the girly boys here have me on PM block, but not because of romance talk. If they figured out how to block, anyone can.
I don't suspect you have any resemblance to a stalker. A stalker would be constantly changing their number to make blocked contact again.  
The occasional board spammer I would agree, though the board sometimes needs a jump start.
I don't doubt your provider friend has hurt feelings over what you said, but putting you on a DNS list because of an outburst of your opinion because of  jealousy, is ridiculous, extremely childish ,and counter productive to the authenticity of DNS lists.
That sounds like someone who jumps in a Mosh pit and sues management when their shoulder is dislocated.
It looked like your apology was going good until you talked about Jane ,Sue, Amy, back stabbing. I was told we are not supposed to speak in public, of that rampant practice.
 I hope you will reconsider, if your friend no more, loses their dog. You should  find the compassion to help them look.
Everyone should have at least one friend they can count on , who won't turn their back on them, when others abandon .
Looking at the bright side until the DNS list cools down ,you could spend more time with civvie ladies, but you will likely have to cut back on drinking. Then again I would wager big money ,there are some fine ladies at AA meetings, looking to go on a binge.
 








ProvidersFriend 426 reads
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5 / 67

You didn't say you were disapointed..
You said she was a whore and that she was unsafe and disgusting. And THEN you emailed one of her friends...BEGGING her..

"Help me make this right"
"I just want to hear her say MIKEY one more time"
"I do not know what to do please help me"
"Is she ok..she will not reply to me"
"I'm so sorry that providers are bing attacked..I was wrong..It is all MY fault..I will ask for the post to be pulled"

And not only that...people should realize this ALL started because you do not agree with ladies seeing a certain "Almost 1000 reviewer"


Stalkerish much?? This has ALL come out bewteen the ladies...it's no secret.

This is just a wake up call to you... You need to calm down..you DID overstep your boundaries this time..and because of this time other times came to light. And finaly some providers are having the back bone to post it here instead of being scared of the General GENTLEMENS board.

Men post things on here ALL this time that are heresay..first time providers do it..it gets pulled. Great job helping us stay safe.

And why do you continue to bring it up and continue to repost about it.

QUIT DRINKING AND SHUT UP

JustPlainWRONG 311 reads
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6 / 67

"I didn't do anything wrong." Oh YES he did. he was verbally abusive to one of his "lady friends" for seeing a certain hobbyist. He treated her like dirt for doing so.

Pms, texts, phone calls to her for seeing a certain hobbyist??? Name calling? And this was yet another lady that took his late night calls, tried to placate him, tried to be his "friend" even though they lived on the other side of the country from each other.

Now he's back to "I didn't do anything wrong". Alot of people who can get abusive then turn around and deny their behavior.

Now I'm one who has been on the wrong end his one of his tirades. Pms, phone calls yelling obscenities and threatening my business.

Now it's time to let this go. The lady in question has moved on. Hopefully it will be his last time reposting about it.

This is my only post about this whole thing. I was just floored to see yet another thread started about it...again.

martythewall 36 Reviews 350 reads
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7 / 67
quadseasonal 27 Reviews 220 reads
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8 / 67

drunkenasian  "I could've busted three nuts in the time it took to write that shit"

  "if she is a real friend then she'll come around sooner or later. I can't imagine a friend holding grudges forever over this."


That's why I have no issues visiting providers,as soon as you leave the building.
They say you are done with your seconds, before she finds her first.
I'm not sure if that makes you a slow reader, or a quick visitor.
 
 I can't imagine "enemies" being so shallow, to hold grudges forever, over one's failure to contain painful emotional words.
 If she didn't consider him a friend before his mistake, it would have made no difference what he called her.
Anger and Jealousy will often expose truths we would rather conceal.

 If he didn't think highly of her, he wouldn't have felt jealousy or a need to protect.

 Everyone makes mistakes.

I do see her point. A good friend of mine heard from her GF, about me and another civvie lady friend having a NSA romp one night, the day after she broke up with her BF.
She told me I was a bigger whore than she thought. I laughed when she said it, but her tone and delivery, did hurt my feelings, much more than I would have imagined.

 There is always the chance, they will kiss and make up,........ after extended simmering.

I'm hoping my friend who called me a whore, will get over what someone told her, and find out for herself.






 

 

MP67 11 Reviews 2013 reads
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9 / 67

I didn't do anything wrong. This all started because I told a provider friend of mine that I thought what she did was gross. I didn't say she was, because she's not, by no means what-so-ever. We ALL do things we wouldn't ordinarily do for money. Doesn't matter if you're a provider or not.

Wait, I take that back. What she did, that I didn't like, was perfectly fine. In that I mean, it's her job. Whether or not she was attracted to him, or had a great time, which of course is fine too. I'm not her boyfriend, or her husband. I'm just a friend. Or at least I was. I had no right to judge her for her choices. I'll let it be known now I'm the worst because of this shit that transpired, as well as the fact I lost a dear friend. I'm sorry.

I admit, the way I went about it was equally, if not more, gross. I apologized to her, many times, but it was too far gone in her heart and mind. She never had to hear me tell her I was disappointed. THAT'S WHY we're here right now.

But I'm not sorry for the way I think. And if she couldn't handle it, maybe it was best we did part ways.

She got so fucking hurt she called up the cavalry. Or her friends did, what's the fucking difference?

Now, I'm labeled as a stalker and a time-waster, among other things. They're just words, because I know different.

Think about it. If I was such a problem with the ladies, why didn't it come up until now? I mean, all it takes is one fuck-up to ruin a guy's hobbying career, right? ESPECIALLY with the lady in question.

So now, supposedly, ALL these ladies have a problem with MP. 'He used to call me' or 'He used to text me' , whatever. Nevermind the fact 'I' get texts, and calls, and shit, from the ladies. And you have to understand, how the hell did I get these numbers? They were GIVEN to me by THEM.

Shit! Just yesterday I received 5 PMs and 1 phone call from providers. 1 PM was from a lady I know, 2 were asking for advice, 2 were from ladies responding to PMs I sent, answering theirs. The phone call was from a lady, told her what was going on, and she said 'fuck it. It's childish, Mike'.

I enjoy mine. I think it's cool a lady is thinking about you and took the time out of her day, or night,  just to say 'hi' and see how you're doing. But apparently it's a 'sin' if a guy does it to a lady.

So now I'm on the Blacklists and DNS lists. That sucks. But you know what? I'm not worrying too much about it, and I'll tell you why.

I have dates set up. Or at least, they told me whenever I come to town. I asked them if they wanted my referrences at first and they said no, they already screened me. I said cool.

Now, if I was such a problem, and I was a danger to the ladies, and you ladies knew this, why would you give an 'OK' when another 'sister' asked you about me for a future date with me? You would knowingly put one of your own, in a dangerous situation with a twisted mother-fucker? Damn.

Which brings me to my next deal....

Before two weeks ago, some of you ladies hated each other's guts. Tell me I'm lying. Jane would tell Sue that Amy was a bitch. Then Sue would tell Amy Jane was talking shit about her. Again, tell me I'm wrong?

Up until a couple weeks ago, some of you didn't give a flying fuck about each other. That was until a MAN came along and insulted one of you and the choices you made in your profession.

OMG! He's a drunk, and he calls at all hours, and he texts and PMs, and all that shit. We need to shut him down, and all the rest like him!

Let's see if this topic is still going on 2 months from now. And the BFF relationships that have developed between you ladies because of. I'll bet not.

So, after MY little rant, I'll ask again. If ANY of you ladies have a problem with me, and my supposed practices, please feel free to contact admin or the mods. Tell them you would appreciate that I don't anymore, or ever will, contact you in the future, in any way or form. Fucking simple.

I might be surprised by a few, and that's fine. It'll turn me on to what some people actually think of me that I thought different of.

And in the same respect, I don't want to hear back from YOU. I don't care if your house burned down. I don't care if your dog ran away. I don't care if you got arrested and needed bail money. Don't cry on my fucking shoulder, whether inperson or thru these electronic devices. We all make our choices, and have to live with the consequences whether good or bad. You cut me off, I'm gone. That's your choice. Live with it.  

You made it painfully obvious I'm not welcome in some of your worlds, so to speak. You didn't give me the respect to hear my side, so why should I give you the respect of listening to you?

As much shit as I've got, I've already blocked certain people. So please, help me to block more.

It ain't worth dealing with the haters. I'd much rather spend the time I have with the people that know different.  

So, take what you want from this. You're certainly not getting paid for it, so you're free to speak your mind without repercussions.  

But I highly doubt it. Like someone said earlier, most ladies are afraid to post, and that's a fucking shame.

Believe it or not, REALLY, I dig your posts and your thoughts. But that's just me...

Fucking peace! Do what you think is right in your heart. I know I will.

MP67

AllyMoore See my TER Reviews 342 reads
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10 / 67

Drama llama!

Its so embarrassing that you think your personal transgressions need be played out on a national level.  

Shtick is funny but MP67 you are posting like a complete buffoon.
...And just to be clear, I've read the accounts of drama and I think that if I were the provider(s) in question I would have just made a decision to create email, PM and phone filters to ignore whichever communication I didn't want.

She doesn't need your approval or judgement and you don't need her service.

Make a choice to maintain or else we're all forced to believe that all of the participants just love being irritated and personally, I can think of more pleasurable and productive ways to spend your life.

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 268 reads
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11 / 67

ProvidersFriend, "And not only that...people should realize this ALL started because you do not agree with ladies seeing a certain "Almost 1000 reviewer"

  Discretion has gone out the window.

  What does that tid bit have to do with the context of dispute or he said she said???.

 Everyone should be careful what they tell their friends.

Some things are  better left unspoken, no matter who we think needs to realize, often for reasons not evident.
  Talking too much works both ways, especially so, when TOO MUCH UNNECESSARY INFO is disclosed.

If what you say is true, I am perplexed why MP would know she had a date with him, or think she would not be safe, though I have no curiosity to ask him why he cares, or how he found out.
Perhaps pre conceived notions from cackling hens, giggling with gossipy hearsay?

I have met the guy more than once. From what I've seen, he is clean, articulate and well mannered.
I would trust him with my GF as long as I received a percentage.


 



cutehunkie 70 Reviews 375 reads
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13 / 67

If we knew, you'd have our support ... or maybe it's just normal for to do that for money.

hound_dog69 41 Reviews 257 reads
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15 / 67
martythewall 36 Reviews 339 reads
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16 / 67

till that stick pokes some one in the eye.  And yes they are like a pack of hungry wolves.  And yes they will still want a shoulder to cry on.  Love him or hate him He is Mp.  Ladies If he irritates you tell him so and to stop.  If he does not then call out the guns.  I did read some of the post last week. Not sure if they are still there.  Sounded like a normal break up but with MP intensity.

mookie58 18 Reviews 260 reads
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17 / 67
DGL17 9 Reviews 288 reads
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18 / 67

didn't go well for Charlie...

inicky46 61 Reviews 406 reads
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19 / 67
justajohn123 362 reads
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20 / 67

This sounds like what happened to me a while ago,except I never got blacklisted, she tried, but people knew better and saw through her bullshit. Anyway,a girl I use to frequent a lot (about $40k-50k a year went to her).anyway this one time I saw her and she told me what she was doing after me, about 7 guys with huge levels (you can Guess what  site this was on from Levels.and these were all sleezeballs who would use there level 5 bs to get naive girls to do what they wanted) had gotten together and talked her into basically seeing all  of them for like $50 each for an hr. Now when you get to know someone, you can usually tell when they are uncomfortable with things, and this girl had the most nervous laugh. She even asked me if she should do it. My response was, no, but I have no right to tell you what you can or can't do.so she went through with it. mikeys right, even if you wouldn't normally do something, money is usually enough motivation. Now obviously I know what this girl did for a living,i was always there when she had a rough day and would be willing to hear it and the drama with certain clients.  But that act completely changed the way I looked at her. Yes,i did stop seeing her in that way, but I was still a "friend". Well what I found out is when you ain't paying to fuck, that "friendship" goes out the door rather quickly. Don't get me wrong she would still ask for shit, like rides, and want to talk about her shitty days, but me just saying hi, well that became a sin as she would ask are you gonna sesh, even though she already knew the answer. So I said to fuck with it and learned a lesson, don't ever blur the lines here, not even as a "friend".and now I live by that rule, cause it really sucked on the day I told her I can't do it anymore, there was bitching and whining in her part, and she busted out some tears. I told her plain and simple things changed back when you did that thing. I told her she would have to live with whatever happened. I think she was just pissed cause about $40k stopped going to her and she knew I was seeing other girls, she even got jealous at one point. Moral of the story, and a nice little saying, if a friendship can end, you were never really friends in the first place.

Ladies,i know most of you won't do this, but if you got a client who you at least treat as a friend who you get Along with great, who you open up to because you trust them, and who gives you a good percentage of what you make a year, just a tip, take into consideration the cost and benefits of doing something for the quick cash, when there is a possibility you may lose out on a substantial portion  of your income. Or just don't bring it up.  For me I am done with even the idea of a friendship with a provider, just fuck, have a good time, and leave.  I don't want to know there personal shit, and my shoulder  is worn out.

NobodyCares 401 reads
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21 / 67

You're even more ridiculous than the dipshit OP! Stop posting.

DrunkenKunt 295 reads
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22 / 67

SHUT THE FUCK UP!

See, wasn't that easier?

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 345 reads
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followme 346 reads
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24 / 67

dipshits what was your last dip, bull or chicken?


2011 = 28

beenthere255 11 Reviews 373 reads
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MP67 11 Reviews 328 reads
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26 / 67

And being a dog lover, of course I would bend on that rule if infact a lady had a dog. ;)

mrfisher 115 Reviews 203 reads
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martythewall 36 Reviews 322 reads
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28 / 67

unless your calling liar, STFU, these are life lessons on both sides that we need to hear and want to hear or we would not waste the time of day being here.  For the guys it is that it is really about the sex and when we make a connection it feels much better.  Sooner or later it goes bad.  For the girls, it is really about the money and we guys will believe you to be a friend until it goes bad, that is just how we work.  I have met way more vindictive women that men. That is just my experience. It works the same way with strippers and bartenders when the money dries up so does the talk and text.

martythewall 36 Reviews 396 reads
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29 / 67

Sometimes the word fits.  I do not know the specifics, but I have seen and met both whores and cunts.
Those words might sting but sometimes they ring true.  By your account MP tried to mend fences but they seamed beyond repair.  Yes maybe the sleeping dog should be left alone, but sometimes you just have to say your piece.  Did he call her out by name or was it a normal MP vent.  If He called by name that’s wrong.  If it was a vent that’s what this board is for.  
One more thing ladies, We all know MP can be an ass and I don't think that anyone here would hold it against you for saying so, so why the alias? Hell it might even make some of us want to see you more.

ProvidersFriend 471 reads
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30 / 67

Not called for...

And the last time providers DID use their names and post about this..the thread got pulled cause poor pittiful Mikey got his feelings hurt.

MP67 11 Reviews 163 reads
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31 / 67
Rocket203 169 reads
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32 / 67

You make a great point he thinks very highly of her and may even have place her on a pedestal.

But u have to respect a guy that speaks his mind no matter what, but this was one of those times mp should have kept his opinions and thoughts to himself. As sometimes u might mean well as i believe he did. But you might offend the person u care so much for.

From what i partially know about the situation i would have felt disappointed but kept it to myself. Mistake was made by not keeping this in house.

My 0.02

martythewall 36 Reviews 316 reads
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34 / 67

But sometime you call it like you see it.  I do look at who providers see,  to see how far they will go.  I will read their reviews and their reviewers other reviews to get a feeling of what she is like.  If I have a casual relationship and these topics come up I would give advice based on my feelings.  Kind of like you do not want your sister to date who you know is an asshole.  Yes this is business but if you are on a level to discuss who your thinking about seeing on either side, It is game on as to the emotions.

little phil 37 Reviews 442 reads
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36 / 67

You & I have discussed this via PM.  I never consulted Mike before pulling.  In fact, YOU were the first person that I contacted.  IMHO, what he did was stupid, and depending who's side you believe maybe worse.  If I was so concerned about his feelings, why would I allow this topic to keep puking back up?

If you want to be pissed, at least get your facts straight!

guy69696969 2 Reviews 298 reads
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38 / 67

and I for one LOVE SLUTS!!!!!!!

Hell, I'm a SLUT!!!!!!

and proud of it!!!!

Susquehanna61 18 Reviews 396 reads
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42 / 67


Have you ever stopped to consider how much of this board's bandwitdth you consume?

I've got no dog (no pun intended) in this fight, and rarely post here, but this is WAY beyond the point of ridiculous.  WAAAYYY beyond...

I don't think a helpful member of any community shits on every streetcorner.  The perpetual "I'm fuckin' Mikey and I'll fuckin' do and fuckin' say what the fuck ever fuckin' Mikey wants....know what I fuckin' mean?" might have had some novelty early on.

That novelty began to flake off like paint chips at first, but lately it's coming off like granite blocks, and what was once a quirky/funny thing to behold has become a perpetual unnatural disaster.

It's a rare thread that doesn't suffer at the hands of your melodrama...give the community a break.

Peace.

little phil 37 Reviews 313 reads
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43 / 67

I'm sure that you're not so stupid as to have missed that I'm commenting on your continued whining that the original post was pulled because I was sticking up for MP67.  I told you via PM what my concern was.  Get over it.

A` See my TER Reviews 368 reads
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ItalianGabriella See my TER Reviews 478 reads
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45 / 67

And then you kids can go back to playing in your sandbox. And the peanut gallery can go back to busting nuts.

This should have been no one else's business, but whiny-pants had to go and bring attention to himself once again, and get sympathy from whatever friends he still has here.

I met MP back in the summer or fall I think it was, when he was out here for a weekend. Had an appointment. Everything went fine. Stayed in touch from there. Didn't think it was a big deal. I was aware that he had overstepped boundaries with other ladies, and been a nuisuance, but he had not done anything to me so far and so I gave him the benefit of the doubt.  

A couple of weeks ago, I did a quick tour to Baltimore. One night while at the hotel bar, I was texting back and forth with MP. I was playing around with him and saying how I ran into someone quite interesting and basically saying things giving MP a hard time. All in fun, so I thought.

MP started acting weird from that point on, and started nosing around so it would seem. He then found that a review from Beefeater500 popped up on my profile. I did indeed visit with beefeater500 during my tour. MP assumed that is who I was talking about in my texts. But it was NOT. He then proceeded to harass me nonstop. Phone calls, emails, texts, PMs. I was disgusting for having seen Beefeater, he would never touch me again, how dare I, etc etc. Talking shit nonstop.

And so the overstepping boundaries thing comes in to effect. I didn't ask him to nose around my reviews. I didn't ask for his opinion on who I saw or didn't see. As I've said to other people about 20 times now, its a whole new kind of double standard bullshit. Beefeater chooses to review everyone he sees, and that is his perogative. Doesn't mean he is the only guy to see a lot of girls. MP wants to say I'm disgusting for seeing him, but what the fuck was I doing before that? I could have sworn I was already a whore. But I guess now I'm officially one, and he felt he needed to take it upon himself to let me know. Double standard. MP does not pay my bills, he is not my boyfriend, nor my husband, etc. So I don't need his or anyone elses opinion on what the fuck I do. Beefeater was an appointment just like any other. (I'll also add that he was a very polite, clean cut gentleman, and was a pleasure to meet. )

MP's name was brought up privately, and as this drama had just happened, I chimed in and let other girls know about what I had just dealt with. I've had NOTHING to do with any ensuing fallout. I've not posted ONE comment on the general board, alias or otherwise. The mods can confirm that.  My drama with him was confronted privately, and he has not bothered me since then. And I've stayed out of it. And I have nothing else to say about it. OTHER people have kept this shit going.

So... please feel free to go back to your assumptions, your opinions and your bashing on both sides. I'm really fucking tired of everyone but myself being involved in discussing my business. I didn't bring it here, your favorite drunk punching bag did. I've said my piece, and I'm now going to go back to *real life*. I'm not going say anything bad about MP, because I don't think he is an evil person. I just think he is fucked up and has demons just like the rest of us. But I will make sure that before people judge me, that they know the whole story.

***Commense playing in the sandbox, beating up manginas at the flagpole, picking your boogers, giving wedgies and whacking off to the hot teacher. Its entertaining, really.***



LuckyIrishPrick 6 Reviews 335 reads
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46 / 67

I like Tacos. And I know everyone was dying to know that. Yeah, bitches - TACOS.

Hey...does pushing the elevator button repeatedly really make it come faster? Just wondering.

Oh, and "Sun Drop" - that fake ass Mountain Dew that just came out - really really SUCKS ass. If you girls think swallowing jizz is nasty, try a few swigs of this donkey piss - will probably make cum taste like chardonnay by comparison.

Hold on, I have to scratch my ass.... ok I'm back. That was nice.

I had a dream that I was fucking Mila Kunis in the ass while she licked Halle Berry's shoe. Hmmmm.

Is there any color combo more awesome than Red and Black? Huh? I think not.

I just saw a few minutes of a Kung-Fu theatre rerun. It made me think of this thread, and all others like it. You know - lips moving but ain't sayin' shit?

It's a fucking whore board. Ya'll take yourselves SOOOO seriously.

LIP tip of the day - the best way to get your mind off of pussy is to BUST A NUT. Get sum - mothafuckaaaaaazzzz.  

Peace and hair grease, you jive ass turkeys.

HalfHour 252 reads
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HalfHour 283 reads
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49 / 67

Probably one of the clearest, straight-forward "my side  of the story" things I've read.

Thank you!

:)
HalfHour

HalfHour 255 reads
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50 / 67

You let the cat outa the bag! Proly 'fore BJ could clcik to read my post only to have an ironic taste of his own folly!

It's all good.

;)
HalfHour

martythewall 36 Reviews 339 reads
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51 / 67

this bad.  You sure can tell though when is a bad hair day for MP.

justajohn123 301 reads
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52 / 67

Definitions of whore on the Web:

   * work as a prostitute
   * have unlawful sex with a whore
   * compromise oneself for money or other gains; "She whored herself to Hollywood"
   * prostitute: a woman who engages in sexual intercourse for money
     wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

Just thought i'd help things along :D
if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck... just saying. we here like to sugarcoat things, and give cute, fun names to things. it is what it is.
i give cute fun names too and never call a girl that, but again, it is what it is no matter what we call it
don't get butt hurt over it, just accept it

justajohn123 257 reads
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53 / 67

oh, and i am not saying its a bad thing either.
sluts give it away, whores are smart enough to charge for it ;)

scoed 8 Reviews 330 reads
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54 / 67

MP I am your friend, so I am telling you this as a friend. Let this drop. You said your side of the story and others have said theirs. Guess what, neither side is winning friends. All this is doing is making everyone involved look extremely stupid.

MP, I know you are upset, you have lost a friend and that hurts. But continuing to bring this up is making things worse for all involved. You are hurting your former provider friend, and you are hurting yourself. There can not be a winner in this as there is nothing but he said she said, and no one wins those kinds of battles. Everyone loses in those situations.

I do believe things where handled poorly on both sides. MP you admitted you have done wrong and I also believe reading the posts of your accusers that wrong has been done to you by them. But as your friend, I am asking you to drop it.

Now to MP's accusers are you trying to hurt your so called friend? You are not doing her any favors. Because of you we know who it was that MP was referring to in MP's first thread on this. Because of your disclosing of personal information a tread that stated your case got pulled. You are looking as bad a MP is in this and maybe even worse as he never leaked personal information is that what you want?

This is the 4th thread (one of which was pulled) devoted to the subject. In addition it was used as an example in anther and invaded 4 to 5 others that started out having nothing to do with it. Can we all agree that enough is enough?

Matters like this are best settled by those directly involved and not on a stage like this. As a board can we agree at leased that is true and let those involved fix things or not fix things themselves?

I tried to mostly ignore this as this whole mess is clearly blown out of proportion but it has shown no signs of stopping so I couldn't any longer. This will be my last post on the subject.

Scoed


KJ5233 151 reads
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KJ5233 236 reads
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I think if that happened, she was encourage by friends.

KJ5233 293 reads
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57 / 67

common sense post. Well put and I totally agree.

Nuff said

inicky46 61 Reviews 263 reads
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58 / 67

Thanks for the rare dose of wisdom on this board, Scoed.

dantananot 12 Reviews 203 reads
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dantananot 12 Reviews 166 reads
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discretion is the better part of valor.  i'm trying to figure out whether this is a musical comedy or an opera.

Posted By: Rocket203
You make a great point he thinks very highly of her and may even have place her on a pedestal.

But u have to respect a guy that speaks his mind no matter what, but this was one of those times mp should have kept his opinions and thoughts to himself. As sometimes u might mean well as i believe he did. But you might offend the person u care so much for.

From what i partially know about the situation i would have felt disappointed but kept it to myself. Mistake was made by not keeping this in house.

My 0.02

beenthere255 11 Reviews 285 reads
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63 / 67

MP's rant made no sense.  Gabriella's explanation seems very sensible and plausible.  If even half of what she says is true, MP is clearly way out of line.  

MP:  I don't even know you, but: She's not your girlfriend, dude.  She's a businessperson and you are a client.  Leave her alone.  Are you freaking out because your tax preparer is doing a zillion returns this week?  Do you get mad at the supermarket checkout lady if she chats with other customers or sells cookies to fat people?  Are you fretting because your lawyer might be defending a guilty client or two?  Do you send these people text messages telling them how to run their businesses?  No?  Then why are you doing it with sexual service providers?

In any case -- so what if she had sex with a guy who had sex with 1000 women?  You've probably had sex with women that have had sex with 1000 guys.  Where's your judgement?



scoed 8 Reviews 233 reads
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64 / 67
beenthere255 11 Reviews 251 reads
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65 / 67

It sounds like you are saying that MP should be forgiven because even though he is annoying, anyone with sense knows how to ignore him.


Posted By: quadseasonal
"So now I'm on the Blacklists and DNS lists.  
"Tell me I'm lying. Jane would tell Sue that Amy was a bitch.  
I don't care if your dog ran away."


 
 Anyone that reads you with clarity, realizes you say anything you are thinking, and sometimes  things you don't really mean, "even" when you are imbibing in spirits.
 If you PM, text, or call someone who does not  desire to hear your words it is simple to block your messages.  A few of the girly boys here have me on PM block, but not because of romance talk. If they figured out how to block, anyone can.
I don't suspect you have any resemblance to a stalker. A stalker would be constantly changing their number to make blocked contact again.  
The occasional board spammer I would agree, though the board sometimes needs a jump start.
I don't doubt your provider friend has hurt feelings over what you said, but putting you on a DNS list because of an outburst of your opinion because of  jealousy, is ridiculous, extremely childish ,and counter productive to the authenticity of DNS lists.
That sounds like someone who jumps in a Mosh pit and sues management when their shoulder is dislocated.
It looked like your apology was going good until you talked about Jane ,Sue, Amy, back stabbing. I was told we are not supposed to speak in public, of that rampant practice.
 I hope you will reconsider, if your friend no more, loses their dog. You should  find the compassion to help them look.
Everyone should have at least one friend they can count on , who won't turn their back on them, when others abandon .
Looking at the bright side until the DNS list cools down ,you could spend more time with civvie ladies, but you will likely have to cut back on drinking. Then again I would wager big money ,there are some fine ladies at AA meetings, looking to go on a binge.
 








little phil 37 Reviews 284 reads
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66 / 67

Everyone has had plenty of opportunity to piss, moan and carry on.  The provider in question has had her chance to speak, and honestly I practically begged her to do so.  She has, so we're done.

Any further posts will be pulled and the poster moderated.

EOMFreak 260 reads
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