I'm been a hobyist for about 8 months now, and have seen a total of 7 providers. 6 out of 7 were good experiences, but that got me thinking about the provider life style. I'm curious to here from providers as to do they have a little black book (or whatever color you choose ) of favorite clients. If you do what puts someone at the top of the list ? Looks, Gifts, Bedroom Skills, How often you see them ? Are there ever actual feelings involved for certain clients or are they all pretty much the same ? From the providers I've seen, I can't help but think the compliments there giving me are the same compliments there giving the next guy, and the guy after that, and, well you get the picture.I'm really curious about where looks of a client falls on the list. Do you actually see a person or is it just getting the job done.Thanks for the help !!!!

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being an asshole is so much more fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but that doesn't mean that you can't be right every once in a while. lmao

Here's to having fun!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Most providers are adjusted, I feel, and treat it for what it is. That means that they will treat you well if you do the same for them. But you are a client whether that is for an hour, two or overnight. You provide what they are looking for and that is the cash. The compliments may be genuine but for the most part they are paid to make you feel good and keep you coming back for more.  

Sometimes there is more. You will read it on these boards. But little black books, don't count on it.

Answers to the list of questions.....

1. I do have favorites
2. Cleanliness, respecting boundaries and not to demanding
3. Weekly and bi monthly
4. No emotional attachment on my part
5. It is a job and I treat/talk to/etc. my guys as I would like to be treated etc. They are grown men and hopefully they know what this is. Not my problem if they don't.  
6. Looks do not count as far as I am concerned. I am getting paid well to NOT consider looks or performance.
7. I see a person and get the job done, it's what I am paid to do after all.

I only have issue with # 5...and that is it can easily become YOUR problem when some moron thinks this is something more than P4P.

Shit...2 trainwrecks in 2 days in Chicago from a moron named cosmicangst who has breached more boundaries than you can shake a stick at.

But it's good to post that drivel and have the lurkers read and understand just what this is really all about.  

But there's always some starry eyed dude who thinks you gals love him...and then he may indeed be a serious PITA or worse.

Or so I hear  

physically drained.  
        Some people replenish your energy stores and you feel good after spending time with them, Others you may feel exhausted after or just down on yourself depending on how they treat you and behave in bed. I like the ones that leave and i am happier than i was before seeing them and feel energized. I don't care as much about donation amount but meeting clients i really connect with and enjoy as people .Anything that makes life enjoyable and if this is my full time job it is making up a large portion of how my life is being lived and how it is being spent.  
                  I WILL look forward to the ones that leave me drained and useless for several days if the donation is good enough. ... But ones that show for the minimum donation menu option then still attempt to take all your life force.............  
 Your always in control of your own energy and how you chose to use it up or not use all it up.  
                                          The ones that I feel like  I just had a good time too .  
 There are a few I look forward to thier is one I get nervous to see i like so much, What a fuckin dork.....................He knows too because i tell him when i see him, I wish he was single,,,,,,,,,,,,,,