Be careful and screen well ladies, there are some sick A-holes out there....

Please ladies screen us!  We expect it and we appreciate it!  This world is full of sick people, and you need to protect yourselves from them.  I know most of you screen thoroughly, please keep it up.  If your customer traffic slows down, you can not reduce your screening to help business. You ladies mean a lot to us, you are the only reason we are all here.

Please be careful out there.

BLG

I always thought that was a "good part of town".

knock it off.

These ladies put their lives on the line, EACH AND EVERY time they open the door.  and you wonder.  a few sickos???  ever wonder how many marginal folks there are in the world?  TONS.

Something like this should remind us all that our hobby is not just illegal - IT IS DANDEROUS - for the ladies and the gents.

Which I why I truly love those in this hobby I meet who are honest, good, and lovely folks - Men and women.

And yes, sometimes it does have the appearance of a high school football locker room mentality... but think back to that.... it was indeed innocent - and no one was killed.

Would screening have saved this lady's life?  I don't know, but I do know that had she some concept of the guy's identity, and it were entrusted to a safe friend, the cops would know where to start the search for this creep....  

Ladies, please do your homework.... it keeps you (and us) safe.

May I humbly suggest hanging...  by his b*lls.  
skb

I agree 110%. Screening is essential to our safety and if someone does not like it , no problem....but look elsewhere.No exceptions.

Thanks for putting that out there,dude.

A well-known truth; criminals go after the easy mark. Thorough screening, on the lady's part, makes certain she is not the easy mark. So, guys, yes you've got a lot to lose if your information is mishandled, but at least it's not your life. Going with a very well reviewed lady helps insure your information remains safe.

I thought the same thing when some asshole killed a bar girl type provider in his hotel room at Mandalay Bay in Vegas a couple years ago. These things can't happen at upscale hotels, right? I think this is another terribly sad incident that shows that knowing who you're seeing has to be more important than the location.

That's the sad part, it IS the good part of town!  Not to take away from the tragic death of a young woman but the trend here is what is alarming. The violence is "movin' on up" because the proliferation of sloppiness, laziness and greed on both sides of the hobby is spreading from the seedy suburban "no-tell motels" to the higher-end properties.  

We of course have no way of knowing if or how much this poor woman was screening but the proliferation of stings against both hobbyists and providers as well as the escalation of robbery and violence against women in this business drives-home the inescapable importance of proper and thorough screening.

What a freaking nut-case. I am sure there is a special place in hell for creeps like that. It is freaks like this that "jade" providers and us normal and horny guys suffer. I always make it a point to show a provider that I have nothing but love for her after I enter the door. I make sure she is comfortable and "ok" before I get comfortable. Guys, take care of your girls.

These types usually strike again, so there may be more bad news coming.    FWIW, the article did mention CL...why am I not surprised?

I agree about screening...it protects not just the ladies, but us guys as well...

It's a shame as that could be any 1 of us girls on here , Does anyone know wwho she is?

Ladies this isn't a stranger's fate. She was one of us. It can happen to anybody despite all the precautions that we may take. Rest in Peace, whoever you are.

Absolutely. I make sure I get a full legal name and I check..phone number, hotel name, room number and anything else I think might be useful in case something happens and this gets passed on to a reliable source and only until I have checked in and called again when home does it get removed.

If I don't get heard from, then Mr. Wrong just made a big mistake.

Yes I agree! tex..

The more I think about it the more I conclude that none of us are safe from someone who want to do someone harm.  

As much as we screen or read rviews because of what we do is underground, we are targets for someone like this fool.  A friend of mine was robbed by the BF of a well reviewd provider.  He never suspected that she set him until they caught the guy and connected him to her.  Ladies screen on the most part screen for the LE, so they ID but if someone set to rob them like this fool, once the door is opened, ID does not matter.  

Verification lessens our risk but the risk is their.

I get the Boston station here...  Police are investigating the link (Ya Think?) between this & that of another CL Massage girl, assaulted & robbed.  The difference is this girl was MURDERED!  

skb

I have had 4 calls today alone from men who in no way want to be screened at all. Hate to be blunt but Fuck that. Yes we all want discretion but I see it as my life saver always have and always will.  I am not taking chances so some guy does not have to worry about who he saw. Do your research and you would know if shes well reviewed she will not burn you for the most part. This is a risky business to begin with even if you screen like crazy. If screening freaks you out, you are in the wrong hobby.

care for a lady's screening, he should move on.  A lady's safety comes first!

doesn't like what the lady is requiring, he should move on.  I don't know about the rest of you (guys and ladies), but I sure would like to live many more years.

One thing I find funny is when they say we should get references from the guys themselves, but I recall when I once applied for a job at a big Fortune 500 company, I used fake references to get the job. However, when I took a call from a prospect, I simply "googled" his name, and all sorts of crap came up. Fortunately, I did that, which helped me out since I found out that the guy was a scamster. I think the girls need to resort to google or check references from OTHER LADIES THAT THEY KNOW rather than relying on references from the "women" whom the guy could be pulling out of a hat.

I am sooo angry about all of this I just want to scream..

Ok grant you, how we screen is our business..But I have to say I have become much more thorough in my process since I started.  I have done LOTS of homework and now have a very good plan in place that EACH guy goes through.  

What upsets me the most is to find out that some girls don't screen and why is that??? Trust me I hear it more than you can know.  It is the ladies responsibility to do her homework and find what is comfortable for her.  Do I use references, absolutely.  Do I trust that alone, NOPE....It is nothing against the ladies I am getting references from, but it is my responsibility to keep me safe so that I can come home to my loved ones and my friends.  Oh yes, some guys don't want to go through it or say "you ask for too much".  Yea right, what I ask for is basic information that most, NOT all, girls ask for.  

Guys be very very happy you are getting screened.  It shows she cares about herself and YOU!!!!!

Sorry for the rant, this is just all hitting home for me tonight.

Bella

I just need a good stiff drink right now..grrrrr

there are soo many different things us ladies can do to screen.

I actually had a new client today that confided in me he was watching me for months, but was concerned as he is a high profile guy in the community.  I chatted with him and helped him with his comfort level.  My process was painless.

Before he left he thanked me high and low for screening him and doing what I do. He stated he has contacted many other ladies in the area and found that not one of them was as diligent as me.  He felt safe with me after some time and seeing my reviews enough to allow me his personal information.  He is now not a newbie, lol.

But we had a blast and he truly is a sweet guy. I now have a new friend...

If a lady does not screen you, move on..and if a guy won't give you what you need the lady needs to move on too... It's not worth it to anyone.  We all deserve to go home to our families and our friends.

Bella

Boston I understand what you mean by good part of town.  But unfortunately that can lead Providers and Hobbyists to a false sense of security.  There is NO substitute for screening.  

If a Hobbyist can't be verified then a Provider should not entertain the guy no matter how much money she needs. It is just not worth it.  The same for guys.  If there are no reviews put you D--- back in your pants and get a reviewed Lady.

Unfortunately due to these economic times every Ass---- and their brother or sister thinks that this life can be a quick way to make money.  Whether guys robbing girls or girls doing the bait and switch.  Let's face it those of us in this life are easy marks, if we don't screen.  It is not like we can call the cops and say I was just ripped off.

We would all do well if we go by the old US Govt statement "Trust but verify"

Play safe.

PLEASE screen appropriately! Making a few bucks isn't worth your life. You know this!!!

Be safe, ladies.

M

agree... and more and more I am just not willing to see newbies lately.   I know it's difficult to get started as a hobbyist,and for that, I feel for you.  
Not only is it less and less safe with the despiration the economy has put the average person into, all this publicity from all those shows on prostitution have glamorized the financial gains and put ideas in the heads of those seedy enough, and looking to take advantage of someone they percieve as at a disadvantage physically to them. We to them are easy marks.  We are alone with them, many do not screen and they think since we are operating
underground so to speak we won't call LE if we are hurt robbed raped or worst. That whole myth that she was a whore, can't rape a whore...is BS.
Plus many New hobbyists saw the shows and entered this world, they are a whole different breed of hobbyist. Not all but some. They are more disrespectful, condiscending  rude and no they DO NOT want to be screened. It has added even more danger into this business if you ask me. I see only those who can and are willing to jump through all the screening hoops I feel I need to ensure MY safety. They don't get it and don't want to get it. Personally, since CSNBC put out their show and showed it over and over and over again it has hurt the quality of many of the newer hobbyists entering this experience. They clearly are not all this way but I have noticed a huge difference.
In the end I care mostly and above all else for my safety comfort levels.  If you are uncomfortable with my screening...move on!

sorry about the on and on rant. I had more to say than I thought. lol

stay safe everyone.

That was pretty much my point. By "good" Keystone and I both meant that you can walk down the street at night without much fear of random acts of violence and there are nice stores, hotels and restaurants in the area. None one with half a brain on either side of this hobby should assume that getting a room in a nice hotel is a substitute for good screening practices.  

Sadly we will never know what precautions this lady took in trying to protect herself.

And I though I was the only one who used the buddy system... ;0)

I always have a source on call that knows to call me when I am supposed to arrive and when I should be back on the road. They have the clients name, contact info, location details, etc.

Once I return, it's all destroyed, but if I miss the third call from then... then they are ordered to unleash hell.

*big grins*

Ladies, ALWAYS have someone looking out for you. It's WELL WORTH the reveal to have a trusted and true friend looking out for you.

~Bella

I wish more players understood the win-win of rigorous screening the way you do.

If you are even in Houston, be sure to give me a shout.  

~Bella

Sadly many would be hobbyist are afraid ever since the DC Madam Case and the Spitzer case. Many do not trust if push comes to shove, a provider would do what the DC Madam tried to do, sell her client list to raise money.  I bet these guys call around until they get a provider willing to see them.  I say to them from someone who have a job that an arrest would make the local news if you can't stand the risk, get out of the kitchen

I love it when a girl plays hard to get. But seriously Please take extra care out there and after they catch this guy don't let your guard back down. We love and respect each and everyone of you and this guy will pay for this.