As for putting the pussy on lock down, the flaw in that logic is that it assumes you can't go anywhere else to get laid.  But we all know that isn't true.

So instead of begging your pissed off wife or GF to have motionless sex with you, your punishment is that you have to have sex with an attractive woman you just met that wants to show you a good time.  In what bizarro world is that punishment?

When will women ever learn, that we men are sexual creatures by nature.  

SOs' & Wives' getting pissed with us men for whatever reason, then putting the booty on lock down for a couple of weeks to teach us a lesson, does only one thing.  

It results in the birth of Hobbyist Agent ID: Magic4u.

Phase II is to catch you and then sue your ass off in divorce court.

But you know what?  It's worth it.

You can't put a price on freedom.

I love it when they pretend they are too tired. I get up early the next day and see a provider before going to work.

But divorce does have a way of doing that to me.

There are some plusses to marriage:  I have two great kids that I wouldn't have if I hadn't married; and there were some very nice times too.

But then there comes a time, and all good things must end eventually.

Women's continual efforts to change their men remind me of those cartoon mice, pinky and the brain always failing to take over the world.

"what are we gonna do tonight brain?"
"same thing we do every night pinky, try to take over the world."

There will not be a Mrs. Vegas_Webmaster anytime soon...

One was enough....

looks like i made a mess of
the board. sorry fellas
my husband likes to say alcohol
isnt for everyone. who cares
what your husband thinks

drinks are on me everybody
except mike of course i only
have a couple hundred dollars
on me haha

Some women don't know how men tick....there will learn it one day!

Lock down for just a few weeks? Hell, I lived the lockdown for a couple of years before I just stopped asking her for it. I have shagged the wife on occasion over the last couple of years, the last time a couple of weeks ago. There was a real "Meh" moment when I finished, and I have no real intention of touching her in a sexual manner ever again. I've been hobbying for three years now, been with about 7 or 8 providers, and over the next month will be seeing 4 or 5 new ones. Yeah, I am paying for it, but the women are attractive, at least pretend to be into it, and give fantastic BJs.  Now, where's my party hat???

Hum.. As I type this I remember quickly my own divorce..

We are not all devious, sneaky and mean spirited..opps wait.. only until you piss me off!

All jokes aside.. We should all learn to communicate better.

I have and will always maintain 1 simple rule...Married or with a SO

"Whats good for you is good for me"

almost daily i hear "you're
juussssttttt right" hehe

There is waay too much pussy out there for any one pussy to be able to make rules for me, at least no rules that I will actually follow of course.

and your definition of divorce is completely different than mine as well. Divorce was definitely a "win" for me, it has given me 17 years of freedom and still counting.

Pussy doesn't make any rules for me, not anymore at least. I am more a believer in the "golden rule" and I am sure you know what that is.

why would i wish to "rule" someone?
the sooner women get over that myth
the sooner harmony may exist. i don't
want anyone to kiss my butt because
i'm female. are we equal or not?

even when I agree with you, I hate your fucking posts.

Don't you have anyone else to practice on?

Lady: May I help you? Pinky: Yes, we would like to have relations with you, and steal some Milk Duds.
-lady and Pinky


Really when are we women just going to accept men for who they are?

Kisses

When I was married, I got the same thing: Booty Lockdown - from HIM! It makes a gal question her femininity and sexuality, so I responded by "going back to work" to reset my self-esteem. Once I had successfully conquered Bay Street, we divorced. Obviously.

Single ever since, and successful, too.

It's not a partnership if one party withholds sex. It's a slave setup.

-- Modified on 8/28/2011 11:49:10 AM

It was late one evening, and I was on the internet watching porn, I was getting excited, and had the speakers on a bit loud. I was masturbating to the internet porn and my SO walked in. She said, "what r u doing", I told her, "what you think I was doing". I went to bed and she was yapping at me, telling me that its a form of cheating. A form of cheating? WTH!! How is this cheating? I don't know, she was crazy.

Anyways, she gave me an ultimatum, if she catches me masturbating to internet porn, she'll won't let me have sex with her for a period of time. And I gave her an ultimatum, "To get the fuck out of my life!" that crazy bitch. That is why I don't date intelligent bimbos anymore, too much liberation, feminism, too much advices from her ugly unattractive low self esteem friends, too much yapping of the mouth, everything I did she objected too, she had to go. I didn't feel like a man in that relationship, felt more like a child. She thought she can control me, what a bimbo. She probably got away with that in the past with other manginas, but not me.

Re: ultimatums and all such things - - -
Divorce is just "throwing in the towel".  That's not winning that's quitting.

Aren't you forgetting the 1st rule of boy/girl sexual relationships?
That being "The One With The Pussy Makes The Rules".

A quick and painless bullet between the eyes should do the trick. lol

and you know me better than to call what I said to him an "attack", When I attack, I leave no doubt. lol

Honestly though, can you really stand his incessant psychobabble? Your most drunken posts still make more sense than the best of the crap that oozes from his keyboard.

Withholding sex as a way to exercise control is a mistake.  It leads of course to resentment, and often to painful feelings of rejection.  

The key of course is good communication, in which people describe how they feel, without attacking their partner.

It is very helpful if each partner can work on their own issues, and understand that their partner is not responsible for their issues.  Basically, take ownership of your own issues.

...had damn well better be supplying it.

you cannot claim a monopoly on something you are not actually providing.

i think the only possible exception would be in the months during and just after pregnancy, because women are a vortex of hormones and often have very fragile self esteem during that time.

just one girl's opinion.

And sometimes it IS winning.

'The key of course is good communication, in which people describe how they feel, without attacking their partner. '

Uh oh, you attacked him!  lol

I couldn't agree with you more.


HalfHour

... to the amount of trite psychobabble you pull out of it?

Seriously man, you make such authoritative statement with information that is controversial at best, and flat out poppycock at its worse.

Have you ever worked in the field? Do you have any real life cred at all? Please share your opinions, but have the decency to present them in a reasonable and accurate manner if you are going to take the stance of someone who knows something about the subject.

"most"... "it leads"... "the key"...

My fuckin' head wants to implode.

Yes, that is my issue and I own it. However, since out of the hundreds of people I have heard speak of such things, you are the only one who has the effect on me, is it only my issue? Am I failing in good communication techniques with you? Instead am I insulting you because of some hidden issue I am unaware of or refuse to accept? If you suck my cock will it get better or worse?

I guess it's time for you to put on an alias and make adhominem attacks on me. Let 'er rip.


HalfHour