Is "once in a lifetime", so should only be given once in a lifetime. That's as opposed to giving them out freely which what some reviewers do.
I'm waiting for my first review to be posted, yay finally! I'm new on TER and have only seen a few people since ive started. Since then I've noticed something interesting.
Out of the 3 people ive seen so far only 1 has written me a review and asked me about the information he was going to put down to make sure it was all correct. I thought this was extremely sweet, but isnt this site about connecting through reviews.
Ive brought up how much i would appreciate a review to the other 2 guys but they brushed it off. Im not going to force anyone write a review even though i know ive showed them a really awesome time, but how many hobbyists actually write a review after there session?
Have any ladies had any problems with guys saying theyll write one then they never do?
Bleh feeling frustrated
Some say they will to make you feel better at the time and some or alot just wont Kiss and tell but I tend to write if I truly like the time I had or a little later mostly when another trip is in the travel plans so make a few weeks more in time. Just being honest and there is also the scheduling of time for such a review. and please dont feel bad I am sure everyone has a different reason of when or when not to review. more importantly keep your own head up and be careful keep safe and stay happy all three are very important in there own way. PS I like one who is petite so I will keep you in mind if our paths do get a chance to cross.
Mack
Youre so uplifiting, that actually makes a lot of sense. Haha I will keep what you said in mind and stop pouting! I hope our paths do cross one day.
And some just prefer to keep experiences to themselves, or some may no longer review even when they did in the past! Well, now that you posted here and since you have one review coming up, I'm pretty sure that you have attracted the attention of many people which is a great way to get reviews. Yes, it can be a frustrating process but I am sure you will be fine. Don't forget to post your weekly ad on your regional ad board. PM if you have any questions, I am always happy to help 
You are so sweet! Thank you for the genuine pep talk, makes me look forward to being able to help a newbie like myself one day once i get to where you are. Thank you once again for the insight youre a sweetheart!
Out of the 3 people ive seen so far only 1 has written me a review and asked me about the information he was going to put down to make sure it was all correct. I thought this was extremely sweet, but isnt this site about connecting through reviews.
Ive brought up how much i would appreciate a review to the other 2 guys but they brushed it off. Im not going to force anyone write a review even though i know ive showed them a really awesome time, but how many hobbyists actually write a review after there session?
Have any ladies had any problems with guys saying theyll write one then they never do?
Bleh feeling frustrated!
Uh .. NO. I may think I did an awesome review, but it sucks to get bitched at because it was a 9 and the provider thought it should have been a 10. And yes it happens.
Out of the 3 people ive seen so far only 1 has written me a review and asked me about the information he was going to put down to make sure it was all correct. I thought this was extremely sweet, but isnt this site about connecting through reviews.
Ive brought up how much i would appreciate a review to the other 2 guys but they brushed it off. Im not going to force anyone write a review even though i know ive showed them a really awesome time, but how many hobbyists actually write a review after there session?
Have any ladies had any problems with guys saying theyll write one then they never do?
Bleh feeling frustrated!
Oh wow! I would never be able to disrespect my client like that! I feel like that is crossing the line, anytime a provider should ever complain about a review is if they write straight up lies and are rude in the review. Which doesn't sound like your case at all. Im sorry you encountered some brats, they should be thankful you wrote one at all!
Im sorry babe, i really hate to hear upset hobbyist.
Kisses
xx
Keiko
Oh well ... There are more important things to get upset over. It Happens when you're dealing with very young "in the head" providers I've found. My own fault.I usually avoid the ones who think they are rock stars. I recently had an intelligent and very knowledgeable provider tell me that most people don't understand that an actual 10 review score requires that a second provider to be brought to the session and/or greek. Didn't know that myself, but it sounds like TER needs to do a little "tweaking" of their review submission process. Just my .02
That is a common, and completely untrue, misconception. Please read the review guidelines. To qualify for a 10 a girl must be willing to do certain things, but they do not have to happen in the session you have with her. Here is the exact wording (pay especially close attention to the last paragraph):
"For performance ratings, it is asked that you please save the 8, 9, and 10 ranks for situations where out of the ordinary services are provided (i.e. Blow Job - without condom, Kissing - with tongue, Anal - Yes, and Really Bi - Yes, More than One Guy - Yes). Of course, the 10 rating should be reserved for an experience that is really worth a million!
"An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum.
"This does not mean she earns extra points for offering these service(s); just that she is now eligible for a higher score. Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is performed during your session with her. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she offers, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score."
But I'm completely with you about the review manipulation -- it is all too common, and occurs among girls who take themselves too seriously.
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Seems like this is the easiest way to a 10 in performance....
Show up (not necessarily on time) gets her to a 7
Smiles....she's at 8
Talks for 30 minutes of a one hour session telling him what a stud he is....easy 9
Gets naked....BINGO...a 10
Other bonus points available include....
Breathing +1
Not on cell +1
TV not on +2
"For performance ratings, it is asked that you please save the 8, 9, and 10 ranks for situations where out of the ordinary services are provided (i.e. Blow Job - without condom, Kissing - with tongue, Anal - Yes, and Really Bi - Yes, More than One Guy - Yes). Of course, the 10 rating should be reserved for an experience that is really worth a million!
"An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum.
"This does not mean she earns extra points for offering these service(s); just that she is now eligible for a higher score. Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is performed during your session with her. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she offers, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score."
But I'm completely with you about the review manipulation -- it is all too common, and occurs among girls who take themselves too seriously.
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TV not on +2
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You should have. Guess the right response and you get an additional hour...sans the TV show.
I was with this escort and she had the TV on "to cover the noise" (yeah whatevs!) and she had on a cooking channel and Chopped was on... Surprisingly, it was great! She was hot as fuck and I remember flashing back and forth between the show (which I dig) and her pussy and then the show and fucking her! And then by the end it was like I could pay attention to both at the same time... Pretty much a peak experience...
I just hope she had fun watching the show.
Deckel (sp?) of beef or something????
Assuming this is a one-on-one date, the only matatical way for a girl to score legitimate 10 (aside from a negligent mod) is to be "willing" to kiss w/ tongue, BBBJ, and anal. That means that if the guys wants them she has to do them or she is not eligible for a 10.
BTW, swallowing should DEFINITELY be on that list! (And more than one guy at a time should not! EWWWWW!)
Is "once in a lifetime", so should only be given once in a lifetime. That's as opposed to giving them out freely which what some reviewers do.
Good thing I haven't given out my 10 yet. Wonder if they will ever become rare on TER .... Naaawww!
TER should put a "cap" on 10s thru their software, "Sorry NOT Allowed because you have given out a 10 in the past. PS you're an ASS"
New to the boards here. I had to start writing reviews as a tool for credibility, or so I thought. My current situation keeps my activity low, but I do not intend to review every session. I hate to write about the intimate details. I also agree with D.drew that it can be no win, depending on the lady and her friends. If I deviate from the expected score in either direction I get hammered.
As for you it looks like you are above average at 33% so don't get too down. Cute name IMHO
Like floyd1039, I'm also new to the hobby, and need to establish credibility by writing reviews. I also don't like writing abut the details, as I'm old fashioned, but I know that's how guys decide. It's how I decided who to see.
On my first review I gave the provider an 8, which I thought was fair. She went ballistic. The agency marketed her tight body, which was anything but tight after sitting in hotel rooms for months on tour. There were other things, too. I thought 8 was a good score for her.
The next I wrote was a 10, and I'll stand by that until I die.
I skipped a couple because I didn't want a repeat of the situation with the 8.
The last I wrote was a 9. She had a lot of 10's, but I didn't get a 10 performance. She didn't complain, which surprised me.
I'd really rather not write them, but they're a necessary evil. I also understand that they are indispensable advertising for the providers who are any good.
TER provides you with extra alias so you can write negative reviews with less fear of repercussions from providers. You put all of the reviews you're not sure about under that alias.
In fact if you want to be even more careful write the review ASAP while your experience is still fresh but save it on your hard drive and post it 2-3 weeks later so it would be more difficult for providers or their handlers to put 2 and 2 together. Those 2-3 weeks would also give you an opportunity to re-read your review and maybe even make some changes before actually posting it.
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I definitely can understand feeling weird about writing all the nitty gritty that comes with a session. When i read other peoples reviews some of them just seem so in depth, a little too in depth. But alas i guess thats where the lose-lose situation arises, too short someone complains, too long someone complains! Damn.. lol
Thanks for some insight, your compliment made me blush!
I find that there are basically 5 types of reviews most "hobbyists" post.
1. The infatuated post. Where "It was the greatest thing that ever happened! To anyone! EVER!" Other posters may call this the "White Knight" syndrome. Providers love this as it inflates their review score.
2. The "I can get free time on TER if I post ANY reviews..." self explanatory.
3. The "I performed every single acronym" post to impart to other users that they have a solid grasp on the abbreviations of different sexual positions and REALLY want to impress other viewers of their sexual prowess and knowledge. The actual appearance and skill level of the provider in question does not matter. The fact that they can type DATY, CG, RCG, Mish in one sentence is more important.
4. The cynical "I could do better than her" type which makes you wonder why they saw her? She HAS reviews. there's information out there on her. If she wasn't young enough/skinny enough why did you go see her?
5. The honest post. "She wasn't quite what I expected, but she was a lovely lady and she made me feel good."
Just make sure to NEVER offer discounts (at all!) for reviews. Don't press them for reviews. Asking is fine. And if you are lucky you'll meet some guys who will be more than happy to do that for you.
And, unfortunately, you must have thick skin sometimes. Any type of 1-4 may see you and will review you saying things that you might perceive as hurtful. Don't let it bother you. Remember MR. "She wasn't as hot as I thought she would be" has a tiny penis and hates life in general
But I love life!
Great post!
You forgot the guy who gets lost, and fucks up all of the time. :
I was leaving myself out!
Great post!
You forgot the guy who gets lost, and fucks up all of the time.
The problem with item 4 is taht there are providers who photoshop, use old pics and basically misrepresent their true looks. Yes you could turn and walk but once you are in the room it's pretty awkward to turn and run.
1. The infatuated post. Where "It was the greatest thing that ever happened! To anyone! EVER!" Other posters may call this the "White Knight" syndrome. Providers love this as it inflates their review score.
2. The "I can get free time on TER if I post ANY reviews..." self explanatory.
3. The "I performed every single acronym" post to impart to other users that they have a solid grasp on the abbreviations of different sexual positions and REALLY want to impress other viewers of their sexual prowess and knowledge. The actual appearance and skill level of the provider in question does not matter. The fact that they can type DATY, CG, RCG, Mish in one sentence is more important.
4. The cynical "I could do better than her" type which makes you wonder why they saw her? She HAS reviews. there's information out there on her. If she wasn't young enough/skinny enough why did you go see her?
5. The honest post. "She wasn't quite what I expected, but she was a lovely lady and she made me feel good."
Just make sure to NEVER offer discounts (at all!) for reviews. Don't press them for reviews. Asking is fine. And if you are lucky you'll meet some guys who will be more than happy to do that for you.
And, unfortunately, you must have thick skin sometimes. Any type of 1-4 may see you and will review you saying things that you might perceive as hurtful. Don't let it bother you. Remember MR. "She wasn't as hot as I thought she would be" has a tiny penis and hates life in general.
When a provider's photo don't jive
With what she looks like live
Only the brain
May wish to refrain
Cause little Dicky
Wants to get wet and sticky
He is hard and eager
Won't leave till he gets some beaver
So don't make a scene
Just take one for the team!
HaHa, Coffeebreak original baby!!!
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You sir! Are a genius! Maya Angelou may have passed but I know who should be the next Poet Laureate!
With what she looks like live
Only the brain
May wish to refrain
Cause little Dicky
Wants to get wet and sticky
He is hard and eager
Won't leave till he gets some beaver
So don't make a scene
Just take one for the team!
HaHa, Coffeebreak original baby!!!
Too funny! A very creative post. Now maybe for your next review, write an extended poem about it. WTH, who said reviews can’t have entertainment value as well.
They may be saving to write the review on a later date... Hobbyist get free VIP w/new reviews each month.. Some guys just don't want to... OMG I have so many who's told me they would & still to this day nothing & they've visiting more then twice... Lol..... Just hang in there, all of sudden u will have tons show up... Lol
I have never asked for a review, if I get one so be it...whether good, bad, or fake.
You shouldn't have the expectation of a review after every session, it's unrealistic really.
Just my provider opinion.
I would like to just write the juicy details of what happened, and get rid of all the scoring crap. As soon as you put a number on the appearance and performance, some of the women start losing a grip on their emotions. I can not blame them for that either, as I would not like a bunch of women scoring my appearance, stamina, or the size of my cock. I think it is more positive to just tell the events in the form of a juicy story, instead of summing up another human being as some number on the assembly line.
or if I feel the review would serve a purpose:
1. Help a new provider with few/no reviews;
2. New review for a provider with no recent reviews;
3. An extremely good or bad experience.
I will write one. I can't say that I "enjoy" doing it... for all the reasons others have mentioned.
Just keep a presence here on the boards, chat via PM, and be patient. The reviews will come.
I do enjoy helping out providers and fellow clients by writing reviews.
I see it as a karmic duty to help others the way I've been helped by others' reviews
from a selfish perspective if I really like someone I won't write a review in fear they will become too popular, but if I have an experience with somone that is totally inconsistent with prior reviews I might post something. I agree they are a hassle and demeaning in some ways, as menbtioned earlier.
... he is usually right on.
however, now that I've written a few, it's easier. Be patient, reviews will come. BTW, if in fact you have a review, you should get it linked to your ter handle. Contact ter adm and request they link the two.
Out of the 3 people ive seen so far only 1 has written me a review and asked me about the information he was going to put down to make sure it was all correct. I thought this was extremely sweet, but isnt this site about connecting through reviews.
Ive brought up how much i would appreciate a review to the other 2 guys but they brushed it off. Im not going to force anyone write a review even though i know ive showed them a really awesome time, but how many hobbyists actually write a review after there session?
Have any ladies had any problems with guys saying theyll write one then they never do?
Bleh feeling frustrated!
So I usually ask the lady if she would like a review or not, first telling her the rough scores. If she definitely wants a review, I will, but otherwise will not write a review of the session.
After all, once the experience is over all you have is the memory and what better way to remember it than to record a vivid description of it. I go back and read them and sort of re-live the experience. It's great.
And if the experience was bad you get to make her pay!