This is a topic that has probably been covered but I'm always curious as to how a woman gets started in this business...I've talked to a number of dancers and it is generally...well, I needed some extra money for (school, my kids, a new house, etc.) and I had a friend that did this so...I've not asked the women that I've met through this hobby out of respecting boundaries between our time together and the provider's private life.

What makes a woman decide to offer companionship to a man and how do they get started in the business?  

In case you are wondering, no I'm not trying to start my own agency, just curious about the human side of entering the industry.

Having been widowed for two years I was becoming more stressed due to lack of sex. I had seen a few guys during that period but they were all looking for relationships and thats the last thing I wanted. I also have a son in private education so decided to kill two birds with one stone. I am now a very happy chick who gets plenty sex and my son continues to be educated at Oxford. What more could a girl want

I started out as a dancer in vegas.    I was in the chorus line at the Stardust ... and after the show ... men kept coming up to me and asking to take me to dinner.   I'd tell them "Why don't you ask one of the girls instead?"    And they'd always say "because you have the legs and ass to die for" (can't argue that point).   So I started thinking.

Later  .. when I worked as an auto mechanic . I kept noticing the boss staring at my butt.    At first it was kinda weird and I asked him to stop.  He said "I'm sorry to have stared .... but you forget to wear any pants today."    He was right, this drinking has got to stop.

Then I got a job in an office.   And all the girls kept looking at me and giggling.   I checked my clothing, looked for boogers in my nose .... nope ... everything was A O.K.    So finaly, I asked one "why are you laughing at me?"  and one of the girls explained that they'd never seen a man with such messy hair.  I looked in the mirror and saw she was right - it was a terrible mess.   So I stuck out my tongue and slicked back my hair ...

and ever since then women having been paying me.

Life is good.

enjoy it while you can....lol

then you'll wake up next to the two hampers.

Cheers!

VR

Well, we've posted this before, but one night while having dinner out with my friend/FB/SO (whatever), we were talking about regrets in life, or lying on your deathbed and not having accomplished _____ and what would that be? What things would you like to accomplish, really? And I told him I've always wanted to be an escort, since I first saw "Owl and the Pussycat" when I was a young teen (even though I didn't know about the particulars of sex until I was 17!!). So, I wasn't quite sure exactly what she did, I just knew that someday, that was for me.
So, he said 'are you serious?', and I said 'yes' and he said well, then let's do it..

Cheers!

and she really wasn't a pretty girl, BUT she was great at her job.
I figured hell, if she can do this down in Key West and make money, I can go home to Philly and do this.

I have always been a sexual woman, ever since I was a teenager.

I figured, lets make this into something useful.

I first used the money to get out of debt, then control my savings, then save some cash, and now I am investing much much more. Most of my money made goes to my retirement fund!!!

Shaye



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After last week, I am so happy you got your start.  Thank you so much for your time, compassion, and affection.

F.

Reminds me of my recent restart in hobbying. Was bemoaning my fate in a loveless marriage that for numerous "practical" reasons is better perpetuated at this time than dissolved, when a similar aphorism struck me. Lying on my deathbed pondering my regrets I ask myself "What do I regret most not having done in my life?" Thus began hobbying in earnest. As stated previously it's the best damn compromise available. Still hoping for that elusive "10".
444

My story started in Vegas (the City of Sin, of course)

I didn't know any escorts or even know much about the business before I jumped in. Here's my story:

Last year after I broke up with my Vegas boyfriend, for the first time I'd be on my own coming home from clubs late at night. I was approached often by nicely-dressed guys in their 40's or 50's, asking politely if I was "working". I was taken aback at first, but laughed it off. Once a guy came up to me in a hotel lobby and asked if I was "Jessica from the agency", and once a cute stripper girlfriend and I were asked to name our price if we both went up to a guy's room. We just thought he was kidding.

I think men are more bold about approaching women in Vegas because there are a lot of call girls around, and they may assume any girl by herself is "working" (especially if she's wearing a short black dress, my favorite, LOL).

One night I finally realized how significant this could be for me. I had left a nightclub and was having a bite to eat in a dark, obscure corner of the hotel cafe. To my surprise, during my meal I was interrupted three times by men who came over to see if I was "available."

At that moment the lights came on in my head. I finally realized there were a LOT of men with disposable income willing to pay for adult fun.

Since I like sex...I like guys....I like girls....I like money...it all coalesced into a business opportunity for a girl who was adventurous and willing to take some risks.

The next day I got started.

I had been a massage therapist for years, giving only therapeutic massages, no extra's. But people always assumed I was doing something more. Then I went into dancing. I loved the attention and the money, but I got tired of the guys seeing how much they could get away with for just a buck. Then my boyfriend died suddenly in a motorcycle accident. I had to move, lost my car and I wasn't in a relationship and didn't want to be, but I still enjoyed sex. Then I saw the movie Dangerous Beauty. And that was it. Why not. I've had the best time since. I have traveled, gone to concerts, made great friends all over the world. It's not forever, but it's fun for now.

"A courtesan is a force of nature, cloaked in civility,"

Jacqueline Bissett from the movie Dangerous Beauty


love that insert Megan...and then some.

Cheers!

Love that movie and have it. When I saw it, I thought, yep, still planning on it..

I like the answer my ATF gave me when I asked her that question. She said "Because I could"