Pleas bear with me on this. Obviously most every provider uses the disclaimer to the effect that, "fees paid are for my time and companionship only...etc." You know what I mean. My question is, do any of you ever just take that for what it's worth?

My story. Recently my wife was out of town and the kids were staying the night at a friends. I decided to find a date. But my wants were specific. I wanted someone with a body unlike anything I'd had the pleasure of experiencing. All my past loves and my wife are your 12-16 size range and my wife already ahd had kids when we married. I wanted the young smaller tighter all ntural body that she never had since were together. I was able to find this and make an appointment in my home. I cleaned, put on the good sheets, bought a rose for by the bed and lit a dozen candles. Now I'll admit that I knew I'd get some physical love, but what I really hoped was that I'd be allowed to caress fondle and kiss this wonder ful creatures body and make out like a teenager again. Well she was all I had hoped and I had my every wish fullfilled. And not in the sexual sense of the word. After we were through I was over joyed at her need to leave. She stayed with e 2 hours past my scheduled time on a Friday night! I tipped her an additional 40% for the company. It was great sharing comparisons of the anatomy of differ orgasms, disscussing cars, loves, family. It was like a date. Funny thing is, I was afraid I might get emotionally attached to her. But after learning about her sexual drive I knew I could never keep up and was relieved that I didn't have to break up with her.

I just needed to share that.

So has anyone every had a simialr experience or am I just a sucker for the simple things?

I can appreciate where you are coming from on this one, as I too, enjoy the company of a service provider partially just because she is different than home, and partially because I can just leave the experience with great memories and no baggage.  I think that this is an appropriate utilisation of the SP's offerings.  The companionship is part of the service, the physical aspect just makes it more complete.  I am envious that you have been able to find what you were looking for in one shot...I think I am still looking for it and thus my dabbling in this hobby has become more of a habit.  Of well, at least its a fun journey.

Sounds like you had a great time. It is cool to read about an experience that lives up to a guy's expectations. I had a wonderful experience with a provider the first time I met her and now she is my ATF because we clicked on some many levels.

What a sweet man you seem to be, 38yroldvirgin and what a lucky girl that provider was, to be chosen to spend time with you...If only more Hobbyists were as thoughtful as you, I'm sure their YMMV, would lean more in their favor. But remember, it's all a Fantasy..!! With that in mind...Hobby on Sweetie, be a "Kid in a Candy Store", get those needs met and let that make you a much better husband, father, etc. in the REAL WORLD...Lots O' Licks, Robyn

No, you are not a sucker.  Everyone has various needs to fulfill and no, it isn't always about sex.  For example, I have a business man that comes to town a few times a year.  We go out to dinner, maybe take a walk after, depending the time of year, go back to his hotel for a night cap and then I am on my way.  He does spoil with limo service, champagne, flowers, gifts, candlelight....a very romantic atmosphere.  Our time more like very close friends and that is as far as it goes.

I asked him about it and why.  On business trips, the last thing he wants to do after a long day of meetings is take his free time to go to dinner with those same suits he has been facing all day.  A room with four walls is quite boring. Stranger in town, he had tried the bar scene which was very hit or miss.  It wasn't about picking up a lady, but just companionship be it man or woman.  Sometimes he would get lucky and engage in some interesting conversation with some gent he met and as for women, they didn't seem to understand his motivation and figured them as more trouble than they were worth, for he is happily married.

He didn't want a hardbody, for he was to self conscious that it would be obvious to people who he was there with, but beauty all the same with intelligent conversation.  Nice relaxing evenings,perfect atmosphere for the benefit of both and the piece of mind knowing that once the evening was over, that no reprecussions would come of it as might if he just met a wonderful lady on the street.  It is quite apparent the love he has for his wife and his fidelity to her is very important, but at the same token holds the lady he is with in the highest esteem and treats her the way he feels a lady should.  A very sweet man indeed.

But, it goes to show that everyone has differing needs in what they are looking for and there are no rules or right and wrong as to what your reasonings are for seeking our company as long as they do not compromise a lady in any way or puts her at risk.

Lauren

As others have said, you are no sucker.  You are, however, appreciate of what a woman can offer.

I see my ATFs because of what they offer besides sex.  I couldn't imagine having an ATF just for physical purposes and that is the greatest compliment I could pay to an ATF.

-Hoot.

She was afraid we might click and she might get "sucked in". I sorta forced the conversation, and now, two years later, we talk all the time (when we're not groping each other). In retrospect, hope she thinks she made the right choice in talking to me afterall.

It's winter so it can't be a homerun. What I mean is that you have experienced, in my book, that elusive creature we in the hobby refer to a a "GFE" (GirlFriend Experience).  Aside from the physical acts of sex we require, the psychological and emotional components of the "date" seem to have been fulfilled as you needed them. Congratulations.  It took many of us many, many attempts in this hobby to find such a "match".  In fact, if you read around on these boards, some of us are still looking.  And you seemed to find it pretty readily.  And congratulations for knowing what you wanted up front.

Lauren,
Thank you SO much for sharing that story. That was so lovely and how flattering for you as well as what that says about you and your company! Lucky you, lucky him, lucky wife! Talk about 'win-win'!

Sedona

Just remember that it's only a fantasy!

but I feel you're reading too much into my enjoyment. I feared it might lead to more emotional involvement, but having gotten to know her in our longer more talkative session, I know I never could filfill her wants...which is a little bit depressing, but her needs are far beyond the abilities of any mortal man. *L*

But it's not fantasy when you get what you want...fantasy is wanting it and not getting it. I got it...it just surprised me that's all.

Thanks for your response.

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