I started out as a "safe" escort meaning no kissing, DATY, and only CBJ.
I transitioned to GFE, along the way have explored more and more into BDSM.

But I now love and adore transsexuals.  I don't know if the hobby really influenced me that way, but my curiosity started to stir around the same time that I started P4P.

... is anything involving hitting or degrading the lady. Yes, even if she loves that kind of thing. It's just not how I'm wired. I'm ok with light stuff like wrist and/or ankle restraints, tease and denial, and blindfolds.  I've even passed up opportunities to give my ATF birthday spankings.  She wasn't deprived, though, more than enough other guys and also women glad to spank her lovely bottom.  

When I first started hobbying, I would have told you that I did not like body art...tattoos. piercings, avant-garde hair styles and colorings, to name a few.  This has largely changed...an early ATF was heavily inked, and often changed her hair coloring radically in keeping with her sideline professions as an avant-garde model and porn actress.  Rather than being turned off by this, I came around to seeing these things as turn-ons, especially since she was more than willing to discuss her rationale as our friendship grew.  My attitude evolved as a result...just a couple of weeks ago, at an M&G in NYC, the lady I met there that I would most likely see on a first time basis also was heavily inked, with a hairstyle that years ago would have automatically eliminated her from consideration.  While these things are not key by any means, they now actually factor in as positives.  Who would have thought?

Over 50% of the time, the gal will say yes, sometimes they are really into it, sometimes they will try it and see, sometimes they say no thanks, but at least now I know.

Tease and denial/BDSM.  

I was with a civilian lady a long time. She Did NOT Want DATY. 1 thing I thought I would never do with a hobby date, but it is because of the hobby I have been able to explore this art of providing  sexual pleasure. I am still learning but with the right provider I love to learn and explore.
 

I weighed untill night fall I wont get cough

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The things I won't do are too numerous to list

At one point in my life I never, ever desired to do Greek because it made me a little squeamish and nervous, frankly. I'm happy to say that I can now enjoy it very much with the right individual. It's amazing how tastes change over time!

FSBB, I'm usually down for whatever. Now, that doesn't always mean a first session, sometimes it's the 2nd, but there's very little in life that turns me off.

I find most of the trappings associated with BDSM too stagey for my tastes. The usual scripts and attire bore me. A person can look far more dominant or submissive in business attire, activewear, evening wear, nude, or nearly anything but the traditional leather and vinyl garb seen in the clubs, in my eyes. So, I never had much interest in the scene.

i enjoy spanking my girls, lightly, no marks, no anger, no damage.

i too find the external trappings of bdsm too cartoony for my tastes.  rubber suits?  spikes?  gimp masks?  what is this, halloween?

allow myself to be pegged, at least for the foreseeable future (next 60 years or so)

If you press on the sides of the throat and not much if at all on the windpipe you still get a controlling effect.

I never thought I would enjoy either one of these but I love this stuff!    
XOXO,  
TL

When I first started hobbying I wasn't very comfortable with it. Even though I had my wife's blessing to see sex workers I couldn't bring myself to DFK them. It felt like cheating even though it wasn't really. Now I have moved passed that and really enjoy DFK them.  

I don't think I'm playfully frivolous or unpredictable.    I'm playful, though.  Just not that kind of play.  

Yes, that it! I absolutely love consensual non consent!  
No, please!  No, Please!  Stop, no!!! Of course a safe word is used  
Nothing like a man taking charge of my pussy and ass!  Even better if its 2 guys and another woman
Mmmmmm....
XOXO,  
TL

I was doing mish on a touring K-girl and she was sort of rhythmically pushing and pulling to get me to move faster.  She punctuated that by slapping me on the ass.  It just struck me (no pun intended) as funny.  I think I would probably enjoy slapping some provider's ass.  In a playful way.  It's sort of a dominant move.  Kind of sets a mood.

Slapping of bums is kinda funny. In the strip club, even with the hottest girls, I have to hold back laughter when they start smacking their own asses a bunch.

i'll try it